It's probably the case with guys who have no interest in settling down or having a long-term relationship. To them a girlfriend is just a friend like any other friend. But she has the benefits of being female.
I have to admit that I went through my share of girlfriends for the same reason. I liked them a lot. I liked hanging out with them and doing things together. I was proud to be seen with them in public. I loved the feeling of infatuation. And of course there was all the sexual stuff.
But infatuation eventually fades. Maybe you start taking the girl for granted. I would eventually move on and try out a new relationship. I was never interested in starting a family, so that was also a factor in my aversion to permanent relationships.
It wasn't until I was older that I decided to think about finding a life partner. I've been happily married for almost 25 years now.
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Women who are afraid or awkward about talking about sex or sexuality.. lose my interest.
Women who blow up my phone and over text every single day... lose my interest.
Women who show no interest at all... lose my interest.
Women who talk about other men... lose my romantic interest.
Women on dating apps who have chest up pictures because they are afraid to reveal their true weight.. then when you talk to them they dont show you any more pictures that give you an idea of what she's working body wise... lose my interest.
Women who are bookish, choir, church girls who likely don't have a dirty thought of sex or can't handle an inappropriate joke... lose my interest.
Super feminist women who are man hating and are more interesting in political correctness than getting to know your true soul as a man... lose my interest!
It is normal for guys to loose interest in girls but there should be a reason always I really dont know why am not an expert
Same reason we lose interest in them. Eating the same thing over and over again gets boring.
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Mainly when he feels she lost interest in him , when it seems like he is the only one that is initiating contact with her , he starts to feel that maybe she isn’t interested cuz she never calls or messages first , so he starts to feel like she is a waste of time , Most guys are straight to the point if we like a girl we will compliment her by telling her we think she is beautiful and then tell her what we been up to to keep conversation going with her etc. He will do this for so long until he realizes she doesn’t do the same to him , So he looks at it like she was just being nice but she must not really like me cuz she doesn’t call or text him out of the blue just to see how he is doing , so that’s when he loses interest
part of why many modern relationships fail. is due to social media and dating sites/apps. people either become insecure about themselves or there relationship. that or why comment to someone long term. when there is someone else around the corner just one click or swipe away.
ideally to build a strong relationship you need 4 things.
1. strong mental bond
2. strong physical bond
3. strong emotional bond
4. strong sexual bond
if those weaken or go out of sync from each other. likely the relationship will fail over time.Flawed statement. Guys don't lose interest in girls easily. Some guys lose interest in some girls easily, and some girls lose interest in some guys easily.
Heartbreak causes you to resort to generalization, but remember that if they lose interest, then they weren't good for you.It depends what the interest was and how deep. I have a personal desire of wanting a woman for more than her body, but haven't found that woman nor has she found me. If they are only there for the physical they will leave with the next person that gives that feeling, but if they are in it for more than the physical you have a stronger and healthier relationship. You will be attracted to more than one person, but there can only be one really strong relationship between a man and woman. If centered on the physical, there is where it will fail. If centered around the non physical, the physical will have less impact.
If your standards are high then you will attract people that see your total worth not what they physically see. If you have low standards and attract that which has lower standards than you then you subject yourself to failure disappointment and heartache. Be real and be happy or be regular and accept what comes your way.
It's like this. 10% of guys have 90% of women beating down their doors constantly. They never go without female attention, so they take it for granted.
Now definitionally, 90% is MOST women. Chances are you have probably been chasing the same guy as like five or six or more other women at the same time. These guys have new options every day. And none of you are really that special, to them or in general. You're just a number.It can be the same in the reverse too. I think its all about the persons expectations. If you give it your all and act like its normal, they probably believe this is standard and expect the standard, which isn't sustainable. You start to relax and lower that standand and they may feel you dont really wanna bother anymore. I dont know for sure, its just a possibility.
Because modern women only have sex to offer. Seriously, there seems to have been a major dumbing down of modern women as all they can talk about is pop culture, social media, and gossip. If you put a gun to a modern woman's head she could not find China on a map. The complete lack of substance gets really old, very fast.
Interest as in a relationship or interest while just dating? I have never lost interest easily while in a relationship. While just dating, it is easy because you are still just getting familiar with one another and sometimes some behavior can just not sit well with you and you part from their company just like that.
I think they have their mindset for one thing
but rest assured not all guys are the same way
it took me a lot of years and thank God for the right
medication mixture I am able to say my life has some
what turned around for the better and I am so glad and
let me tell you GAG has changed me for the better and
there is still faith.It's all about having connections with each other and ones that being you both closer together. But if it's not strong enough of a connection then you move on to another person you can connect better with
Because...
- The guy no longer finds her as physically attractive,
- He finds her personality incompatible with his for whatever reason (boredom, lack of common interests, annoying, overly pessimistic or self-centered),
- She doesn't satisfy any of his emotional needs or at least not the most important ones,
- She doesn't show much interest in him and treats him more like an acquaintance or friend,
- A hotter, more interesting girl comes alongWomen always try to compete with me on many levels. Women seem to tag along a lot and want all of my time. I guy won't lose interest if he finds what he thinks of as an equal. I have been unsuccessful so far in finding an equal. Girls look up to men like they are teachers. That's not very romantic.
Women are too complicated. With the world being so difficult and so many women not promising long-term marriage and children anymore - there's really no sense in putting up with women anymore. Also remember that nowadays if we have a problem with women we're called sexists and misogynists. Honestly I haven't had a long-term relationship in 4 years because I've run away from all the girls I've been with afterwards at the first sign of stress or bullshit
I think it's because of a little "voice" in our heads... It says things like
"What am I missing out on?"
"I could do better"
"There's more to life than just this"
"Commitment? I want freedom"
It's a very dangerous thing to listen to! Some people "grow" out of it, and no longer listen to it. Others tend to keep it in mind. We must be knowledgeable!Because of the times we live in I think ! Too many dating sites, too much social media, too many options ... etc.
Most who lose interest aren't looking for anything serious, sadly looking for the next! A man's mentality isn't was hgv at it used to be 20 years ago most men felt lucky to win the love and respect from a Lady; nowadays, seems all anyone wants to do is have non-committal Sex !It takes time and energy to flirt with a girl.
At any point if a seed it isn't going anywhere he will lose interest quicker than spongebob can run to the rock a nd back.
This is because most girls like to waste your time and not be straightforward with you. Usually they will give off hints or vibes the guy doesn't pick up on.
After years of wasted time and effort a guy will try less and less with each woman and look for women who put out the quickest1. Too many demands and expectations.
2. Nothing to offer in return.
Example: I could spend three hours cooking a classy French meal from scratch, and serve an expensive bottle of wine with it, carry the entire conversation through dinner, pick her up and drive her back home... the whole deal... and 99% of women out there wouldn't have the manners to even offer, much less insist, to help me clean up afterward.Because girls think sex is the only way to a man's heart. For some girls, their bodies are seemingly all they have. They have no depth of character, so the guy gets bored and moves on.
Depends on the guys initial intentions. If he’s looking to hit it and quit it, he’s not sticking around for long. But if he’s planning for a longer relationship then he’s more likely to maintain interest over time.
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