Guys, If a girl asks what your intentions are after 3 dates, what do you say back and why?

[Anonymous]

[ecfresh]

It would depend on how I feel about her after those 3 dates. If we were connecting and I was into her then my intentions are to keep spending time together and hopefully leading to a committed longterm relationship. If I didn’t quite feel a connection but still felt a romantic attraction I would tell her my intentions are to keep planning fun dates and learning more about her as well as sharing more about me. With the goal of leading us to something more longterm. If I felt no romantic connection I would let her know that and that I appreciated time getting to know her.

Basically I would be honest.

Why do you ask?

[ecfresh]

Why? Because I want to get married and start a family. So in order for me to accomplish those goals I would need to meet someone and date them to see if we have a genuine connection.

[Asker]

Yuppp, same!

[ecfresh]

What did he say were his intentions after 3 dates?

[In_Trance]

I'd most likely walk away. If she feels the need to ask that, we're clearly not on the same page; which means we aren't communicating well. That said, it probably won't get any better.

[Asker]

What makes you say you aren't om the same page

[Asker]

Why would you walk away

[spartan55]

First of all, I would be immediately turned off. I would then say I don't know, because I wouldn't.
After three dates? WAY too soon to be asking that type of stuff.

[blkgold33]

3 dates I be like girl I don't even know what I'm having for breakfast some morning and if we even going to make it to 3 dates.

[Red_Dragon]

Hell it's not going to take 3 dates to figure that out. If I ain't smashing after the first then it ain't going to work out.

[Danny_dan92]

I usually am up front with my intentions from the get go.

So I don't know if my answer applied to all men

[BlessedDaddy]

If you don't know what a guys intentions are after 3 dates, start going out with someone else. You are wasting your time.

[Anonymous]

I’d be totally honest with them. If I wanted a real long term commitment I’d say so. If I wanted a sexual relationship I’d be honest. So on and so Fourth.

[MannMitAntworten]

Half of that still depends on you. If there existed an immediate sense of awe between the two of us, it wouldn’t even be a question.

[admles]

"Ask me again in a few more weeks when I get to know you better"

Three dates isn't enough time.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how I really feel about dating her. I'd answer her questions honestly.

[Fuentes]

Imma say shut up