Some guys just don't need compliments constantly like women do. Women put their entire importance on their appearance. Guys don't really worry so much unless he's trying to build muscle and that's different in my opinion. There are subtle compliments like when you find a girl checking you out.
Because thats how sexual orientation works. Women choose men, men chase women. Thats why men are stronger than women physically (to be preferable) , thats why male lions hair is busy and really long. Etc. Its different in only hyenas i think. Women hyenas are stronger and bigger therefore its probably them chasing
it's different in a lot of species but ok let's eat a single mom's babies whenever we move in with her just like lions do when they take over a new pride LOL
Lol that has nothing to do with compliments. It is not clear why men are bigger then women. Species that behave similar to humans have same sized genders.
seems to be the trend with snowflakes these days "they disagree with me because I'm wrong so I'll block them so I can still be wrong but not have to see their comments telling me I'm wrong"
@Silver158 EXACTLY This is a perfect example of another snowflake. She is butthurt because I debunked her islamophobic ass. Lots of people seem to know her to be crazy
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Never noticed men compliment girls that much... Except when they want sex obviously so they aren't really genuine compliment but compliment made in order to get something.
@Dongtai Easy, when it's a guy you barely know and he shower you with compliment then you know there' something fishy about it and he just want something out of you. No sane person would compliment people they barely know so much.
@alice55 Why is “sex” assumed to be that something though? Can a man like that not genuinely be interested in knowing who “you” are and wants to add positivity to your day by giving a few compliments? Everyone starts out as a stranger
@Dongtai No one do that, friends do this, they do give you compliment without wanting anything and they do it rarely or not a lot and they also don't give the same kind compliment. No stranger give compliment they don't know for no reasons, nobody talk to stranger anyway (at least in my country, it's really bad seen and people would be very suspicious of you if you talked with no reason with a stranger). So no stranger can't give compliment like this without any intention in mind.
It’s sad that there’s women out there that think like this. You’ll miss out on some pretty great guys thinking this way. A compliment can have intentions. But they don’t have to be bad ones. Compliments are a good way to lead into a meaningful conversation and an amazing connection. They break the ice and make people feel comfortable.
A man can notice a woman, tell her she’s beautiful while still having interest in knowing who she is and asking about her day while sincerely showing interest in “her day”.
I’ve met a lot of amazing women and experienced some worthwhile relationships doing this. Don’t assume all of us just want sex. Some of us want human connection.
@Dongtai I won't miss anyone since in my country we don't talk to stranger it's bad seen. Compliment make women extremely uncomfortable imagine a man I find unattractive and who's a stranger compliment then I definitely wouldn't want to talk to him and I would be creeped out by him but I would be worried he would become agressive with me if I just ignore him or just say thanks and walk away quickly. Complimenting stranger is just a bad idea, it have like 9 chance out of 10 to make the other person uncomfortable (and I'm in the majority here, at least in my country majority think this ways).
This is just creepy. Why would you want to know about a stranger life? Why would this stranger want to talk to yo about her day? There's no reasons to do so and it just give so many red flag, that's super suspicious to do that.
You can find human connection by your friends or joining a groups you don't need to talk to stranger for this... It's just extremely creepy.
Compliments make “you” uncomfortable and that’s ok. But you can’t speak for all women. “Imagine a man I find unattractive and who’s a stranger compliment me..” Meaning if you found him attractive you’d less uncomfortable?
When a woman tells me no or she gives off the vibe that she’s uncomfortable, I simply thank her for her time, tell her to have a good day and walk away. Maybe it’ll leave the thought in her head “Wow. I was kind of rude to him but he was polite anyway and left me alone when I told him to. Maybe all men aren’t so bad.”
I totally get that there’s guys out there who give women a hard time but casting all men in the same basket because of the ones that made you uncomfortable hurts everyone. That’s how you get men who cast all women into one basket and give up on them. I’ve met plenty of nasty women but I know there’s nice ones out there so I deal with t her mean ones until I meet the nice ones.
Like I said. I’ve had plenty of girls tell me about their day. At school I went up to a girl sitting outside and said “hey you look like an interesting person to talk to..” she ended up inviting me out for lunch. We talked about politics and changing the world. If I let all the rude girls before her make me assume all girls were mean I wouldn’t have made that memory. But I still remember her till this day.
Some girls do decline me and not every single girl is open. I respect it and politely dismiss myself. When they’re rude, yeah it stings but I just remind myself of all of the nice girls I met the exact same way and move on.
If you assume the worst in the world, it’s all you’ll see. If you assume all guys are one way, that’s all you’ll encounter. Both genders have this problem and in the end it hurts everyone. Men and women are individuals and each one is different unless you let your mind convince you otherwise
@Dongtai I don't speak for all women I speak for most cause I know that the ways most women feel (in my country). I wouldn't be uncomfortable then if I found him attractive cause I wouldn't have to reject him and so I don't have to worry about him getting agressive with me. Guys are pretty aggressive in my country, if you reject or ignore them they're just gonna insult you some may even push you or kick you (especially if they're in group).
Personally that would just make me want to go home as quickly as I can to avoid other people bothering me. I don't know a single girl that think this way...
I don't want to have to deal with people when I'm just going out to shopping or so, if I want to bother with people then I would just go on apps or go out with my friends and such. Why feeling the need to talk to stranger in the street who just wish to not be bothered? What signal did you get that make you thought they wanted to be talked to? Most women don't want to be bothered when in the street minding their own business (again this is in my country).
In my country the girl would have jus thought you were a creep and walk away, like I said here we don't talk to stranger. It's just a red flag to us.
I don't think all men are bad just that it doesn't make sense to talk to stranger in the street, it's dangerous to do so.
I’ve never seen an imbalance in my surroundings but obviously words of affirmation and adoration should be a two way street that shouldn’t be forced if you truly care for the person.
I don't compliment my boyfriend a lot because 1) he is not a female or caring ir desiring compliments 2) he prefers my respect and appreciation like any intheir right mind.
Bc men seem more interested in girls who play hard to get and treat them bad. I used to compliment an ex often and he would ask why I'm saying those things when he's the one who is supposed to compliment me
No one is remotely interested in hard to get women - interest is only shown because of the male social role of protector (those relationships always fail, with the htg bitch)
Yeah, and you are the one person on the planet who things otherwise, because you get use men. Not hard to see the benefit to you from peddling that misinformation.
I’ve been suddenly complimented by various women over the years, however I do tend to return a compliment to express my gratitude, yet women I compliment first never seem to return the favour 🤔
a lot of men are seekers who regularly compliment as a means to be liked by said women. While there are girls that do the same the number is vastly higher for men. Blame our sexdrive if you like.
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I will complement my guy friends and obviously my boyfriend on an almost constant basis... not strangers and I dont really like comments from strangers either... if they do complement me, I will complement them as it is polite social educate
I'm always telling my boyfriend he's sexy, beautiful act. I think it's important in a relationship to build each other up especially when they are feeling low.
Ofcourse it is common sense to compliment your partner that you're in a relationship with. I think the asker is speaking about women complimenting men who they aren't in a romantic relationship with. It's good to read that you support your boyfriend. We men, no matter how masculine and in control we are, can still be affected by circumstances. Keep up the good work
@TruthBringer yeah, i can understand that too. I don't like to compliment men who are my boyfriend too much because i don't want them to think im in to them but i might say something like "shoes look cool" or "you look very smart" to my male friends for example.
I don't compliment women it makes you seem desperate and thirsty af. That's why most women have inflated egos... far too many guys telling them they're hot (even when or especially when they're not...) hoping to get a shot at them.
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Some guys just don't need compliments constantly like women do. Women put their entire importance on their appearance. Guys don't really worry so much unless he's trying to build muscle and that's different in my opinion. There are subtle compliments like when you find a girl checking you out.
Because thats how sexual orientation works. Women choose men, men chase women. Thats why men are stronger than women physically (to be preferable) , thats why male lions hair is busy and really long. Etc. Its different in only hyenas i think. Women hyenas are stronger and bigger therefore its probably them chasing
Well said
it's different in a lot of species but ok let's eat a single mom's babies whenever we move in with her just like lions do when they take over a new pride LOL
Lol that has nothing to do with compliments.
It is not clear why men are bigger then women. Species that behave similar to humans have same sized genders.
Nah. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. So Men choose women.
You know that giving compliments as a woman doesn't by definition make you the chaser. You do realize that, right?
10 dislike? Wtf is your problem
You mean you are declaring you are not equal, yes?
Lmfao, someone can't handle people disagreeing with her. Hence why the 10 (eleven now) dislikes triggered her
@TruthBringer someone wants to get blocked again
seems to be the trend with snowflakes these days "they disagree with me because I'm wrong so I'll block them so I can still be wrong but not have to see their comments telling me I'm wrong"
@Silver158 EXACTLY This is a perfect example of another snowflake. She is butthurt because I debunked her islamophobic ass. Lots of people seem to know her to be crazy
@nonfrivolous Block me baby girl, only shows how much of a pathetic snowflake you are.
Why don't men compliment women as often as women compliment women?
From what I can gather , they are not welcome from men in general , so that would be why.
Why, men?
That is the question.
From what I can gather , they are not welcome from men in general , so that would be why.
Interesting 🤔
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Okie.
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I’m too nervous to full on compliment my crush but I’ll give hints.
If you want I can transfer your full on compliments to your crush
Haha I wish
I wish too
Never noticed men compliment girls that much... Except when they want sex obviously so they aren't really genuine compliment but compliment made in order to get something.
How can you tell the difference between a man you compliment you with strings attached and no strings attached?
@Dongtai Easy, when it's a guy you barely know and he shower you with compliment then you know there' something fishy about it and he just want something out of you. No sane person would compliment people they barely know so much.
@alice55 Why is “sex” assumed to be that something though? Can a man like that not genuinely be interested in knowing who “you” are and wants to add positivity to your day by giving a few compliments? Everyone starts out as a stranger
@Dongtai No one do that, friends do this, they do give you compliment without wanting anything and they do it rarely or not a lot and they also don't give the same kind compliment.
No stranger give compliment they don't know for no reasons, nobody talk to stranger anyway (at least in my country, it's really bad seen and people would be very suspicious of you if you talked with no reason with a stranger).
So no stranger can't give compliment like this without any intention in mind.
It’s sad that there’s women out there that think like this. You’ll miss out on some pretty great guys thinking this way. A compliment can have intentions. But they don’t have to be bad ones. Compliments are a good way to lead into a meaningful conversation and an amazing connection. They break the ice and make people feel comfortable.
A man can notice a woman, tell her she’s beautiful while still having interest in knowing who she is and asking about her day while sincerely showing interest in “her day”.
I’ve met a lot of amazing women and experienced some worthwhile relationships doing this. Don’t assume all of us just want sex. Some of us want human connection.
@Dongtai I won't miss anyone since in my country we don't talk to stranger it's bad seen.
Compliment make women extremely uncomfortable imagine a man I find unattractive and who's a stranger compliment then I definitely wouldn't want to talk to him and I would be creeped out by him but I would be worried he would become agressive with me if I just ignore him or just say thanks and walk away quickly.
Complimenting stranger is just a bad idea, it have like 9 chance out of 10 to make the other person uncomfortable (and I'm in the majority here, at least in my country majority think this ways).
This is just creepy. Why would you want to know about a stranger life? Why would this stranger want to talk to yo about her day? There's no reasons to do so and it just give so many red flag, that's super suspicious to do that.
You can find human connection by your friends or joining a groups you don't need to talk to stranger for this... It's just extremely creepy.
Compliments make “you” uncomfortable and that’s ok. But you can’t speak for all women. “Imagine a man I find unattractive and who’s a stranger compliment me..” Meaning if you found him attractive you’d less uncomfortable?
When a woman tells me no or she gives off the vibe that she’s uncomfortable, I simply thank her for her time, tell her to have a good day and walk away. Maybe it’ll leave the thought in her head “Wow. I was kind of rude to him but he was polite anyway and left me alone when I told him to. Maybe all men aren’t so bad.”
I totally get that there’s guys out there who give women a hard time but casting all men in the same basket because of the ones that made you uncomfortable hurts everyone. That’s how you get men who cast all women into one basket and give up on them. I’ve met plenty of nasty women but I know there’s nice ones out there so I deal with t her mean ones until I meet the nice ones.
Like I said. I’ve had plenty of girls tell me about their day. At school I went up to a girl sitting outside and said “hey you look like an interesting person to talk to..” she ended up inviting me out for lunch. We talked about politics and changing the world. If I let all the rude girls before her make me assume all girls were mean I wouldn’t have made that memory. But I still remember her till this day.
Some girls do decline me and not every single girl is open. I respect it and politely dismiss myself. When they’re rude, yeah it stings but I just remind myself of all of the nice girls I met the exact same way and move on.
If you assume the worst in the world, it’s all you’ll see. If you assume all guys are one way, that’s all you’ll encounter. Both genders have this problem and in the end it hurts everyone. Men and women are individuals and each one is different unless you let your mind convince you otherwise
@Dongtai I don't speak for all women I speak for most cause I know that the ways most women feel (in my country).
I wouldn't be uncomfortable then if I found him attractive cause I wouldn't have to reject him and so I don't have to worry about him getting agressive with me.
Guys are pretty aggressive in my country, if you reject or ignore them they're just gonna insult you some may even push you or kick you (especially if they're in group).
Personally that would just make me want to go home as quickly as I can to avoid other people bothering me.
I don't know a single girl that think this way...
I don't want to have to deal with people when I'm just going out to shopping or so, if I want to bother with people then I would just go on apps or go out with my friends and such. Why feeling the need to talk to stranger in the street who just wish to not be bothered? What signal did you get that make you thought they wanted to be talked to? Most women don't want to be bothered when in the street minding their own business (again this is in my country).
In my country the girl would have jus thought you were a creep and walk away, like I said here we don't talk to stranger. It's just a red flag to us.
I don't think all men are bad just that it doesn't make sense to talk to stranger in the street, it's dangerous to do so.
What country are you from?
I come off as too flirty. The flaky type even. Which couldn't be further from truth but I don't believe in giving myself out so early.
I don't know, man you flirt with me all the time
Guilty as charged.
Punish me, daddy
Like I've nothing better to do.
What you whippin out today
I'm bloody mary today
Does that mean you're a squirter, but you're on your period?
Wouldn't you like to know
I already know
Jk I dont pls sit on my face
I’ve never seen an imbalance in my surroundings but obviously words of affirmation and adoration should be a two way street that shouldn’t be forced if you truly care for the person.
I don't compliment my boyfriend a lot because 1) he is not a female or caring ir desiring compliments
2) he prefers my respect and appreciation like any intheir right mind.
Bc men seem more interested in girls who play hard to get and treat them bad.
I used to compliment an ex often and he would ask why I'm saying those things when he's the one who is supposed to compliment me
Well that's a social obligation to check what that poor upset woman is doing. And women use that card A LOT
@apollo3000 what are you talking about?
No one is remotely interested in hard to get women - interest is only shown because of the male social role of protector (those relationships always fail, with the htg bitch)
@apollo3000 that's what you think
Yeah, and you are the one person on the planet who things otherwise, because you get use men. Not hard to see the benefit to you from peddling that misinformation.
@apollo3000 "you get use men."
What's a use men?
Because...
I’ve been suddenly complimented by various women over the years, however I do tend to return a compliment to express my gratitude, yet women I compliment first never seem to return the favour 🤔
all your choice are bias AF so i didn't vote
If a man is hot i always tell them. If they got style i always verbalize it.
Nice
*biased.
a lot of men are seekers who regularly compliment as a means to be liked by said women. While there are girls that do the same the number is vastly higher for men. Blame our sexdrive if you like.
I will complement my guy friends and obviously my boyfriend on an almost constant basis... not strangers and I dont really like comments from strangers either... if they do complement me, I will complement them as it is polite social educate
I'm always telling my boyfriend he's sexy, beautiful act. I think it's important in a relationship to build each other up especially when they are feeling low.
Ofcourse it is common sense to compliment your partner that you're in a relationship with. I think the asker is speaking about women complimenting men who they aren't in a romantic relationship with. It's good to read that you support your boyfriend. We men, no matter how masculine and in control we are, can still be affected by circumstances. Keep up the good work
@TruthBringer yeah, i can understand that too. I don't like to compliment men who are my boyfriend too much because i don't want them to think im in to them but i might say something like "shoes look cool" or "you look very smart" to my male friends for example.
I do, but it has a ha it of them thinking I'm wanting to get their number. Which is far from the truth.
Cuz men sometimes don't know how to react to compliments. Even if some do we just be humble and try to make the woman the centre of attraction
because men will see it as flirting. I rarely compliment guys unless i reallyyyyyyyy mean it
We see it as flirting because we never get compliments 🤦🏽♂️
@ThiccNigro You get it.
@Thiccnigro would you mind if I asked that question on a separate post?
Yeah go ahead
I don't compliment women it makes you seem desperate and thirsty af. That's why most women have inflated egos... far too many guys telling them they're hot (even when or especially when they're not...) hoping to get a shot at them.
So true