What’s the real reason he doesn’t want to make plans to get together?

Anonymous
My friend with benefits always wants us to get together the last minute. At first I was excited about it but now I don’t like it anymore. He just wants to show up at my house while giving me an hour notice.
When I can’t I end up apologizing for it but is it my fault I had prior plans?
He says it’s hard for him to make plans. But what’s the real reason he can’t make plans in advance?
What’s the real reason he doesn’t want to make plans to get together?
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