What’s the real reason he doesn’t want to make plans to get together?

[Anonymous]

My friend with benefits always wants us to get together the last minute. At first I was excited about it but now I don’t like it anymore. He just wants to show up at my house while giving me an hour notice.
When I can’t I end up apologizing for it but is it my fault I had prior plans?
He says it’s hard for him to make plans. But what’s the real reason he can’t make plans in advance?

[spartan55]

Plans for what? To fuck? You are his free 🥧 to use as he wants. You agreed to that sleazy arrangement, and now you want something else, what a surprise!

[Wicked_Heaux]

Because you aren’t a priority in his life.

[Anonymous]

He's low on money