I think it's a myth unless they are cheating with the same woman? Or cheating with themselves or other men 😂
I think it's normal though because of my factors, I think the consequences of the cheating behaviour are not nice and no one deserves them. So I really people should not do such things.
I think the fact that men, on average, cheat more than women, is the product of cultural norms. If it were a biological response, then cheating rates across the globe would be pretty level.
Seeing as how there is as much as a 40% difference between the number of men who cheat in the country with highest rates of infidelity and country with lowest rates, I think itβd be safe to assume that blaming it on simply having a dick would be hugely oversimplifying things.
what survey did you conduct to arrive at this conclusion that men cheat more than women or vice versa?
cheating is not a gender trait and is not a thing determined by gender but by morals and ethics of the person. Being a man or woman has nothing to do with it. Being an asshole person has everything to do with it
If they are it's not by genetics It's by society, the "boys will be boys"mindset. Or that men have a higher sex drive. What though does "higher sex drive" have to do with cheating? That's just a poor excuse for lack of character... And it's not just men cheating. Women cheat too... Maybe it seems like more men cheat, because more women put up with cheaters, then a man will...
The classic line.. I didn't think we were exclusive because we didn't talk about it.. Her: you said you loved me..
This is just a guy looking for the perfect woman. Most guys will talk to 3 or more women at a time and play the numbers games. When you date these men after a month or so you'll find these women in his phone. Probably even after a relationship has started as you can't change the man, the man has to change for you. It's a respect thing..
According to my father, they have a different nature than women. Being a sexist, he would always say the same story: men need sex and even if he's married and has a fling outside the marriage, it wouldn't count as cheating. If the wife did that, it would. Because men cheat for sex and fun and women for feelings.
No i dont agree i believe that u would cheat if u wasn't a loyal kind of person i really dont matter your back ground its about who u are as a individual
Nah, we cheat because we feel a stronger connection with someone else that matters to us, but you're so codependent on us and the sex is good. So why not!!
@bamesjond0069 Yeah women cheat all the time lmao. They are only loyal to the dude who takes their virginity, after that women really dont care about anything Women almost always cheat up. All it takes is some wealthy dude to give them a little attention. and its a game over.
Nope. I've never cheated and never will. I don't see any use for cheating at all. Don't know why others do but if I can take a guess. A small number happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time while they were weak at that moment. The rest of the group are just stupid
i dont cheat and wouldn't so the ones who do are corrupted by sex. It dominates their life, they only see each other as objects and completely ignore their partner's values. It's also a fact that women conceal their cheating better than men, which gives the illusion they are innocent. I decided to be the guy who a married woman would cheat with to find out how.
As a reproductive strategy from our earliest beginnings, young men were programmed to impregnate as many females as they could. And back then, there were few old men. That appetite has never been bred out of us but we have the free will to resist it.
No, we're not pre-programmed to cheat as if it's our fate to do so. Anyone can cheat, but whether you will or not depend on how much you value your relationship. People who cheat, girl or guy, mainly cheat because they just don't value the relationship they're in enough for whatever reason.
I used to believe men were more likely to cheat and be promiscuous but given the evidence and experience I've come across over my lifetime if argue it's women who are more likely to be cheaters. Or at the very least more likely to be promiscuous. Which seems to be due to a change in culture that resulted from contraceptives being introduced. Women have evolved. Sadly, to the detriment of men.
I suppose it comes down to sex drive. Women don't have the same sex drive that a man has therefore we find it easier to stay loyal and can go for long periods without sex whereas men don't.
Men cheat I suppose when he settled down with someone he doesn't love and he feel that the woman isn't right for him. Whereas if he was crazy about the woman then he wouldn't cheat.
Men are more hardwired to be promiscuous and spread their seeds as it was the norm back in the olden times.
Could also have a love or sex addiction and being using sex workers to fill the void and excitement he needs in his life.. knowing if they ever found out it would be over.. but persist regardless because he loves doing it.. but will regret all the pain he causes you later..
This is a good answer, but I hate that it's true. Makes me feel like my programming is faulty and that I have to work harder to be a good person. My first girlfriend spent a month overseas, and she seemed happy as a clam. I was in hell
It really comes down to beliefs. When asked, both male and female cheaters believe it is wrong for their partner to cheat. If men and women held that same rule for themselves, no one would cheat. Then it comes down to your source of right and wrong. Women are just as prone, but men promote it more.
We are pre programmed to spread our seed yes. But we are no more programmed to cheat as women are
Each instance needs to be looked at individually to see where the issue lies, could be thee guy is just a prick. But could also be due to lack of sexual communication
Statistics show men and wemon cheat at about the same rate. Most women will only go for top 20%, generally speaking, they have plenty options. Options make for opportunities.
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I think it's a myth unless they are cheating with the same woman? Or cheating with themselves or other men 😂
I think it's normal though because of my factors, I think the consequences of the cheating behaviour are not nice and no one deserves them. So I really people should not do such things.
Ugh typo many factors*****
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Yeah how are you π
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It is all related to a problem of RESPONSIBILITY for both genders.
I think the fact that men, on average, cheat more than women, is the product of cultural norms. If it were a biological response, then cheating rates across the globe would be pretty level.
Seeing as how there is as much as a 40% difference between the number of men who cheat in the country with highest rates of infidelity and country with lowest rates, I think itβd be safe to assume that blaming it on simply having a dick would be hugely oversimplifying things.
what survey did you conduct to arrive at this conclusion that men cheat more than women or vice versa?
cheating is not a gender trait and is not a thing determined by gender but by morals and ethics of the person. Being a man or woman has nothing to do with it. Being an asshole person has everything to do with it
If they are it's not by genetics It's by society, the "boys will be boys"mindset. Or that men have a higher sex drive. What though does "higher sex drive" have to do with cheating? That's just a poor excuse for lack of character... And it's not just men cheating. Women cheat too... Maybe it seems like more men cheat, because more women put up with cheaters, then a man will...
The classic line.. I didn't think we were exclusive because we didn't talk about it.. Her: you said you loved me..
This is just a guy looking for the perfect woman. Most guys will talk to 3 or more women at a time and play the numbers games. When you date these men after a month or so you'll find these women in his phone. Probably even after a relationship has started as you can't change the man, the man has to change for you. It's a respect thing..
According to my father, they have a different nature than women. Being a sexist, he would always say the same story: men need sex and even if he's married and has a fling outside the marriage, it wouldn't count as cheating. If the wife did that, it would. Because men cheat for sex and fun and women for feelings.
No i dont agree i believe that u would cheat if u wasn't a loyal kind of person i really dont matter your back ground its about who u are as a individual
Nah, we cheat because we feel a stronger connection with someone else that matters to us, but you're so codependent on us and the sex is good. So why not!!
Nice Deedee
I was just quoting my dad, you guys
All the guys who women want cheat
So like 10% of guys fuck all the girls
then the other 90% fight for the scraps lmao
The problem is all girls want that top 10%, and that 10% has so much sexual attention they will cheat wayyy more. So the men who do cheat, cheat more!
I think the top percentage of men often cheat because they know they can get away with it. But i also am sure dominant women cheat a lot as well.
@bamesjond0069 Yeah women cheat all the time lmao.
They are only loyal to the dude who takes their virginity, after that women really dont care about anything
Women almost always cheat up. All it takes is some wealthy dude to give them a little attention. and its a game over.
Yeah. I think the more dominant they are in the relationship the more likely they are as well.
@bamesjond0069 well,,,,,, that wasn't the question sir.
I think aggressive men are programed to cheat. Mainly by society but in part biology
Nope. I've never cheated and never will. I don't see any use for cheating at all. Don't know why others do but if I can take a guess. A small number happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time while they were weak at that moment. The rest of the group are just stupid
i dont cheat and wouldn't so the ones who do are corrupted by sex. It dominates their life, they only see each other as objects and completely ignore their partner's values.
It's also a fact that women conceal their cheating better than men, which gives the illusion they are innocent. I decided to be the guy who a married woman would cheat with to find out how.
As a reproductive strategy from our earliest beginnings, young men were programmed to impregnate as many females as they could. And back then, there were few old men. That appetite has never been bred out of us but we have the free will to resist it.
No, we're not pre-programmed to cheat as if it's our fate to do so.
Anyone can cheat, but whether you will or not depend on how much you value your relationship. People who cheat, girl or guy, mainly cheat because they just don't value the relationship they're in enough for whatever reason.
I used to believe men were more likely to cheat and be promiscuous but given the evidence and experience I've come across over my lifetime if argue it's women who are more likely to be cheaters. Or at the very least more likely to be promiscuous. Which seems to be due to a change in culture that resulted from contraceptives being introduced. Women have evolved. Sadly, to the detriment of men.
I suppose it comes down to sex drive. Women don't have the same sex drive that a man has therefore we find it easier to stay loyal and can go for long periods without sex whereas men don't.
Men cheat I suppose when he settled down with someone he doesn't love and he feel that the woman isn't right for him. Whereas if he was crazy about the woman then he wouldn't cheat.
Men are more hardwired to be promiscuous and spread their seeds as it was the norm back in the olden times.
Could also have a love or sex addiction and being using sex workers to fill the void and excitement he needs in his life.. knowing if they ever found out it would be over.. but persist regardless because he loves doing it.. but will regret all the pain he causes you later..
This is a good answer, but I hate that it's true. Makes me feel like my programming is faulty and that I have to work harder to be a good person. My first girlfriend spent a month overseas, and she seemed happy as a clam. I was in hell
I think so, nature has them to reproduce as much as possible
Me too
It really comes down to beliefs. When asked, both male and female cheaters believe it is wrong for their partner to cheat. If men and women held that same rule for themselves, no one would cheat. Then it comes down to your source of right and wrong. Women are just as prone, but men promote it more.
I would blame it on their poor upbringing that dont know how respect women around them and just use them for thier pleasure
I love your answers
Thanks ππ
Men don't cheat more than women.
https://nymag.com/article/2016/05/women-are-now-cheating-as-much-as-men-but-with-fewer-consequences.html
We are pre programmed to spread our seed yes. But we are no more programmed to cheat as women are
Each instance needs to be looked at individually to see where the issue lies, could be thee guy is just a prick. But could also be due to lack of sexual communication
They really dont, its more of the type of individual.
Maybe
Statistics show men and wemon cheat at about the same rate. Most women will only go for top 20%, generally speaking, they have plenty options. Options make for opportunities.