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No, not at all. Cheating is a choice. One can freely choose to or not to make it. I mean, if men (or anyone for that matter) is hardwired to cheat, they can't call guys like me stupid, mindless, gullible, etc.
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Biologically men want to spread their seed by instinct and women want to monkey branch via hypergamy to better secure resources.
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No definitely not. There are some claims that men are designed to spread their seed as much as possible. Which is such a lie. Men are designed to spread their seed to one women, create a family and then provide for that family. Itd be impossible for a guy to provide to even 5+ families if he just really thought spreading his seed everywhere was the right thing to do. Like have you ever watched the show sister wives? That right there is enough to prove that having multiple child with multiple women and trying to be there for everyone is damn near impossible.
No I believe the men that cheat are hardwired to try to justify their behavior and the behavior of other cheaters... Nobody is hardwired to cheat because of gender. That's more a character/personality flaw hardwired in that individual... There's no justification for cheating.
It doesn't matter. People can control themselves
Men with options can cheat, and also for it to be acceptable. Women will share a man of high value.
From a bilogical standpoint, marriage and serious relationships are limiting. In the animal kingdom, the more mates, the more he is actually bilogically successful. If he sires 100 children, his pronounced DNA will go on for thousands of generations.
It's said that many white people have Alexander the Great's genes because he was impregnating women wildly. Same for Ginghis Khan and many other supreme leaders of their time.
It's not about finding the forever woman and popping out a couple of kids. That's for the betas. Not to make fun of the betas, most men are not high caliber guys. The most ideal way is the impregnate a woman and let a beta raise him as his own, as many women are willing to pass off the pregnancy to cuck the beta to care and provide.
All of this modern inventions like marriage, which is only few to four thousand years old to capture women from the tribes in a program to keep any one man, or group of men, to sire all the children., No a cheater is hardwired
To cheat period , men and women can be cheaters , Cheating can occur for a lot of reasons sadly to say , but I guess it just comes down to how you handle it , The person being cheated on is always going to suffer the worse bottom line. , The cheater is just going to suffer for being considered a piece of shit and live with the guilty conscious of not being faithful , To me the worst Cheater is the cheater trying to go back to the partner they cheated on like nothing happened , they are living a lie and just wasting more time with someone they really donât love and value if they didnât get busted or if they did get busted and still trying to get their partner back which is even more dumb , The thing is if you are going to cheat on a partner end the relationship with that person , You already proved to yourself that you donât value and love your partner if you can cheat on them , so why fool yourself and try to stay with that partner? People hate to admit They are wrong , A cheater will make every excuse to why they cheated and act like they are a victim, when really they should just admit they are a piece of shit or they are unhappy in the relationship or unfulfilled but most people canât do that , I have had sex with married women that I didnât know were married until after the fact , And they went back to their husbands Cuz it was convenient for them , I just Shake my head , The one girlâs husband found out and he still took her back , like what the fuck is wrong with people , My ex wife cheated on me and tried getting me back , I just laugh , I forgave her but I never forget , so why waste your time on someone that doesnât value you like you value them , life is too short to live without finding true love , It seems people today just settle for convenience and missing out on finding true love , Itâs sad what this world has become. I will never give myself 100 percent to someone that treats me like a convenience ,Before monogamy was widespread, men would attempt to take multiple wives to assure the propagation of their genetic line. Only the strongest, most fit men succeeded, leaving some men with one wife and a large number without any partner at all. The most biologically fit women would tend to end up with top-tier men either as a result of bride stealing (especially in hunter-gatherer and nomadic societies) or by their (or their familyâs) choice. Large numbers of men who cannot have families tend to cause a great deal of social instability and fighting for obvious reasons. Monogamy evolved because it allowed lower-status men to find sexual partners, which reduced the amount of violence such that children were more apt to survive. It was an evolutionary adaptation.
However, non-monogamous behavior, while disadvantageous to the species as a whole, did not simply disappear. Some women will find a partner who provides stability but, unable to gain the commitment of a top-tier man, will cheat with a higher-status man. The subconscious, hard-wired goal for the woman is to gain the higher-status manâs child while also benefitting from the stability of a committed father. The man who cheats has the old, subconscious goal of propagating his genetic line. Some studies have found a surprisingly large minority of children are conceived in this way.
It is possible to say that monogamy is hard-wired and the urge to cheat is hard-wired. Monogamy is advantageous to the species as a whole so in stable civilizations cheating is socially condemned, but monogamy is new enough that more primal urges remain.I think all people are hardwired to cheat it's just a choice on who you want to be or who you are same with women if you think about it every time that you've been in a relationship here comes the opportunity where to put out in front of you and you have to make that choice every single one of us I believe they've been through it it's not a tough choice there's many scenarios that will take you to that fine line of wanting to do it and not doing it it's called The Choice that's all we all have is one choice we either do it or we don't this is what I don't understand though
No matter what it's just a matter of time if you do it you're going to get caught and then you going to have to pay some sort of price
But there are those people who think that they're smarter and no better and they will get caught but eventually you do and all the lies going home to your spouse pretending that you like them you love them acting as if nothing has happened just makes you look like a big ass fake fraud
So when you do make that choice why don't you just take that next step and split up with your spouse so you don't have to look like that big fool art make your spouse feel that pain of you cheating on them and trying to lie and get away with it that's the part I don't understand just walk away if you're going to do it walk away first be done with it and then do itI'd say on a subconscious level yes being in a monogamous relationship is a social construct.
Genetically the male drive is to spread there seed to as many sexual partners as possible, without the social construct of relationship and marriage men would be more likely to sleep with a woman till he knocks her up then move on.
Women don't typically have the same drive subconsciously they are looking for the best male specimen to provide good genetic material and because all they need is one source for that material makes them more likely to be monogamous.I wouldn't say hardwired. But, tempted and likely because society tells them to play the field before settling down to marry. That only creates a thirst while married if one doesn't have self-control. They miss the attention, their ego stroke, variety of sex and different personalities of women. Plus, it's acceptable by society in ways to have a side chick.
Women cheat as well. If a woman cheats, on average, her husband or boyfriend will not forgive her. But, if a man cheats, a woman is more forgiven, want to go marriage counseling, etc. She'll only be quick to divorce if a child is involved. There's no return for her if that happens.I donât think so and I think it does nothing, but make you miserable.
I call it a âfast like.â You go in, you have sex. Whatâs that like for the average person? 30-45 minutes of fun. You may cuddle afterwards, but it doesnât mean anything. Now, you have all that guilt to deal with for 23 hours and 15-30 minutes.
Unless, youâre a real dirtbag and have rationalized what youâre doing is ok because of such and such.
Now for people who have discipline. It may be tough at first, but you will feel much better in the long run.No I do not think they are hard wired to cheat.
Between both sexes they tend to have the worst decision making process.
a lot are hard wired to be arseholes.
a conversation before lockdown pretty much compared men to their attitude to cheating, to toilet seats.
itâs a well known fact that men often leave a toilet seat up,
they know it needs to go down, that their other half will be pissed off.
itâs a basic rule of life, the seat goes down.
however while a lot of men understand this and always but the seat down.
there is a camp of men where either they simply never do put it down, why should they? They are after all men.
then there is the other lot that occasionally put it down, but now and then forget, rather than simply admit they fucked up, they come up with some rubbish reason why the seat was left up, and how they are not the guilty party nor the only one that leaves it up.I think in any man (or woman) there could be a temptation to cheat. But if a man's will is strong then he won't cheat. Better yet... If his mind is already made up then he won't allow himself to be tempted.
No but guys being visual beings can be easier tempted to do so. Guys especially nowadays don´t train their ability of self-control. There are places where we meet other attractive girls. Some of us have a higher sex drive than others, combined with a more dominant character they are more likely to cheat than other guys.
Such as women are different guys are as well.I do believe that if a guy really and truly likes or loves the woman heâs with, and is happy in the relationship, he wonât cheat because SHE will be enough for him and the only one who can satisfy him. No one will compare. I have seen total players/ladies men who no one thought would ever stay faithful to one woman , become complete simps when they settled down and found the right one. And they even ASKED for commitment and wouldnât entertain any other woman.
No of course not.
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We are in a weird American culture.
I have to ask a question. Are women hard-wired to dislike men who are virgins?No more then women are. Any one who claims men wanting sex is evidence of them being hardwired to cheat has to then claim that humans liking fat and sugar is evidence that we are meant to be morbidly obese and diabetic and that would be a pretty moronic argument to make.
Men are designed to reproduce as much as possible, so yes, I suppose you can make that argument. Relationships are man-made concepts, not naturally occurring things. However, we're also rational and intelligent creatures who often suppress our instincts in the interest of civility. So that's not exactly an excuse.
"cheat"... interesting concept... let's see, men were designed to impregnate as many females as they can... a real stud can manage a few a week if they are all in the right time of their "Periods"... why is that? women can have a baby every 12 months or whenever they stop breastfeeding they become fertile again... so guys can bang out a couple of dozen kids a year, girls can have 1... Blame God... civilization only goes so far... a dog will hump until he goes blind if he is able to, it's "Biology"
so the guys that don't Cheat, are going against Nature, a lot of Us do... some cannotNo, thats just bs cheaters make up, a lot of times people will try to use made up instinctual bs as if humans aren't capable of reason or logic when it comes to managing needs or wants. humans are hardwired to make choices, and how we make choices depends on what we know or what we think we know.
MAYBE.
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Eggs are far more valuable and rare then sperm. Men are not designed to pass up oppurtunities to fertelize eggs.
A sperm donor may get $200-300 for billions of sperm.
An egg Donor can get anywhere from $20,000 to $80,000 for an EGG.
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