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Should men also learn household chores and cooking? (Page 2)
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Definitely to some extent. Because it makes the person better i. e. more disciplined, responsible and able.
don't most guys do that already? I know how to clean cook, clean, seep, and mop.
Should men learn how to be independent adults? Yes.
I don't know. That sounds kind of hard
@SuccessfulHornDog ask your mom to help you
I would but she is dead
@SuccessfulHornDog oh well, pick up a book. And if you’re illiterate, download an audio version
My mother used to read books to me, but now she's dead :((
@SuccessfulHornDog oh well
Please stop, your compassion is embarrassing me
@SuccessfulHornDog
I don’t have compassion for anyone who uses typical life adversity’s as a crutch to not better themselves when they clearly have an EASY choice to make. It’s really not hard to wipe your own ass and flush the toilet. I’m sure it would be nice to have some motherly assistance but we don’t all get what we want. And you walking around with shit stains in your boxers is a personal choice but I’m not about to feel sorry for you. You still stink 😂
I dont stink !
well yeah.. i mean there are men who live alone so they kinda have no choice.
I have 5 brothers they can all cook. I think every man should be able to cook & clean.
Where are you from that men don't know these things?
your gonna be surprised how back in time some people's minds are
I mean I get that things may be different for some folks due to cultures.. but for me I wouldn't NOT want to learn or do these things for myself and for the person I'm with.
If you have to learn you're probably retarded. It's all common sense.
Sure why not. I like to cook. I don't like doing dishes and stuff nut still do it. Needs to be done^^
Unless they want to live in a roach infested, rat & mice infested, filthiest, hoarder, nasty disgusting home & with skin and bones begging for a nickel for some bread. I best they get to learning how to survive with a warm meal & clean house.
Everyone should. What do you think men do when their single?
I am single and do everything around the house.
Well, considering very few women know how to cook today and I know a lot more men than women who are good cooks, I would say this is not really a valid question.
Its a lifeskill everyone should know to a basic degree at least.
I feel like any decent adult men already know basic stuff.
Even if they don't its worth knowing.
Absolutely. Everyone should know how to take care of their basic needs.
Yeahhhh my husband is delusional if he thinks imma be a dishwasher
They sell machines called dishwashers now. Just to put that out there
Well, these are skills necessary for basic living so I say yes.
Yeah. It’s called learning to do your own shit. :/
Absolutely. I mean I really can’t cook at all, but I can do a damn good job of cleaning. We’re well past the point that these are things “only women should do”
Of course. Any adult should know how to take care of themselves and their home.
Does that even have to be asked? What is it with this site and it’s 1920s obsession?
Of course. These things are basic life skills and what woman wants a man-child?
every adult should know how to fully take care of himself
Yo! This dude is spittin straight facts right now, Joe! That is legit the base idea! Period point blank!
Sure. But if you think men and women are the same you're insane.
It's about survival, not about impressing women. Do it for you and set a standard for yourself.
It gives you a leverage and the ability to be a little more picky.
Of course. It's about survival... not every man can know for sure there will always a woman by his side to help him cook or do his stuff for him.
Of course. Not just to challenge gender traditions, but they are basic life skills. Anyone who doesn't make an effort is very immature.
Yes. All humans should know basic modern day survival skills. If the doesn't, he's a mama's boy, entitled, and lazy. Stay away from those types of men.
Of course... Everyone should. Those are basic human survival skills.
I perfer that they didn't. they just get in the way and I have OCD when it comes to cleaning anyway
I do it every day, live alone. I would think most men do it who live alone.
Men and women who can't do that are adult children.
Yes because I'll need a break from cooking sometimes
Yes. to look after themselves and even impress a potential date
What? lol? I have my own house and I do all the chores and cooking.
Of course. In this way he won't get suckered into overpaying for a low-quality woman to "take care" of the house.
Of course!! A relationship is a equal partnership, if a relationship is lip sided it will be more likely to fail.
If you expect to have a clean house and good food, ya better. It's not like women do much of anything anymore.
I know a lot of women who have a job/career, help raise kids, help clean, help cook, help with laundry etc.
Everyone should take part in household chores and share the work as everyone has a part to play in this life especially when living with roommates or friends or family
Plus everyone should help out with cooking and cleaning and with house hold chores and it's only fair to split up the work for each person that shares the same house and should share the work around the house and outdoor clean up
Most guys do. If not as a kid, then over the 5-10 adult years he'll spend living as a bachelor.
Yes!!! 💯 percent! Both partners need to contribute and help each other out 50/50
I think it would be a healthy and wise thing to learn, In the event it should be required!
men are taught household chores. Men are better at cooking. Look at the majority of famous chefs. We should be teaching women how to do the hard jobs, the deadly jobs, the d it disgusting jobs.
Not so much that. Its the shear reality of equality. Women and men can both do delicate and damaging work. Men and women should be able to choose their profession openly. She wanna be a hard hat wearing construction worker? Get that money! He wanna be a front desk clerk to a major company? Shit, wear that smile, get that money! It's not about sex its about ability. What can you do that can make you money. I dont work in difficult fields. I work as an artist. Its really delicate work. Im a big ass black dude. My father said I should be playing football. Naw, im an artist cause thats who I am. Those are my skills. Do what you like, live how you like. As long as you happy doing you its all good in the neighborhood!
@ChaoticVortex A female “construction worker” does not and will not perform at the level a male does, although she will likely demand equal pay for lesser work.
Men can and do... every job women do, often times better than any female. For example: Top chefs are mostly male. But women can not do many of the jobs men do at an equal level.
The question though was “should men learn household chores like cooking and cleaning”... which they are taught and do. But many of the women whining about men who “don’t help around the house” always fail to recognize the level of work men do compared to them, the longer hours, and the grunt crappy house work, which the women don’t want to do.
Naw i dont think so homie you just lazy. I work long hours and clean my house. Dont need a woman to do it. She can work too.
@ChaoticVortex Where did I say I didn’t do house chores?
@ChaoticVortex But you’re shaming tactic was noted.
Being independent of women is a benefit and mandatory in current times.
Yeah... though I wouldn’t say I know how to cook. At least not well.
Of course, they make a mess they should clean it up...
I love to cook!! 🍳🍳🍳🍳🍳 And if she helps me with the chores around the house it's also a plus!!
yes and women should learn how to do yardwork and construction
I think so as a guy that’s how my dad raised us he thinks a single man should know these things and I agree
No that's a woman's job, but if she ask you can choose to help or not.
It's a must and you better be good at it all the above
Cleaning and cooking are basic fundamentals that every man should know.
Considering he had to do chores as a child at least I hope then he already does know how
I live by myself so if I didn't learn cooking and cleaning I'd starve and my house would be a mess
Most women these days can't cook, so I usually have to do it.
Are you fucking kidding? You don't think men know how to cook and clean?
Modern women need a GPS to find the kitchen and have no clue what to do once they are in the kitchen.
Just stop with your bullshit.
This gig right here is the type of man you stay away from. If "man" is even the word to describe this person.
@Paul09 Ah, the simp, white knight is here. Was only a matter of time before a thirsty beta made his voice known.
@Paul09 I agree.
It's called survival skills, you spoiled mamas boy.
No. That’s woman’s work.
@Exterminatore
You are sexist.
Yeah? So what? I just wanted to trigger people. Thanks for playing.
All kidding aside though I am a sexist and unapologetically so.
U r a jackass no to woman no wonder u r still single sad old dude.
I’m married and you’re not too bright are you? I already stated I wanted to trigger people. Thanks for playing.
U r either lie or cheating on ur wife and using this site 2 get girls ur profile says single. U r not good at giving advice on gsg no one asked u for advice on here.
Why are you looking at my status regarding if I’m single or not? Are you gonna try to get my #?
Eww gross man NO! FYI I am married my parents paid really good significant amount dowry of money for my wife. You treat woman like objects.
So u r a player cheater?
Gross? So you hate gays then?
Not hate it goes against my religion. Wait r u gay?
100% straight. What religion is that?
I'm Jewish Orthodox
It goes against my religion too. Now, since you’re Jewish orthodox, let’s discuss scripture.
Apparently God is a sexist. See here:
“Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
Genesis 3:16 KJV
Says the husband is to rule over the wife. That would imply they’re not equal in at least authority. Since the husband is superior to the wife in terms of authority. If God sey this inequality in place as judgment against women for Eve’s part in the rebellion, how dare we run around and espouse equality between men and women?
“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
Genesis 2:18 KJV
There we see Eve this as ordained as Adams helper. Adams assistant in caring for the garden, his task designated by God. Also a help for Adam after God had Adam name the animals revealing a need for a mate. Eve became his helper in that manner and one function of that help was to produce offspring.
Generally is the helper equal or better than the one designated to the task? No.
So either God is a sexist or feminism has taught lies. I say the later. Wouldn’t observation show you women are not equal to men? They may be better at certain things then men, but they are not are equals and these scriptures would imply so. You being an Orthodox Jew should no better. You being intimately acquainted with the scriptures from your youth.
In the modern world what help does man need. He needs someone to cook and clean and bear children so he can focus on providing for his family, not an equal to be contentious with him and interfere with his God given duties.
Now I told you from the start I am a sexist... well as leftist scum define sexists anyway.
In truth I greatly revere women and see them as invaluable. I don’t see them as equals and I will take every opportunity I can to respectfully or as I did with the meme here, jokingly and provocatively make my case. We need to return to a society before feminism influenced it. Women have their roles men theirs, but today we want to male the women the bread winner and career advancer and feminize the boys by making them soft and sensitive and teaching them every thing masculine is wrong. I oppose all of this and will not have my resolve weakened by lefties saying things like: “you’re a sexist.” Shaming only works on people who feel they’ve done wrong. I have not. Shaming only works on people who need group consent and approval. I seek neither.
I didn't pick my wife my parents did. I do not love her at least not yet u see feelings develope in time. It is important we stay and marry a woman within our sane social statue. I do not like to brag over my back ground I come from a wealthy family my parents would never allowed me to marry a walmart cashier Did ur parents arranged ur marriage , I am not sure what you mean as in woman r not equal to man. Did ur parents pick ur wife or u did?
What exactly do u mean woman are not equal so u r the dude that thinks woman have no right to gi to college and get an education? U got me all confused dude , So ur saying a man that makes minimum wage is more superior then a lawyer female? My wife from a wealthy family. U r wrong It is highly important we keep to our own kind and marry a woman within our same level of social statue. Look man I am sorry but my parents would disowned me if I had choose to marry a cashier female from target.
So u r saying I am way worth more then a 28 year old lady?
Does ur religion do dowry? If so how much did ur parents pat for ur wife?
*Pay
In my religion it is important we marry a jewish orthodox lady same religion. My parents would disowned me if I had marry a christian lady. My patents would paint all the doors black dispose of all my photographs and belonging and pretend I was death or worts pretended I never even existed.
So u think man and woman aren't equal , So u r telling me a normal average woman and a woman with special needs are the equal the same?
No. My parents did not pick my wife. What I mean is there is a huge push to say basically men and women are equal in almost every way and should have equal rights. The concept is basically the only difference between men and women is their genitalia. The truth is there are so many biological and neurological differences that were not even near to being alike. Things must be the same to be equal. 2 and 2 are equal. They’re the same. 5 and 9 are not. Since men and women are not the same they’re not equal. I hold as do many others that since were not the same we should also not have the same responsibilities and the same rights.
I think women shouldn’t be allowed to vote. I think they shouldn’t be the leaders of corporations or governments. I think they’re responsibilities if they’re married are to make a house into a home and take care of the occupants of that house... NOT be a career woman.
I’m not saying either man or woman is superior, rather they have different roles that are equally valuable and should stick to those roles. I do believe men are to be leaders, and in a marriage the man is in charge. Frankly I believe God designated it that way because women are made or designed to be the leader.
I’m a Christian. Baptist. We don’t do dowrys
Comparing average woman to a woman with special needs is a different.
What I’m saying is part of why our society doesn’t function well is the women act like men, and the men like women.
*women are not made or designed to be the leader.
So then... all of my points are geared back to my meme. If women are to take care of the house and be subordinate to their husbands, how is that sexist? How is it wrong? It’s not. Scripture points their roles. Cleaning up the house would be one of those better suited for women... who are better endowed to be caretakers then men.
You r likely to end up in divorce ur parents r the ones who should pick a wife not u. That is why America has a high rate in divorce. Why did u pick ur wife? Why didn't u let ur parents pick the wife 4 u?
And don't cone up to me that u marry ur wife because of love at first site. Love is develope not such thing live at first site. Ur marriage will end up i. Divorce parents know best what is best for us. Ur parents would have choose wisely instead of u pick a woman.
I see in ur profile ur r in law. I assume u r a lawyer so seriously u will marry a maid or a cashier useless uneducated female instead of a woman with class educated with high social statues?
I would never marry a cashier , maid or any female with low class. U need a reality check if u think it is okay for a man lawyer to marry a cashier.
Listen a man with high social statues and a female with low social statues DO NOT GO TOGETHER EVER!
Just an FYI if it wasn't for a lady doctor my grandfather would had been dead years ago. That woman doctor saved my grandfathers life. Maybe a lady doctor will save ur life so don't come up 2 me telling me woman shouldn't go to college.
FYI my older sister is a doctor and she saved children's life's , Rethink again what u said. It was wrong for u to pick ur wife it show that u do not respect ur parents it is ur parents job to choose ur wife this makes me wonder if this is the reason u r against woman. It makes me think ur wife gives u hell.
Was ur wife even a virgin when u marry her? Was she even worth it?
Now I don't want to be a Chad , What r u going to do if one day ur wife dies. U will be hiring maid? What r u going to eat out everyday? U r a mommas boy
FYI God made Eve and he choose Eve for Adam. Adam did not choose Eve as his wife God did.
Why do u have that mindset about woman? U r young 43 and u r sounding like a 60 year old old man.
Nit even I don't love my wife I do not have a right to mistreat my wife, But Geez bro not even I treat her badly hit her or anything.
U r marry to 2 Karen?
@MysteriousDarkness This 43 year old man is marry 2 Karen.
@Exterminatore
You wanted to trigger people so you chose to be your sexist chromosome deficient test tube experiment gone wrong self.
@MysteriousDarkness
Cool story bro.
Not a bright man are you? I post a meme like that and you call me a sexist... as if that would somehow bother me.
Now your babbling more nonsense. You masturbate in the dark and cry 3-5 nights a week don’t you?
@thatismyanswersow...
We won’t end up in divorce because neither of us believe in it except for cases of unrepentant adultery and spousal abandonment.
America has a high divorce rate because people in this country are morally week and don’t live by their vows and word. No fault divorce had a huge impact. It used to be you had have serious reasons to be granted a divorce. Now anyone can get a divorce for any reason or no reason.
We don’t do arranged marriages. I picked my wife because we share the same faith. She had the character and personality I wanted and she’s pretty cute.
Love at first sight is just another way of saying lust. It’s not a real thing. I’d hope no one entered into a marriage for such a frivolous reason.
In regards to my profile, I think I put that because there was no category for law enforcement which when I first came on here was my career. Since then I’ve changed my career.
I’d marry a maid or cashier if I really loved her, however financial stability is important to me. My wife is nurse. She makes decent money. I do as well in my career. We’re not wealthy but by the grace of God we lack for nothing. We live in a very nice area, drive nice cars and have $ in the bank saved.
In regards to status, it’s unimportant to me but jobs often indicate character. A career cashier at Target is someone who is likely lazy or otherwise untalented or refuses to do better in life. I can make $20 an hour, which isn’t much falling out of bed In the morning. I can’t fathom how people actually make less than that and are able to live off but there are many, but I guess we got our own stories. So to me career is not necessarily important, but often times a persons career is an indicator of their motivation and talent level and often times losers- like drug users and those with criminal records can do no better than thar type of job. I’d never marry someone like that.
Women can go to college. Once their married their focus should be on the home.
@thatismyanswer
My wise works 3 days a week. 12 hr shifts and makes $70K a year. The rest of the time she focuses on the home. I make double that between one job I have and doing carpentry work. A friend of mine who is a federal law enforcement officer and I formed a business partnership and we own a rapidly growing carpentry business. I work 6 days a week. I focus on making money, providing for the family and teaching the children about God.
You said people in this country are morally week. Hahahaha. It is spelled weak because using the spelling week makes what you said make no sense. Your blowup doll does not count as a wife. I see right through your facade of being emotionally and mentally tough to your real feeble minded, forlorn, useless, worthless, waste of matter.
U r a hypocrite So ur wife is a nurse but she just works 3 days a week? What is the point of getting a nursing degree if she is not using it. U marry a lazy woman. She went to nursing school yet she don't help u paying bills she is lazy.
If u get sick and need surgery the only Doctor that will help u is a woman so u will refused to get that woman doctors help and die?
If u have trouble with ur tooth only a lady Dentist is available inside the office u would rather go toothless refuse treatment only because the lady has a vagina , Keep thinking that way see how u will end up.
@MysteriousDarkness. This dude is weird as fuck bro. I wonder why he is against woman.
I am a man but I do have sisters I would hate to see a scum bag like yourself mistreating them just because they r woman. We can not choose our gender. Oh I am way more mature then ur saggy 43 year old saggy balls.
If u consider ur self a christian God say love everyone. In Gods eyes we are all brothers and sisters. Christian dude yeah right.
@MysteriousDarkness. Exterminatore dude is married to Karen. If he even know what Karen means. 😆 😆 😆
He has the mentality of a 60 year old grandpa. This dude is stuck living in the 1950's. I bet he forced his wife into sex even if this dude's wife answer is no he still gets some pussy now that is rape.
@thatismyanswer
Well I don’t think she needs to help that much with the finances to start with. Not to mention the $70K she makes alone is way more than the median income in this country. The point is she only works 3 days a week so she can focus on managing the house in accordance with the abilities God endowed her with and in accordance with her God given role.
I don’t have a problem with a woman being a doctor. I’m just saying their primary responsibility when married is to take care of the home and that men are designed to be leaders, and that women aren’t generally good at being leaders.
Nobody is talking about mistreating anyone except you. I also never said God loves anyone. Scripture is clear that God only loves those who are his. We are not all brothers and sisters in Gods eyes.
So now you want to hurl personal insults. I’m done with the conversation then. It shows you lack maturity because you can’t have a conversation without getting personal, not that my feelings are hurt, I’m just not getting into an insult contest.
U r a rude mean person. U want to know why I have a problem with u? Ur sexist u r one of those man that think if a defenseless woman gets raped it's her fault. Man like u think oh if a female got raped well that was her fault.
@thatsmyanswer
I haven’t insulted you personally, but you have called me names. Interesting. You called me rude and a hypocrite but you’re unable to see your own hypocrisy.
How do you know what I think? Are you clairvoyant? I don’t think that at all. You’re making assumptions based on your indoctrination.
@Thatismyanswersowhat
You have misused the words: patents, marry, worts in the same reply. A lot of what you say makes no sense. The words are spelled you, are, you and not u r, ur.
@Exterminatore
It was guys that wrote the bible from what they believed whether it made sense or not.
Exterminator Im an idiot I need glass u r right u never insulted me. I got mislead at ur comment about masturbating and cry at night that comment was for someone else. I am sorry. Now I feel bad and guilty u never offended me u r right. I am so sorry.
*glasses
@MysteriousDarkness. Exterminator has a point American people do don't take wedding vows promises serious. In Russia u get divorce ur reputation is ruin.
@thatsmyanswer
No biggie. I forgive you. Thank you for your apology.
I made that comment at the other guy. I shouldn’t have said that either to him. I’m annoyed with left wing types. “You’re a sexist, you’re a racist.” That’s all you hear from these people whenever you disagree with them. It’s also stupid. For example if someone was a racist would they be bothered if someone called them a racist? It’s shaming language used to silence dissenters. Frankly I won’t tolerate it anymore.
To me marriage is sacred. It’s permanent baring a few extreme cases. I also hold highly vows and giving your word on something. A man, or anyone for that matter ought to live by their word. I don’t believe in backing out of an oath or vow because it’s difficult to keep it. I see those who do so as weak.
Some of us already do 'household chores and cooking' we are called bachelors, and were already doing them before we left home.
Men definitely should learn. Females can’t always do all of it so yes a male should learn and help out sometimes
I know more women who can't (read: won't) cook or clean than I do guys.
of course, both my son and my daughter were taught to cook, clean at tidy up after themselves. it does not do them any favours in adult life if they are not shown how to feed themselves.
Yes, because they can make tea or something for you when you may be sick!