Is it possible for guys to cuddle with close friends without having any feelings for them?

[shadowfax456]

My best friend and I have been cuddling a lot recently and sleeping over in each other's beds but nothing sexual has happened. We spoon and get pretty close, and I've caught him slipping his hand ever so slightly under the waistband of my pajamas and brushing over my boobs a few times but I don't know if that was an attempt to start something sexual or if it was just sleepy, random occurrences. He usually rubs my back or arm lightly until he falls asleep, too.

He's been my best friend for about two years now and we've always been pretty flirty, but recently it's been intimate flirting instead of just playfulness.

Sidenote; last year, he told me he sees me as a sister when I expressed interest in him. So I'm confused on all fronts.

[MrOracle]

A guy does NOT need to have ROMANTIC feelings for you to have SEXUAL DESIRES for you. For men, those are two very different things, and men have sexual desires for FAR more women than they have romantic feelings for.

Do not be naive - you are "sticking your arm into the lion's cage" and one day, the lion is going to take that arm from you, because that's a lion's nature. If you cuddle with a guy, he's going to have sexual desires for you, because that's a man's nature, and that nature can only be contained for so long. If you cuddle with a guy and don't expect him to eventually kiss you, grab your boobs, squeeze your ass, or press his erection into you, then you are being VERY naive. Eventually, nature is going to win out.

[JPrez]

He may be starting to have feelings for you now. You have two choices in my opinion. You could say nothing and let him continue and I can assure you it will lead to sex OR you can confront him politely and ask what he is doing and where he sees the relationship going. If you say nothing and have sex there is a chance you could get hurt.

[Gwenhwyfar]

No! He’s really into you but for some reason he’s suppressing it. Do what I told you in pm. I had a similar experience and he ended up becoming my boyfriend.

[scarlett774]

Yesss I cuddle with all my guy friends and as far as I know neither of us have feelings.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@scarlett774 I get what you’re saying but in this case his touches seem more sexual, more intimate. What do you think?

[scarlett774]

I bet he liked you, Im going to be honest I’ve liked all my guy friends and they’ve all liked me but it passes and we don’t like each other anymore, it’s just bound to happen. It seems like he’s dropping hint that he wants you

[Gwenhwyfar]

I totally agree with you

[Leodhdjakaksjs]

He wants you phisically for sure, the question is if this is lust and love or just lust. If you want to there's no problem in having a physical relation but be careful not to expect too much and hurt yourself.

[RemoErdosain]

Are you thinking about having sex with the dumbass that told you he sees you as a sister when you expressed your feelings before? If so, you haven't thought it through. Have some self-respect is my advice.

[shadowfax456]

That's mainly why I'm asking because I'm not sure if his feelings have changed over the last year. i have self-respect, thank you lol

[RemoErdosain]

No, his feelings haven't changed, but your pussy is still pussy. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but it is what it is. This guy is just looking for your hole and nothing more

[Hawner]

If it possible? Yes.
Is it the case here with your friend? Not so sure. Maybe he is developing something, but you should ask him Abbott it.

[Mikelaughs]

While it is possible, it seems highly unlikely.
Hmu if you want to talk about it

[shadowfax456]

I'd love to message you, but I can't initiate it because of my xp level lol

[Mikelaughs]

Follow me:)

[Mikelaughs]

Get my message?

[spartan55]

This is so stupid, FRIENDS DON'T CUDDLE EACH OTHER... just fuck the guy already geez...

[ItsTheNephilim]

Not having sexual feelings? Nope.
Your situation sounds soo goddamned complicated.

[Liam_Hayden]

Any romantic feelings? Yes. I have female friends who crash at my house frequently, often in my bed. No big deal.

[jahaims]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Nope... it's not

[gandolph3]

I think he likes you

[Anonymous]

Nope.