Unblocked but no contact?

[Anonymous]

He had blocked me for 2 months after telling me his mum was seriously ill (but it took ages for him to tell me that, he was just being uncommunicative with me for a while) and me being upset not knowing where I stood.

He blocked me on Facebook, WhatsApp and even Linked In! He has unblocked me now on whatsapp but said nothing as of yet. Im still upset/hurt/confused so haven't said anything to him as I don't know what to say anyway.

Why has he unblocked me and said nothing? I don't get it. Is he missing me, is he sorry? is he playing a game? I've no idea. He is quite a bit older than me so I feel he wouldn't be immature and game playing but I don't know.

Please please don't tell me to move on etc... I know all that, I just want to understand what he is doing.

[DeeToPlay]

I have been in the position of not being able to get past the need just to have an explanation as to why different people have made choices which affected me and throughout all the pleas to simply tell me just the catalyst was for the decision in they made and still to this day have received no reprieve from that angst of just being left hanging. My conclusion is that they are just too weak of a human to face up to and own their choices.

[Asker]

It sucks!

[DeeToPlay]

I agree with you wholeheartedly.

[spartan55]

He doesn't care, he may have unblocked you by accident. You will probably never know why he ghosted you. Accept that and move on.

[Asker]

Maybe, although I've never blocked or unblocked anyone by accident! Its quite a specific thing to do. So irritating when he chased me again after 12 years.

[spartan55]

Just because you've never done it doesn't mean it can't happen. You aren't going to get the answers you want, best to move on.

[havingfun101]

Stalker confirmed?

[Asker]

Me or him ! ?