How to make my boyfriend chase me again?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend is 25 and i'm 20. for the first three-four months we were together he wouldn't make me his girlfriend so i ended up leaving him. about a month later he BEGGED for me back. i made him crawl on his hands and knees for a month. it's been three more months now and he is still the most amazing boyfriend. he's told me he loves me and is very sweet. but he definitely has gotten very relaxed and laid back. i know that's normal, but i would like to see him try a little more again. advice?

[dudacaatro]

You could be a bit more strict and thing like that, and when you fight dont go say SORRY, ignore him till he apologises... I hope i helped you...

[spartan55]

Manipulation at its finest.

[spartan55]

What are you doing for the relationship?

[Asker]

a lot, i constantly drive to his place because i still live with my parents. i suggest every date night and 1/3 of the time pay for both of us (normally we pay for our own) it was his birthday last week and i surprised him with lots of stuff. i initiate sex 2/3 of the time

[spartan55]

You sound like you are never happy. You say he is an amazing boyfriend, but that's not enough.. you want him 'chase you'... uh how about TALKING to him about what is missing in the relationship for YOU, instead of playing stupid games?