My boyfriend held me all of the night while sleeping?

[Anonymous]

Before going to sleep, he positioned my arm across his chest, and held it there for hours. I got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, and he called my name and said "What are you doing, come back here". When I did he kind of spooned me and held his arm over me for the rest of the night. We did not have sex. What's the meaning of it?

[Dreamy2020]

Do you somehow think that this is a bad thing? It seems like he really likes you. Have you never cuddled all night with a guy? It just means he likes you and wants to hold you all night long in his arms. I think it is really sweet.

[Asker]

I was just wondering if calling me back to bed and then holding me could be controlling?

[Dreamy2020]

No, It is just affectionate I think. How long have you been dating?

[Asker]

11 months

[Dreamy2020]

Seems like he really cares about you, that's why he was holding you all night.

[Asker]

He is a very kind and caring person. Not sure if he loves me or if I´m just kinda convenient. I love him to pieces.

[codyccc]

Let my guess he was a orphan or lost a parent at a young age

[Asker]

No he wasn't and no he didn´t

[codyccc]

Odd most people with abandonment issues that deep have one of those two

[spartan55]

He cuddled you...😂 😂

[Asker]

It was more like he held me in place actually

[spartan55]

Yeah, cuddling... Same thing. Anyway it's not worth microanalyzing.

[winterfox10]

He probably hates you

[Asker]

Why would you think so? :-o

[winterfox10]

I'm being a smart-ass. Use that brain of your's. What do you think it means that someone would stay physically close to another person for a long period of time?

[Asker]

Is the telling me to come back to bed him being controlling? Like he thinks I'm up to something bad?

[winterfox10]

No. Guess again

[Don-__-Don]

@winterfox, you want me to tell her or do you want her to keep guessing?

[Asker]

@Don-__-Don Please tell me

[magiusX26]

i'll tell her.

he actually really likes you and not just sexually

[winterfox10]

I really don't know how to answer questions like this. Like I don't want to be a dick, but I also don't understand the confusion.

[Dreamy2020]

Haha!

[Don-__-Don]

@winterfox10
I feel the same way about some of these questions.