We were at a friend's Christmas dinner and we left around 10 so I decided to stay over his place cause I was really tired and hus was closer. We got to his place I stumbled up stairs as I was still sobering up and I kicked my heels off to go to sleep in his bed. He came up a little after and told me to get up and shower l must be uncomfortable. I wore jeans and didn't bother taking them off, I wasn't fully asleep yet so I mumbled I'd shower tomorrow. I thought he was taking my clothes off so I could sleep comfortable we usually sleep like that. But then I felt a Sharpe pain and he was on me. I told him to stop but he just smothered my words with kissing. I didn't wanna cause trouble by screaming but he just kept going harder and it was burning, I know he's rough and we've had sex before but it was worse. He finished and I was crying and he called a cry baby before giving me a bath. I was completely awake now and asked if he was sober when he was washing me, I was really sore. He said yes he didn't drink and wrapped me up and placed me on the sink and he quickly shower before bringing me back. I told him it really hot and I was spotting a little bit on the towel. He said it was our usual and I was over reacting so I got up and slept downstairs after he kept yelling after me and I didn't wanna go back upstairs when he tried bringing me back upstairs. So he said fine and we'll do what I wanna do then and he sat in the armchair and sat silently looking at me completely naked I rolled over but I didn't sleep a wink and held onto the tower shivering until sun was outside. Then I went. for my clothes when he was asleep. I told him I was leaving when I got to the door, he's been calling me since then. I've never denied him sex before so I guess it was a misunderstanding but I'm just really hurt he did that without asking if I was up for it and ignored that I was crying and he was perfectly sober and he's just been love bombing and no apology.
No bruh it wasn't a misunderstanding, he raped you bro, he didn't have no respect for you, sober or not there's no excuse for that behavior, keep in mind he put his sexual pleasure before you which would mean that he will do it again, mostly now that he didn't even see the wrong in it and didn't apologize, he should respect your no, you were tired and wanted to sleep and he should've respected that, not manhandled you like some gorilla, you couldn't sleep cause you didn't feel safe around him anymore and it's understandable, I think you should really reconsider who you sleep with at nigh cause that's fucked.
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He's a rapist, a seasoned one at that washing the evidence away after the fact
No witnesses in the immediate means securing a conviction is nigh on impossible because his done this before by the sounds of it letting you drink into a stupor and remaining sober himself
Only thing you can do is remove him from the gene pool, permanently
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What a douchebag. I wouldn't tolerate such behaviour if I was in your position. His behaviour is unacceptable
WHAT HE DID WITH YOU IS MORE THAN A PEACEFUL NIGHT AT THE HOUSE, I CALL HIM A RAPIST AND HE DOESN'T KNOW THAT HE COULD BE CHARGED WITH SEXUAL ASSAULT ON THE WAY TO BE IN PRISON FOR YEARS
That is... rape. No two ways about it.
Lucky you, stop complaining.
Block him and never be with him
He raped you
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