Does it mean anything if he held me all night while sleeping?

[Anonymous]

We're not in relationship, only been meeting couple times. He told me to stay the night since he invited me. He held me all night, the 'honeymoon hug' where you face each other and hug them, or I lay my head on his chest. Does it mean anything? Or could it be that this man just need to hold something while he sleeps? Is that a thing?

[DaveJord]

I am a snuggler, I love holding someone while I sleep. So it is comfort thing, but also means that I am comfortable with you and over time it does allow for me to create a stronger emotional bond with a person. I would not dismiss miss it as nothing, but at the same time I would not read too much into it. Just because I snuggle some one all night does not mean I am totally in love with them. But it does mean I have a level of interest and comfort in being with them, so it not nothing, but its not everything either.

But if you do not like being held or snuggled like that then definitely means you should not continue with the relationship, because once a snuggler always a snuggler. So if you do not find it comforting then, if you stay with this person you will never have a good night sleep again. For the snuggler it is definitely something they crave in a relationship and it also is and indicator that they are an affectionate person, especially if you treat them right and return that affection on the same the level. These are the types that will hold your hand when your out in public, or while driving, or will give random hugs all the time because the crave the physical contact with you. So if you do not like that an you reject it then it will never work out.

[bigmatt98]

Snuggling is very common with those kinda things I’d snuggle my fwbs sometimes it depends how much felt like they began to like me

[kylee2437]

Being held is always a craving to people , but it doesn’t indicate anything. Does he take you out on dates? Does he talk about dating you? Does he bring you around important people in his life?

[Asker]

As I mentioned we've met couple times so no. We met in a bar the first time. Thats too fast to bring me around meeting people or take me out on a date

[kylee2437]

@asker so you think it’s too early for a guy to be taking you out on a date but not too early for him getting the most intimate parts of you? Make it make sense. If he hasn’t mentioned a date, sounds to me you are just a hook up

[Asker]

That's what we were looking for. didn't expect him to hold me all night, that's something that I'll do if I have feelings. Everyone's different and so Im asking for other's perspective. But again as I said when we were maybe still are? looking for a hook up

[kylee2437]

You obviously caught feelings from your mutual hook up, but unfortunately it doesn’t seem like he caught any feelings unless if he magically asks you out on a date and starts acting accordingly because a man that actually likes you will value outside of the bedroom. You are off to a rough start by putting the bedroom as a higher value than him treating you like how women should be treated when a guy is truly interested in them

[Asker]

Again as I said we both are looking for hookup, werent looking for anything serious. But I'll take that into consideration. Thanks!

[kylee2437]

So then why even bother with this question? Lol it will be completely obvious if a guy likes you, you don’t have to question bare minimum actions like cuddling

[Anonymous]

i think you need to ask him.

also, don't fall into the trap of doing relationship things without being in a relationship. you can get hurt real bad.

[Asker]

Doing relationship things? Like sex or cuddle? We both wanted it, and I dont know it just happened and I didn't mind cuddling. But now Im just wondering if it actually means anything for guys

[JPresidente]

To me, I would interpret that to mean he has some feelings for you but I know you’ve been getting opinions to the contrary.

[boggboss]

No hugging dont indercate deeper feelings

[Asker]

holding someone all night after sex?

[boggboss]

Can be a thing of comfort it dont have to indercate feelings especially after sex when passions are already high its like a guy saying he loves u as u have sec it dont really matter because he said it in a moment of passion