If a girl tells you she wants to make love with you?

[Anonymous]

if a girl who has been showing interest in you and has been talking to you over 1 year says she wants to make out/ make love with you.. what would you think? How would you react?

[Finchie40]

If I like her back the same way then I would love to hear those words from her and go for it but if I didn’t feel that way about her then I would kindly decline her offer and tell her sorry that I don’t have those feelings for you

[AmeerX]

I would be a happy person

[Anonymous]

Interesting question... honestly I would not be even talking to you after a freaking year of not not getting any from you. Actually, if shit did not progress quickly when I first met you. It was not there and it will be there! Since I would have jumped all over you the second I felt any sexual attraction to you.

So, of after a freaking year you just came on to me like being all direct and shit saying "Do you want to fuck or what?" Honestly, at that point I would be like... "Why? Do you need help with your tuition or something?" Hold up, here let see how much cash I have left... here, hey if you need it you need it... just do the same for someone else some day. ^sigh poor girl... hell, i've been there before... ^sigh

[Asker]

No mister I have been talking to this guy for 1 year now, it was love at first sight for me, I understood he has not yet moved on so I have been helping him. After he finally moved on, I started making my move, sent sweets, expensive gift, cards and literally talked about making love with him yesterday...

[Opinion Owner]

Love at first sight... ok, like when one first see a really cute puppy dog. At least I know what I'm working with... Other than get him drunk and in the mood... the scenario I painted above is what I honestly would think about you. Simply, because we are not an item and I would be the most comfortable person for you to turn to in times of desperation. Hate to not validate what you want to hear... but, hell... I don't even know what that would be... or I would tell you exactly what the hell it is you want to hear and you would be all happy with me and shit... oh well. C'est la vie!

[exitseven]

Sometimes the girl has to make the first move.
I dated somebody and about the third or fourth date we were at her place. She had cooked me dinner and after we were just sitting in her living room listening to records (this was 1990). I didn't know how this thing was gonna go. I wasn't sure she was all that into me.
So she gets up and tells me she has to go to the bathroom. When she comes back, she takes me by the hand and leads me into her bedroom. I'm so clueless I am thinking that she is just going to show me this new bicycle she just bought that was in her bedroom. Then she asks me if I was going to make love to her. Just so you know- the answer was yes.

[MrCommodore]

It might be better to organise a private get-together meeting, and just get chatting and then either make a move to kiss or tell him she likes him.

It's better to let things just happen naturally rather than saying in advance that you want to kiss or have sex. If you just say you like him and let the rest happen in the moment.

[serious]

Simple, I will tell her to forget about me and wish her the best of luck in finding a man who would love her the way she wants to be loved.

I will tell her that I wish to remain single for life and so its the best thing for you to do.

[Asker]

I respect your decision and his if it is same but that guy fucking does not talk to me, he reads my messages every single one, he talks about me with his friends and they send me friend request... so what am I suppose to understand?

[serious]

Tough situation but if he reads all your messages which means he must at least like you to some extent. Maybe some day that can turn into love but no guarantee though

[Asker]

Exactly it's a though situation... I bet the day I leave him he will cry like a baby... I just want to grow close to him. If it works great, if not fair enough at least we tried.. if he does not want, he can come clean... I will leave asap and find myself another man... I think he is emotionally immature

[ChiTown33]

Well first off she HASN'T been showing interest. She thinks she has been. And if she said she wanted to make love to me i'd laugh and say " Ok, what's your game"! Are you alone (looking around) or did someone put you up to this! Then i would say "this isn't very funny" and "how would you like it if someone did this to you"!

[RenegadeSailor]

Hard to say, I am not the type that would wait that long without making a move.

[Asker]

I like him and I have been sending him gifts and sweets since last 3 months, before that I was trying to help him move on. He researched on my family, he talks about me to his friends but I don't know what he is waiting to make a move 😒😒

[RenegadeSailor]

You really want to make a life with a fella who is that dense?

[Asker]

I am very intense myself but that guy needs to talk... If he does not want same he says it but I am pretty sure he wants a relationship because he has had only one relationship so far which ended 2 years ago and he is 27... I wonder if he ever gets h*rny... pfff 😤

[RenegadeSailor]

What makes you think he isn't having sex?

[Asker]

I did not hear that he involved with any girl so far, we live in a small country. He is inexperienced, when I asked him his relationship status, he said he has been seeing a girl for sometime but it is not a full on relationship (the girl stays abroad). I kept persisting, to shut me down he said his girlfriend is upset... I was like which is which... then I did some research, he was hurting since 2 years his ex left him, he has been keeping up appearances while his ex is sleeping with another man... so I helped him move on...

[Wise4myage]

Id totally be down for that if I felt the same way and I was single.

[chukio]

Her wish is my command. If he is gay just remember that I'm straight and single.

[Mark987]

if you care the same way that is hot. She doesn't want to just have sex but make love... that is a huge difference... GO FOR IT

[InferiorElegy]

No girl would ever say this to me or have feelings for me in the first place.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Unfazed, most people want me.

[Agape93]

True ^^^^

[boggboss]

That she is ready to have sex

[Bklynbadboy12]

That depends on if I like her or not

[SaIgın]

Will you be my friend?

[SaIgın]

Answer?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

“Get the pills”

[Anonymous]

Walk away.

[Asker]

Why?