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Are some guys just too passive to ask a woman out? (Page 2)
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I told a girl I liked her and she rejected me I wouldn’t say it’s passiveness more confirmation because why waste time when the person could possibly say no until you know how they feel
Men are no different than women. Women act like men aren't scared of anything or something. I look over my shoulder at night just like you. You approach us if you know we like u and u like us. Every girl acting nice how tf are we suppose to know who tf likes us when 90% turn us down
Girls today will have to ask guys out. Back in the day she would tell her friend which would tell his friend which would tell him that she likes him.
Yes we are passive. Especially if we are shy.
But why are you so passive? (It's probably the same reason guys are too.)
You sound gay if you want a dominant person
@Oxerourrrv Who said anything about a dominant person?
Ok... U wanna play games go touch ur weiner. Im not interestee
@Oxerourrrv Yes! I can't believe how many men nowadys think it would be a good idea for women to take initiative. Number 1, because none of these guys would get any attention.
@Oxerourrrv i also got my testosterone tested and it is far and above what is "normal". Thank God. "Normal" for a 20 year old male is what a 45 year old male had 50 years ago im not joking
Well probably since most guys are getting bored with all the mindgames girls are playing. Or most guys just don't see the hints.
What is so wrong with girls taking the first step?
Nah i can ask a girl out after i soften her up
I don't know how to soften her up within 5 min though
Interesting
Nah I don't even ask girl for walk with me
Forget out.
How comem
My wish my life.
Do you want girl to chase you?
Girls always chase me
It's not new to me. Why asked?
Oh... Do you like that? Just wondering cause just curious!
Yup.. what about you? You chased or love to get chased?
I wait... But guys dont really chase me that hard anyway. The ones that do just want sex not love and i dot want that.
Love n sex both are two phases of coin. No?
I do not fornicate. Period.
And how do you let the guy know that you are interested in him and that he can approach you without making you uncomfortable about it?
I was, couldn't ask any one out for a very long time... ultra shy and missed out a lot in life.
Hope u have now
@Oxerourrrv I have, however I had too little experience when I got married the first time due to that I married a terrible person who just wanted Mr. Nice guy to take care of her.
I know had I not been so shy and dated a lot in my teen and early twenties I never ever would of have married my ex. More than just missing out, it caused a lot of pain and problems, and yeah I'm past that now, all is great.
A husbands job is to take care of his wife... So i dont get it
@Oxerourrrv This was more of, give me all your money or else I'll scream financial abuse. Very controlling and wanted nothing more than a slave to take care of her.
I unfortunately am. Even when its obvious the girl has mutual interest, I fuck it up. The only time I came close to asking in person, the girl disappeared.
Low self confidence and self-satiation most likely.
Some guys are too nervous to ask the woman or don't want to be rejected so they avoid asking anyone out
I would say more afraid to. Then passive.
All a woman as to say one thing and the man can go to jail.
You sound dumb as hell
Yes guys are afraid of rejection or never grow a nerve to ask a gal out.
To shy or nervous that they never get the nerve to talk to the lady.
Force themselves a
Yes they can be or not passive but simply crap at talking to girls nicely or being interesting etc.
It's called, selective anxiety. Sometimes people are afraid to talk to a particular group and they can't really hell it cuz they aren't used to it.
I am. I am shy and intimidated by women's beauty that I'm attracted to. I find it hard to say hi sometimes let alone ask them out.
Just do it babes
@Oxerourrrv do you do it?
@ThisIsMyOpinion i am passive. Even in a relationship 😂
@Oxerourrrv so that's why you want us to step it up xD
@ThisIsMyOpinion mans job. If he's not gonna lead what are the point to him? Especially with me as im very passive.
@Oxerourrrv you can be a great partner and be passive. But well two passive people might not work.
@ThisIsMyOpinion women are follower.. Men leader. Its not a new concept dude
@Oxerourrrv Is actually a very old concept.
I only ask them out on dating sites, everyone is there for the same reason and if u matched with her she already kinda signaled that she is attracted to you. It also removes the fear of public rejection.
You can wait 'till the cows come home.
And yes, the really weak ones you don't want anyway.
Lmfao. I really dont know the purpose of a man whos not gonna be a leader. Idc if thats offensive. If you want a wife go get one.
@Oxerourrrv - Exactly.
If a man can't or won't lead, she will, but she'll loathe him for it. Women hate weak men.
You see them roll up at the gas station in a mini-van full of kids. Usually she's driving, she's fat AND ugly, and barking orders at him. I just shake my head. :)
Dude thats so gross. *barf emoji* and i always hear men talk about hating that feminist loud mouth... But men have to be men if they dont want that.
@Oxerourrrv - They sure do. The burden of performance is ALWAYS on the man. Always.
We've raised a whole crop of girlie-men.
I love your mindset. And yep its quite ridiculous. They really are more girly than us girls even 😂
@Oxerourrrv - Well not everyone does. Lots of special little snowflakes here that like to block me - facts and reality sounds rude to them. LOL
The truth is, women are drawn to men that are good looking, rich, powerful, and confident. And ones that can make a decision. If he says 'I dunno, what do you think' after everything you ask him about, it gets pretty old pretty fast.
It is a woman's responsibility to make the first move by smiling and saying "Hi" or otherwise doing something to indicate that she is approachable.