Why would he say “Well maybe we shouldn’t be together”?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy who I’m talking to has a friend who kinda outed him about talking to other girls, cause I guess he can’t make up his mind on who he want.

So his friend made it seem like he’s a player/hoe, and I said “So you’re a hoe?” sarcastically and then he said “Well if you think I’m a hoe then maybe we shouldn’t be together.” Then he left out the room afterwards.

Did he say that because he might’ve been thinking about asking me out but then changed his mind? But at the same time tho, he should also be mad at his friend for spilling out his business whether it was true or not.

[Apope16]

Relax. he's just being an alpha and playing it cool. he's upfront. he's saying "I have options." Its your job to show sex, loyalty, charm, understanding, high quality female qualities to lock him down. He is doing exactly what a man should be doing. Women are doing the same thing. Lets be real. They are talking dozens of guys on apps.

Why is he not mad about being outted? Uhm. Because he's done nothing wrong. You have to earn a relationship with us men with sex and acting like a respectable woman. Women get angry when a man treats women how they treat them.

[FilmGuy93]

He's reconsidering the relationship. He's definitely mad at his friend, but he's also annoyed that you are giving him crap for talking with other girls when y'all aren't together.

[Zeppelinrocks]

Um I mean probably lol; he was probably insulted that you called him a hoe. But he doesn’t owe you anything, and he can talk to as many people as he wants so long as he’s still single- imagine how you’d feel if someone called you a hoe for talking to multiple men. Maybe it wasn’t your intention to hurt his feelings but if you truly offended him you should probably apologize.

[Asker]

He knew that I was joking but got upset anyway. I know I was wrong for calling him that but he was more mad at me than his friend telling me things had I had no business knowing

[Asker]

Didn’t mean to put had twice 👀