I hate my dad, am I justified?

[Unicorn1200]

He hit me for calling him a bastard, which I only said because he was giving me the evil eye. And he ruined my mother’s life. He treats her like a servant or something and he never exercises so he has a HUGE belly to the point where my mother isn’t attracted to him anymore and seeks attention from other men. Also he looks at me inappropriately it’s unsettling. He also says bad stuff about my grandma, who is a really nice person.

[ohshee]

You're justified in the way that you feel. Because it's your feelings. Is what you see and watch happening. But I think your anger also is coming from your mom because she's putting up with this shit and I think that pisses you off to this you won't stand up for herself and give them an ultimatum. Yes you were justified in any which way you feel but maybe one day you should sit down and have a talk and you have to be honest. But that's a bad move in a lot of different ways because it will embarrass him and then he would probably tell you to get out so you stuck between a rock and a hard spot

[DaveToo]

Girl, you are an adult. No man should ever hit a woman. Does it sound sexist? I don't think so because, generally, men are stronger physically than women and can inflict more damage. Get out of that house, get away from that abuse and start living your own life.

[DaveToo]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Anonymous]

Yeah he probably has low self esteem and takes it out on everyone else.

[kkirk4442]

Justified? Perhaps. But by hating him, your are making yourself miserable, or at least less happy. I'm not saying you need to have a great relationship with him, but hating him only messes up your life.

[Frank_Woods]

I have a similar relationship with my mom. And yeah, you are justified. Some people are just bad people. Just pray to God, they get better.

[Honesttguy]

Yep sounds like abusive piece of crap. How old are u, old enough to get out of there?

[jshm2]

No. He has issues, sure, and so do you. But hating is pointless and acid on the soul.

[OnTheLevel]

Sounds liked there's plenty of issues with everyone in your family.

[Iron_Man]

stop trolling

[Iron_Man]

Uh, oh This user is not active anymore.

[KrakenAttackin]

Bad troll.