Why he doesn't look?

[Anonymous]

there is a guy who is very into me, on that one day (I never wore anything like that before showing cleavage) I wore a t shirt showing some cleavage he never looked, but when uploading pics with cleavage to my IG story he looks?

[Lopfen]

Doesn't have to be. If i'm into a girl, just find her pretty or we got a slight friendship i try to pay respect, with not looking.

Surely i would like to look, but in reallife i don't wanna creep on her or smth. Instead Instagram would be the option of her not knowing u looking at her, which would not follow the statement of paying respect.

I've got a good girl friend which i actually kinda never see or hear of. She was the first person knowing of my secret which could be reffered to crossdressing. She whore something i couldn't fit and wanted to gift her. She said i can look if i want, but i felt like i shouldn't.

Sorry for my bad English, but i hope i helped.

[Asker]

No no! Your English is good 😊Thank you for your answer I appreciate it. So you think he did it out of respect?

[Lopfen]

I mean if he gives you the feeling or u know he is into you, i would say yes.

In what kind of relationship are you with him? Is it more of an sometimes seen and spoke with him, where some feelings started?

Probably would say just speak with him, surely not "Why didn't you look at my cleavage?".

If he's a shy person it'll be hard that u ever really meet each other i believe. I think this "Man should start and ask-thing" is kind of a problem. For me i'm not able to speak to girls, but my heart would go flacid if a woman started to talk with me.

[CharlieDrag]

Maybe he doesn't wanna look irl cos it could be rude.