Men of all ages, universally, gravitate towards women who are in their late teens to early/mid twenties.
Men gravitate towards women who are rather significantly younger than they are.
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Trending & News I've written about this hundreds of times. It's all about biology.

If you chart an average woman's fertility by age, and compare that to their SMV (Social Market Value - the value that the opposite sex generally assigns to person of a given age), the curves are virtually identical. If you understand anything about evolution and Natural Selection, this not only shouldn't be surprising, but it's exactly what you would predict.
It's not an accident, or just random chance, that humans exist today when many other pre-human species went extinct - the species that survive are the ones that can survive, adapt, and reproduce successfully. Species that aren't great at one or more of those things will usually become extinct, and usually something else will evolve to take its place. But this is also a SLOW process. Human-like species have been around for about 3 million years, and Homo Sapiens have been around about a half-million years. During that time, we developed and refined instincts that would help us survive and reproduce successfully - which is literally our "prime directive" and our biological imperative.
You are looking at this with a 21st century mind-set, but keep in mind that we've only had modern germ theory for a bit over 100 years, and we've only had what most would consider "modern medicine" for 70 years - basically post WWII - though huge developments were still being made in the 50s and 60s. That's why, even into the 1960s, a majority of women were married by 19 - with lots married at 15 and 16 - and why people followed what we now call "traditional gender roles" - it was the only way for most people to survive for a lifetime.
But 70 years is WAY too short of a time-frame to talk about evolution and instincts.
Scientists say that it takes about 1000 generations, which, for humans, means about 20,000 years, to see a significant change in instinctual behavior. To put it another way, we humans today are still "programmed" with the instincts that were necessary for survival 20,000 years ago.
For women, this meant being attracted to men who had strength, status, and resources, because she needed such a man to protect her during and following pregnancy, and to provide for her and the children, or they literally wouldn't survive in many cases. For men, this meant being attracted to women at the beginning of their fertility window, so that she would have the greatest chance of bearing him many offspring (keep in mind that child mortality was about 20%). There was also a constant shortage of men, due to war, dangerous jobs, and disease, and that men rarely lived much past 50.
Without offspring, most adults would not survive long into old age or serious injury - without younger family members to protect and provide, old or injured people could not survive in a world where eating meant working a 10-12-hour day of hard labor outdoors in the weather. For most people, surviving old age without children is dangerous even today.
The reason everyone doesn't know this anymore - it used to be something everyone knew and talked about - is because Feminism wants the nuclear family destroyed, and doesn't want women to be wives and mothers, so these things have been removed from school curriculums and replaced with identity politics...
As others have pointed out, there's also the additional factors, such as that younger women are much less likely to have relationship baggage - especially children - with most men see as a huge red flag.
None of this is to say that men will ONLY date/marry such women - many men can't attract women of that age range, either because they're too much older or because they are too immature or lack resources and ambition - so many of those men will date older women because that's what they can get. But if a man between the ages of 25-45 could pick a wife of any age, all else being equal, you can bet that the vast majority of those wives would be between 21-25. That's our biological instinct, and most men who choose to marry do so because they want children - their OWN children - and so fertility is a hugely important factor.
I'm the exception if that's so. I find women much younger than me physically attractive, for sure. If we're talking in the realm of pornography, that's what I find most pleasant to the eyes are women half my age.
Yet when I talk to women in their early 20s, for example, I find such a disconnect there. I'm not a ladykiller but I've met my share of ones who are so overtly flirty and complimenting me left and right for whatever reason. Yet there's this sense I get like they're a "fan", you know, and not an equal. If I were to sleep with them when I was single, I'd be taking advantage. They're putting me on a pedestal and I don't deserve the pedestal. I'm not that great of a guy.
Women closer to my own age or just slightly younger (say around 85% to 100% my age) always seemed more like equals to me. We could really click. They can disagree with me and tease me instead of putting their hands on their chin and saying I'm so great. I like this more than the physical beauty of the young ones.
My wife is only one year younger than me and I wouldn't have it any other way. There are no women with who I clicked more in my life. Maybe I'm like a pseudo-demisexual, except I've got just as much of the caveman as any other guy when I see a 21-year old girl twerking upside down in a nightclub. The difference is that I start talking to her and I feel like her dad or even uncle. She should be with guys her own age. I like a girl who doesn't look up to me.
Because they just want to screw around with them and because you meet their sexual fantasy. That's why. It is not because they want things traditionally. So it is not a fact that they desire women of those ages. I was those ages myself. I come to find out it is SEX, SEX, SEX. And when you turn them down and say no, some will freak out, others curse at you, others pretend to be okay when they're seething on the inside. The data is biased because men and boys are influenced to go after such girls and women at those ages for sex. That's all. They are not interested in marriage or a stable relationship with a family which is why those I know now to have families and marriages are those who invested in the girls and women they already had friendships with for quite a while.
So no. Men of all ages don't do this. Just toxic men who do because they either want a come back when they have rejected many times those ages or they were fooling around and they want to be "young again". Again, it's just sex and horny men. Porn and "coming of age" films with women making such teens and men horny don't help either,
Because they are prime years where most women are hitting their peaks in beauty
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I am 66. Most of the women I have dated over the past 6 years were slightly younger but within 10 years of my age. I the same 6 years, I have also dated women who were up to 20 years older than me.
Yes, girls in their late teens and early 20's are still very attractive but I also know that any attempted relationship with them would be doomed from the start, I would probably get bored very quickly, and extremely few of them would be interested in dating a man as old as I am. I am old but I am not a fool.
The age men are attracted to in woman probably trends to a narrower range than the reverse because the age range at which women are fertile is narrower. I'd be interested to know if there are any proven trends in the reverse question of the ages in men that woman are attracted to.
Because child birth is damaging to the body and younger bodies handle it better. Its biology. Its also the reason why women consistently go after older guys who have established wealth, because child birth and rearing is so resource intensive that she cannot produce herself thus needs him to do so for her. Again, its biology.
Young women in that age group are much less likely to already have kids. That's a big factor. They've also usually had fewer negative relationships and are less jaded. Greater fertility as well.
Then again, it would only be a huge disadvantage to them. Having kids that young isn’t a wise idea.
If he decides to walk out (which is more common than you think), she has no way of providing for herself or the child. Those years are for education and career-stabilizing.
What a stupid idea to even entertain.
Men tend look for youth, fertility and beauty in women and women tend to look for physical prowess, confidence and access to resources in men, which men will be more likely to have starting late 20s or early 30s. Those will remain the same even in dire situations so it is very likely that the younger woman would respond in kind.
Cause they are focused on outer beauty more than inward.. once their woman looked old they leave..
Thankfully not all guys are like that some want more than a pretty sex doll!
Correct:)
Sadly many young people are very driven by their eyes.. takes going through a few shitty partners to see looks dont matter that much.
People who are more concerned about looks just want someone to show off like a trophy and when they start aging they find another trophy.. so stay away from anyone who tries to demand you how to act, what to say, what to wear.. not worth your time
True beauty doesn't fade! Getting old is a part of life can't stop it.. so focus on who the person is rather than their outter shell and their beauty will be endless!
Yes i agree, and i can still admit at my age can be a sucker for looks, heck i still think Salma Hayek is a total knockout for her age. But otherwise yes looks do not matter in the end. We all age some of us more or less gracefully than others. And getting old can be beautiful even. Its just how life is. Has been through the ages. personality is where its truly at, thats what matters most. :)
I once thought that too but honestly I met men online that were different one in Ireland, Australia, Uganda, and few in USA but none near me took a lot to put yourself out there to be just hurt in the end but I knew I was looking for just one close to me and you know what 3 and half years later we found eachother.. I hope you find a good one too finding a good guy is like apple picking..
there's good guys definitely out there just the bad ones get all the action.. good ones are mostly over looked for what reason I dont know
Just have to find a man thats worth hurting for.. every man will hurt you maybe not while they are alive but if they die first it still hurts so just have to accept life hurts like a bitch in general..
Because that age is where women are the most fertile. Even possible that they can still be attracted to girls below 18 on her puberty. It is compatible biologically speaking but only has a social stigma so nobody wants to admit that and even applies to girls towards guys as well.
Survival of the fittest, baby.
What age category of woman is most likely to carry on a man's DNA?
18-25 year old women.
Make it as simple or as complex as you like.
I assume because they are youthful, fertile, and don't have much in the way of career and emotional baggage. I don't get the appeal, personally. I find women younger than 24 super immature.
They want women ripe for the picking. Women they can easily manipulate.
no actually its much more simple than that... its cos they look better and younger, think about it, if your going to eat a peach.. would u get the fresh juicy looking 1 thats just about ripe enough... or would u go for the overripe green peach with mould and wrinkles? yeah... only a dumbass would go for the old wrinkled 1... smart people go for the ripe 1, tastes better... looks better.. nothing to do with manipulating the peach
who said i date woman?
oh wait..
again like i said, we jus go for younger cos their more ripe and healthy age... refer to this to any point u make
Or who look that age. But only a few of the older guys actually get women in that age bracket.
I wouldn't want someone who was so young. I wouldn't have anything in common with her. An entirely different generation. It just wouldn't work.
Hotter
More fertility time
Less sexual experience
More naturally take the feminine role
Still young enough to learn a thing or two before they get stuck in their ways.
@Ninjazzed usually it does. A woman needs to love a man to do what she should already be doing. Basically once a woman loves a man she will want to take care of the man so she naturally will be drawn to her gender role. Without a man that she has a true love for she will want to be rebellious. Most of the time its because she has no father or a weak father or a bad father. That gives her the opportunity to toss aside her natural gender role.
From a practical sense an 18 year old will be happy to have the bills paid and to go on vacation for some cooking and cleaning. A 32 year old attorney will not.
If he’s hitting a mid-life crisis and actively seeking someone younger, I don’t think he’ll have much of a choice in the matter. Teens these days tend to fall far left.
And this isn’t always the case, these relationships fail a majority of the time because they both lack what it takes to understand each other. He cannot understand her immaturity and she cannot understand his manipulation.
And “love” usually isn’t a factor in these. As it is usually sex-motivated or for monetary gain.
C’mon. Do you really think Bill Gates’ wife married him for his personality? Or do you think older men marry young women for their personalities?
Don’t be ridiculous.
I’d rather have the self-preservation and satisfaction of knowing that I paid my own bills on time and schedule my own vacations, opposed to having to work as a slave for someone to do it for me. Even if I don’t love them.
Therefore, I will be forced to live a lie and resent him for it.
That’s how patriarchal tradition works. It’s always in a man’s favor.
This is why men despise feminism beyond belief.
@Ninjazzed women tend to follow where a man leads. And I don't know how you think love doesn't have to do with it lmfao. You know you dont start dating a girl and she's living with you already. Lol.
@Ninjazzed "Or do you think older men marry young women for their personalities?" And yes. Im 34 and my girlfriend is 18. The main thing i like is her personality is so sweet and caring and not bitchy at all. Damn if she had an attitude like you i certainly wouldn't want her thats for sure.
Yeah, no. That’s equivocally untrue. All of it.
If people married out of “love” then the divorce rate wouldn’t be skyrocketing. I highly doubt a 19-year-old found love in a 60-year-old looking to throw some cash at someone naive.
Women don’t follow where any man “leads” because women will only follow a man with resources and financial stability. And what do they do? They go shopping.
Attitude? You call common sense ‘attitude’ so you just proved my point.
Sorry I’m not going to be used by a manipulative geezer who’s afraid of dying old and alone.
I feel sorry for your “girlfriend” who has yet to realize she’s being used for a fucktoy instead of wife material.
I can see you’ve exhausted all the dipshit options and resorted to conning young women for a living.
@Ninjazzed "If people married out of “love” then the divorce rate wouldn’t be skyrocketing." This is the biggest nonsense i ever heard. Back in the 1800s and early 1900s divorce/abandonment was low, marriage was high. They would get married primarily for duty family and religious reasons with love being a secondary reason in most cases. Starting with the 60s through 80s it became common to get married just for love. Marriage rate has decreased substantially and divorce has skyrocketed. Complimentary natures of husband and wife sustain a marriage and love/lust does not.
Yeah, no. Pure lunacy.
If you don’t love someone then you aren’t going to skate by on “complimentary measures” because eventually this would leave room for error: frustration and confusion because you don’t really love your partner enough to try to understand their side.
But yes, “love” and even those complimentary roles you mentioned tend to get covered up so quickly by problems, payments, lack of money, kids, more problems, lack of time and many other unanticipated issues.
“Complimentary nature” helps but love, understanding, trust, and a lot of patience will actually help you tolerate and live mostly “happily ever after."
I don't agree with any of that ludicrous. You need love and more than just “masculine” and “feminine” energy or enforced gender roles. It isn’t going to keep either one of them for long.
If you have time to vent, it helps you see both sides of the issues.
Very important to keep your problems with you and your significant other.
Communicate.. whether it's resentment, sexual frustration, conflicting ideals, WHATEVER.
If you can't get to a place where you can reasonably work it out or gain a shared understanding. Small rips become catastrophic tears.
The worst part is, you’ve been fed so many lies and I don’t even think you realize it.
That is what I am looking for. I desire to have a woman who is within that specific age range. It is because they are physically and sexually more desirable at that age.
its when the peach becomes ripe enough... decades after that it goes mouldy and sour., better to get it while its young and ripe
shame more dumb people than smart in this world, i make sense retards
Because that's my age lol why would I date someone older
They got all them good eggs 🥚🥚🥚🥚
To young to know better easy to impress
This is prime age of fertility.
Cause they're more attractive and have better eggs
@Ninjazzed I prefer someone I can relate to
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