Guys, what would you think if your female roommate does your dishes?

[Anonymous]

So I (19F) recently moved in with a guy (22M). I didn't know him prior to moving in and still didn't get to know him much. He goes out a lot and leaves some dishes behind but always does them before bed. He is pretty clean and organized tbh. I am actually someone who enjoys doing dishes (weird i know hahah) and have done his dishes a few times while he's been away. I am sure he notices it when he comes back. But we don't talk at all actually (except gd morning and stuff like that). What would you think if your roommate did that? I dont want him to think that i like him or am trying to get his attention cuz that is not the case...

[averageguy4]

I would think that you passive aggressively are doing the dishes because I'm not doing them right away. That's what my life in a shared living experience was like anyway. Whenever I didn't get to my chore when someone else needed it to be done, which felt like immediately, they would let me know that because I was unable to take care of said chore by myself that they did it for me. It was so infuriating, but then when I needed a different chore done right away I would do the same thing to others. So by karma I really deserved it. I digress, back to the main point maybe let him know that you like doing the dishes so he doesn't think your being passive aggressive. He may just leave more dishes for you so that you have more fun dishes to do. Unless you don't really like doing dishes that much. Then just tell him that sometimes you feel like doing dishes but not all the time so sometimes you clean them up.

[hahahmm]

That she's trying in some tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny way to make up for the fact that if a violent criminal breaks into the apartment I'm the one who will be fighting him off & not her.

[Anonymous]

He might think you're a pushover if you're a douchebag that you will do all the housework and stuff. As long as you don't try to act sexy, he won't get such attracted vibes

[Opinion Owner]

*if he's a douchebag

[MTC29]

He may simply think that you're a neat-freak, which isn't a bad thing. Since I have a dishwasher, I'd prefer you to do the vacuuming.

[Kaneki05]

well i don't see why someone would do my job. But if they will, i ain't gonna complain.

[JesseJayNeak]

I'd be surprised. The guest is not supposed nor forced to do so

[micheal727jovanie]

Thats pretty hot

[In_Trance]

Nothing