My past friends with benefits is weird. He's driving me crazy, ugh. Why can't he just leave me alone, and Fuck them others?

[Erica686]

I seriously can't take this shit ANYMORE! The amount of (love) that I have for him, just doesn't make any sense. But Noooo, he wouldn't know- because all he ever do, is keep his dick in his hands between it comes down to him and I. But also, he still wants to have his sides and me too. And I don't understand, why he can't just stick with them. Like over time, are relationship became better and the chemistry has to. But the connection is slowly fading. I remember, when we first met each other, we always talked, he was always attentive and consistents. And we did hangout. But now, he hits me up at random sad times, or wait until the end of the weekend to reach back out. So if he's spending all this time with his new friends with benefits or someone who he's actually interested in. Then why DON'T he just get rid of me and leave me alone. And yes! I have told him to leave me alone and mention to him how I couldn't do the whole f w b thing anymore, with him. And he always says! Ok! but yet. He'll ask months or years later. So if I am just an option to him, and he doesn't have the time and energy need to communicate with me like you used to. Then why bother. My heart can't take this anymore! And I try my best to hide, how I feel for him :(. But I can't. So a lot of times I avoid him and keep my distance. I haven't had sex with for awhile. Like a year- in 2020. But wtf! Ugh!! so why does he feel the need to keep me around, when he puts his energy and time for them other hoes or girl? (8 years) with this shit on and off!! 😠🤦😡😔

[Vikkrram]

First Don't hide your feelings for him. Go and tell him that how you feel for him. Then if he understands you then it is ok. But if he didn't understand then try to go away from him. I know it will be hard for you to go away from him. But Then a month of saddness is better than a years of Guilt that "I wish i could have told my feelings to her".

[Vikkrram]

Feelings to him sorry for the mistake

[Erica686]

That's Ok. But that's the thing! When it comes down to me me sharing my feelings for him. I get really nervous and shy!! 😑😳😒😛. But like last year, I told him this. And the fucker was actually wanted to talk about this in person face to face. But I felt as if he was going to try have sex. 🤦😭😭. We at times have had serious conversation! But a lot of times. We never really talked about how we felt and as far as moving forward as far as being in a relationship. I know, he isn't ready to commit himself to me, even psychics have told me things I already know. But frfr! how much sex dose he really need? 😑😳😂✋. I mean, at the beginning it was originally supposed to be just him and I. But it seems like he has this tendency! to not no how to keep his shit in his pants. But let's face it, he was a male hoe/whore/slut/prostitute wayyy before I met him. But, besides that. I have made sex way to easy for him! Before in the past. But again how much sex do he really needs. And how is he willing to keep lusting after me. OMG!!

[Vikkrram]

See everyone has a history and you accepted that that's so nice of you. In my opinion confess your feelings to him... First... and then see how he reacts...

[Erica686]

Okay. I can try. . but do you think that he may try to sex me? 😳😳

[Vikkrram]

I don't know... I never met him so how can I say that you better know... what he can do... but whatsoever Just give it a try First

[Erica686]

Okay. Thank You

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

friends with benefits is for pathetic losers, with no lives