If you're sitting around watching TV, and decide to pause and get up to get yourself a glass of water, how does it taste going down? It's refreshing and thirst-quenching, sure, but it's just water. But drink that same glass of water when you've just come in from working in the yard, tired and sweaty, and it's the nectar of the gods.
Lust and thirst are no different here. A little sexy teasing can do quite a bit to keep your guy pleasantly distracted with thoughts of you. It works whether it's intended or not, though the latter, being usually less ambiguous (sneaking up behind him to hug him from behind, snake your hand into his pants and give his equipment a gentle squeeze while you whisper "just making sure you'll be ready for me tonight" is hard to pass off as accidental), is often more effective. Two factors of it that most don't consider:
First is that women don't want (and are taught not) to be mean. And they think back to their younger years and the days when girls who got a guy hot and bothered and then stopped were called "teases", in a very derogatory sense, and they don't want to be that, either. But that epithet really only applies when you stop and then don't start again. The odd bit of neck-smooching or butt slapping or walking into the room where he's solving a jigsaw puzzle and saying "May I have your attention, please?" then lifting your shirt to display your breasts for a moment before lowering with "that is all" doesn't apply if it's leading to something. (That last one will probably leave him very confused, especially if you're not wearing your "Caution: Boobs" shirt, but sometimes confusion is a good thing). Reminding him that you love and are attracted to him is a critical thing for a relationship. Think of it as extended foreplay.
The second is that sex should be fun. "And it is!" I hear you say. But "fun" doesn't just mean "enjoyable"; it also means "playful". And that's something a lot of people are lacking in their relationships. It doesn't become dour or solemn, but it gets serious, and has a nasty tendency to stay that way. If you've never experienced how well orgasms and laughter go together, you're missing out.
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I like it. I had a girlfriend who wore a simple white cotton nightgown with two puppy dogs printed on it. The "puppy dog nighty" drove me crazy. We lived together for seven years, and she had it before we ever met. Eventually the puppy dog nighty came apart in the washing machine. It was a sad day.
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Why are questions like this a thing that happens? What happened in your last relationship that the guy you dated was such a square that he didn't like it when THE WOMAN HE WAS FUCKING DECIDED NOT TO WEAR HER OWN CLOTHES AROUND HIS HOUSE?
If I had a girlfriend... I'd love it... its that gateway to the promised land without being the gateway. Plus, who doesn't love a good tease once in a while?
In what world would that be irritating or annoying?
I would no mind. I tend not to wear much clothes around the house myself.
Teasing is fun as foreplay and annoying if it doesn't lead anywhere.
Yes, it's cute, if the point is to tease though, it's more effective with the shirt off too.
It's wonderful!
That's what she's worn to bed for almost 18 yearsdamn sexy unless its at a time she knows we won't be able to properly take advantage of that.
Maybe I’d be a wee turn on. Like having a wee chips before eating the huge what ever it is you’re having and recreating Hiroshima in the bathroom
i like it, plus she gets extra brownie points for wearing a cool shirt like a jake the dog shirt 😛😅
Pussy lips freely flapping about is extremely annoying 😤
Hot, specially when they look like that
Yeah, that’s always enticing.
I mean I wouldn't complain. Get a nice view
Wheres the proof honey
Yeah that's pretty cool
Of course. It's very sexy.
A t-shirt and sexy panties is hot too.
Damn baby lets go to bed
how dare you to turn me on
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