From my experience and from watching guys reactions this happens when he feels defensive and also was taught to attack when unable to admit his faults. A lot of guys grow up very different from women in which they were pushed around and never taught how to efficiently communicate or handle personal failures (which is the feeling they feel when exposed to their negative actions) not to say he is one, simply that he made bad choices or acted in a manner that was inappropriate or disresptful.
Guys in general can have a hard time projecting insecurities in a positive manner that allows them to seek improvement in themselves.
How we are raised is very important to how a person acts.
If he is acting this way and you allow him to disrespect you and just forgive him he will assume this is appropriate behavior and will become more disrespectful or he will continue to act as if you felt calling you a bitch was right.
You need to walk away from him let him realize that his actions are not tolerable and understand that he needs time to reflect on himself and work on himself. Men know that acting like this is disrespecting and they also know that if they have the opportunity when not at there best they will take advantage of people they can step over. (This does not apply to all men)
As said Actions speak louder then words.
Never assume a word is not a processed action within it self when it is used to attack others.00 Reply
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Because these men are WEAK No they aren't even real men they are whining little kids that didn't get the lollipop...
It's sick how some men have the audacity to offend women just because they feel challanged or because they get rejected.
It happened to me even here on G@G... dude tried to hit on me, i told him i'm taken then he called me a Wh*re and al sorts of stuff..
You tell me, are these men WEAK or just DUMB?25 Reply- +1 y
@ronaldo75 loool. I've been called gay so many times by girls i rejected
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@ronaldo75 I answered the question, why do you have to jump outside of the topic? Who said that I don't agree with you because I do. The dislike button and your comment confirms that you actually agree with MEN CALLING US ALL KIND OF NAMES JUST BECAUSE WE'RE NOT INTERESTED BECAUSE WE ARE TAKEN.
I'm sorry, but that makes you and all your fellas just as WEAK.
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@ronaldo75 1. I never blocked him, he blocked me after calling me horrible names just because I SAID I'm NOT INTERESTED IN GOING ANY FURTHER BECAUSE i'm TAKEN !!! SO WTF?
489 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. To much left out.
You have the cards stacked against you because of how to many female's have come with this and they are the bad one trying to get right in something that was off from their part.
Have seen more that have done this than that haven't. especially with that vague content.
( female's are very predictable and easy to read )
If you are one of those.
It sucks to be called out and you have yourself to blame.
If you aren't.
You need to be more detailed without coloring it with adding/twisting or leave out anything.
It could be a miss communication or miss interpretation between.00 Reply
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+1 ythe last sentence covers a lot of bases... who wants to change? it is a challenge and we are "fine" as we are, until in a relationship.
It could be their way of being dominant, ultimiately, it is a way to avoid dealing with another viewpoint of them. we can't see ourselves.
I can't say that I was verbally abusive like that, but I've put up my fronts to perspective. Reality is... we are all in relationship with others, humanity, in some cases... or closest loved one. And those relationships will turn up errors, flaws, misperceptions of ourselves, deep rooted emotions, that challenge who we are and what is true.00 Reply
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1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. This is a funny great question because the faster the guy can turn around and start blaming the girl and making her the bad guy instead of him the better he feels I think this is one of the best questions ever because you're absolutely right it's funnier than fucked watch this happen because the girls had is just spinning thinking wait a minute you just fucked up and you're blaming me and that's when the argument starts and then it starts going off in different directions and he doesn't have to deal with what he just did
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+1 yIt's hard to tell without context on what he was called upon.
For every argument every person feels they are right.
How will I know if he called the girl bitch bc he was challenged or just she thinks she 2as called bitch bc she thinks that she challenged him.
Lol have you seen here on gag itself it's actually women are quicker to name calling as from what I have seen.
Without a second thought they will claim that man is a pervert , rapists , misoginist and womanizer player etc etc and I have seen that they punish other men for the mistakes of there exes10 Reply This is funny cause it was my ex who would throw fits and make a big fuss/scene when i call her out on shit or when i challenge her. And i always been nothing but respectful and never have called her any names. But she would call me the worst of the names when something huge or a big fight happens.
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But to reply. I think for both cases it's a matter of just immaturity and lack of respect. Also... a big part of it could be them not knowing how to deal with the situation (it may be overwhelming for them) that they end up putting up a shell of defense (they get super defensive) to protect themselves from being vulnerable or cracked or... put in an awkward spot.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYou want weak?
How about married woman, chasing a married man getting pissed off at married man, who doesn't want said woman, called her a 'bitch' probably because she won't leave the poor bastard alone. I agree he doesn't need to call said woman names, he needs to take out a restraining order and deliver it when her husband is home with her.
Same woman who accused the same man for having a baby with HIS wife, was done just to piss her off.
That, folks, is weak. And this is a bad human being.11 ReplyThe emotionally weak ones or those who still consider themselves superior to women tend to use such hideous insults targeting the moral character of a woman. The sane ones respect everyone's opinions.
20 ReplySome guys have fragile and or toxic masculinity and any "challenge" to that makes them feel threatened resulting in shitty, abusive, or manipulative behavior. At least that's what I've noticed or thought. So him calling the girl a "bitch" just because she challenged him and put him in his place is just because his fragile sense of masculinity or ego was hurt 🤷🏻‍♂️
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+1 yI honestly don't know. 🤔 I'm sure I say something similar to men when I'm challenged as well. But why is b (!) ch a bad word anyways? I've always seen that word as representing a strong and independent woman that dosn't take ppls chit. Soo as a positive, not negative.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yMany of my gender are still trying to learn to walk, upright, and not drag knuckles!!
I wish you had met one of the evolved gentlemen, rather than that fool!!
Don't take it personally, because he is too ignorant to know what he is saying!24 Reply- +1 y
Women are always right!
Opinion Owner+1 y@Hallo626262 I wasn't saying that, at all. I don't assume they are right, all the time, and never just "surrender to their will" for sex!
My point was that a lot of guys, even now, are sexist assholes, and treat women like property, or degrade her, as if anything she says is not even heard, and unimportant to him.- +1 y
I see more sexist women. It also honestly seems like women want to be treated like property. Or don't they? Serious question. Some women certainly want that.
Opinion Owner+1 y@Hallo626262 I see many 'converting to the Cult of Islam, and accepting becoming property, and it make me physically sick!! SO many women, fighting for WOMEN'S Rights, and these just ignore that, for some abusive, controlling douchbag!!
They can choose, for themselves, but I know that most are being manipulated and lied to!
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yMost people don't have a basic level of intelligence anymore. They can't make clear and rational arguments, so they resort to the highest level of debate they are capable of, calling her a bitch. You see these Desperate Housewives of Beverly Hills kinds of ladies doing this all the time also, zero intelligence.
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+1 yBecause your version of a challenge is trying to tell men they are wrong when they have proven the contrary. There's also the fact that "challenging" always translates to "no man has ever set boundaries with me" what guy here wants to deal with that shit? And no it isn't because "we can't handle you!" It's because you're annoying and don't give us any peace everything is a battle for no reason.
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+1 yIf a guy is calling you a bitch when you didn’t call him name first or it isn’t some obvious bs shit test then you shouldn’t be dating him period.
I have rarely gotten to level of anger unless I know she blatantly being unfair. Sounds to me you are in love with an asshole which is typical and self sabotaging.00 ReplyIt's nothing else than ad hominem reaction. Reaction where the assumed status of one person is used as deflection from the issue. Nevertheless I've been called a bitch more often by other girls than boys.
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+1 yThats lashing out. Its indication that the guy feels threatened/ wounded. Its often an indication of an irrational thought process. The guy may not even understand his own stance, he may just have an emotional investment in it for some reason.
00 Reply589 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Wait, which is it?
Is she calling me out (attempting to publicly shame) for hurting her fealings or saying things that are true (legitimate rational arguments)?
There is probably colloquial differences depending where you are. Here it is a name for someone acting spiteful/bitter maybe even passive aggressive.00 Reply
+1 yBecause they know is gonna hurt their feelings, i know why they do that cuz I understand peoples mind very well. Me by the way never do that, i never offend women even when they piss me off, i like too much women, i think they are amazing human beings. I even wanted when kid have many women as wife like those kings in India or other places in middle east lol. For real women feelings gets hurt more, i have wife, mother, grandmother and daughter. I feel too much respect for them
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Same reason why some girls resort to quickly calling a guy a dick. Wish they would say bastard more it's a more fun word tbh than just been called a dick.
00 ReplyThey are probably misogynists or maybe just chauvinists. Definitely a sign of disrespect and a big red light.
You should feel lucky that they so quickly out themselves and avoid them.00 Reply- 644 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
+1 yThe better question is: Why do most guys resist calling a girl a b*** for so long when she clearly deserves to hear it.
70 Reply I have a feeling there's more to this story. What did he do wrong that you had to call him out on?
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Give us the quick breakdown then. If what he did was so obviously wrong, it shouldn't take much to explain. It sounds like you decided you were right and he was wrong, so you treated him poorly. He responded to your abuse by calling you a bitch. And for all we know, you were being one.
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+1 yBecause we don't want to admit the truth and that is that we are not as perfect as we try to project.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yGuys call girls a bitch for two reasons. One, she is (or is being) a bitch. And 2 because they want to hurt them. Being challenged isn't necessary but if they are being challenged and they don't like it and want to hurt her then out comes the b word.
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+1 yI don't know but, I kinda wish they'd stop!! I only do so when they ARE a bitch!! Most guys today tend to use it almost as much as they over-use, "dude"!!
00 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. it is indeed immature but its not gender specific... i hear women using the same technique when challenged by other women on something
00 Reply871 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. And how much name calling isn't done by women when she doesn't get her way? Calling her a bitch when she doesn't agree is no difference.
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Look who's talking. Why do women call a guy "Incel" within nanoseconds when they are challenged? That's literally what you all do. Shaming language is your tactic.
20 ReplyYou have to judge that on a case by case basis. Many women are b*tches.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWhy do some women play dumb when they're clearly not?
We all have our roles to play.
Hey I didn't invent gender roles!
Don't like them! Switch genders!
You can do that in this day and age. Lol20 Reply
+1 ySome girls are bitches about it, and some guys can't handle a girl showing them up (or rejecting them).. It's people.
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+1 yWhen men challenge other men, they no this can be resolved physically. When women challenge men, all we can do is hurt your feelings. Why are women so hell bent on challenging men over everything?
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. They know they already lost the argument so they resort to name calling.
Like calling a girl a lesbian when she turns down a guy in a club or bar.
Childish.00 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
+1 yIt's a mixture of ignorance and blame transferral through being in the wrong I suspect.
00 Reply Maybe because the girl quickly resort to being a bitch in the situation. I don't know situation so the guy could be spitting straight facts or he an asshole i don't know.
00 ReplyIf with challenge you mean some of that testing you Girls do.
Than it is because you actually are a bitch.
A good woman doesn't test her mans love10 ReplyNeed a better example or at least true to life example of your point
00 ReplyCause girls are usually more socially skilled than guys so if they get attacked they usually just resort to calling the girl a bitch. Though sometimes the girl is just plain and simple being a bitch. Either can happen.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWell often they haven’t done wrong.
I think it’s entirely possible that women regularly make mistakes when “calling out” guys and need to be informed that they’re being dumb.20 Reply
+1 yHow do you KNOW he's the one who did wrong?
Is it because you FEEL like he did?20 Reply929 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because those aren't men, they're boys who haven't grown up and haven't learned how to talk to people.
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I suppose your definition of being a man is placating to women being a bitch and keeping your mouth shut?
+1 yTwo possible situations.
1. They felt their ego hurt and so they want to insult her and hurt her back.
2. She actually was a bitch.
It will depend on the situation and the people involved.00 Reply
+1 yEven if what a woman says something true, it is more likely than not based on flawed logic making it untrue. Real men don’t tolerate bullshit or bitches.
00 ReplyIt's the best thing they can come up with. Pretty pathetic really!
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+1 yBecause they're too worried about laws to hit you for being a b! tch?
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+1 yWomen call me a "sad little man" on here all the time for the same reason. Being a jerk is an equal opportunity position. Doncha know.
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+1 yPersonally I'd never call a women a bitch even if she was acting like one. Its just not my style to be rude to random people even if I might think it
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yBecause men are more insecure than women, they feel things harder than women and are more fragile when they get challenged. If he cries over you, reject him. He might love you but you don’t have to love him back.
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https://youtu.be/EyHcaayAO8M here is your fragile femininity showing before you say guys are more insecure. And sure that goes for girls as well if she cries over anyone, they can just reject her.
431 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. They think they lost the battle so the only way they know to redeem themselves is to resort to childish name calling.
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+1 yName-calling usually comes right after running out of logical arguments.
00 Reply If they were real men, they wouldn’t mind a challenge.
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+1 yDepends on whether you were bitchy?
Most women expect the attention they desire - and there is no basis to expect anything more than what you give00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMaybe they learned it from how girls seems to wish to insult guys for saying something they did not like.
20 ReplyI’ve never called a girl a bitch. The way you can judge a man is by how he talks to his mother.
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+1 yThey’re basically idiots with very limited vocabularies. They’re also immature.
00 ReplyI know a lot of women will get mad and leave you as soon as you say something is her fault.
00 Reply861 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Same reason why you call guys dicks/assholes/sexist for the same reason.
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+1 ySame reason why some girls resort quickly calling a guy an asshole when they are challenged
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+1 yThey are getting owned and felt hurling insults was all they had left.
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+1 ySuch an attack is a sign that they can't produce a single valid argument.
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+1 ythey think being dominant is what you want in a man and this is the way they express it
00 Reply Im from the south and I feel like guys get this too.
If you complain they will tell you to stop being a bitch and man up.10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 ylast time i called a girl a bitch, she gave me a swift kick to the balls and i dropped on the ground and realized not to do that shit again :-|
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