Why doesn’t my boyfriend reply fast enough?

[Anonymous]

I get a response like every hour or two. He’s not working or busy. He’s at home. It’s ever since he asked me a question and I said if he did that thing I’d be uncomfortable. I’m so upset

[Sugar_7]

Many people are annoying like that not just your boyfriend. You send them and replay fast but when it comes to you they make you wait for ages until they reply back. Like you said it gets more annoying that they’re free and holding their phone 24h but don’t reply. lol

[jennifer_bloom]

His phone might not be in the same room as him or he might be doing chores that take up time like cooking or cleaning and I had an ex boyfriend who took around two hours to eat dinner each day - I can finish my dinner in 6 minutes.

[Anonymous]

Seems like you want to control him.. Perhaps you should grow up and realize the world does not revolve around you.

[CharlieHes]

Some people are like that.

[SeanshterMonster]

Depends. Whats the thing

[Asker]

He asked if I’d be ok if he stayed at a hotel with his female colleagues overnight (separate rooms) and I said I’d be uncomfortable but I won’t stop him

[SeanshterMonster]

Hmm. What's the purpose of this staying overnight? If it's just cause then no, I'd be uncomfortable too

[Asker]

They’re going clubbing together but just them 3. Even them clubbing is past my comfort zone but I don’t wanna be a psycho and tell him what he can and can’t do

[SeanshterMonster]

Clubbing? Like golf?

[Asker]

No, like nightclub

[SeanshterMonster]

Yeah then I would have a big problem.

[SeanshterMonster]

Unless I would go too. Like if it were me and my girlfriend going together with friends. Np

[Asker]

I just don’t wanna be irrationally sad

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's busy with other chicks. I don't know

[Anonymous]

Probably busy playing video games or watching porn