Why doesn't he reply as fast as he used to?

[Anonymous]

My crush used to reply back immediately or within a few mins. Now it takes at least 20 mins for him to get back to me. Guessing he's not interested anymore?

[NoAbyss]

I struggle with coming up with what to say instantly, so it takes a while for me to reply. This is worse on Whatsapp because of those damn blue ticks, it seems like I'm ignoring her or not interested.

[JuanShisuko]

You COULD always just politely ask him if he's busy with something.

[Asker]

I've done that before
But anyway I sort of have a guy feeling that this time he just don't want to talk. He's like consistently taking a longer time than usual to reply and this feeling is familiar to me cause the last guy I liked did this before he rejected me.

[JuanShisuko]

Well, whatever the case, I wish you the best. If he's not "the" guy, never say never - you never know when you'll meet a guy that'll give you the time that you deserve.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes when you put so much effort into something too fast it can really knock you down. So try to do something else like hang out or go shopping... guys actually hate texting.. Lol

[CancerianMan81]

maybe he's gotten something going on

[Asker]

Maybeee
I just get really insecure so if I start feeling like someone doesn't enjoy my company I leave

[CancerianMan81]

just because they ain't around doesn't mean they don't care for you

[CancerianMan81]

me I have a problem with coming up with a conversation cause there are times I don't know what to say

[CancerianMan81]

I have zero coping skills cause I have ADHD

[Asker]

Thanks for the input and sharing your own anecdote

[CancerianMan81]

tbh I don't know why that happens

[CancerianMan81]

and no problem