A few months later we talked…I told him I was having a hard time moving on and that I felt something genuine and real with him. He said he felt similar but obviously it couldn’t go anywhere.
Fast forward a few years. He avoids me if we run into each other…which I didn’t think we ended badly, so it hurts. I finally asked him and told him that it hurt me. He basically ridiculed me. Told me it was just one night and how could I possibly feel anything. Kind of snickered through some of his responses. Told me it was nothing more than attraction and not to read anything into it…that it was just a fantasy and not reality. He also said, “I don’t hâte you. It’s not personal. We just can’t be friends though. I don’t have friends that my wife doesn’t know about or friends that are women.”
I don’t get it. I understand that it’s been a long time but never expected him to be harsh or to get such a completely different vibe. I expected him to say he had moved on but didn’t expect him to negate the whole experience.