Other men at the time came on to me more and asked me on more dates and would call me “hot” openly and tried to sleep with me. I was also called “23, fat, and stupid” by a guy who asked me out to a drink and to bring my “curves” on over. I rejected him so he said the “23, fat, and stupid” thing. He then proceeded to tell me I’m unstable just because I got emotional over the comment, it was so hurtful. Another guy compared super slender women in front of me and compared me to his ex who had a flat stomach. And he told me I’m not elegant.
This isn’t ok. I don’t have these experiences anymore. In fact guys don’t even come on to me expecting any form of sexual favors. In fact it’s so bad I think I’m not hot sometimes. Overall though I have a higher self esteem now as I’ve realized all these things and do what I can to keep the crud away.
Anyway why do some men treat overweight women like this? It’s dehumanizing and fucked up.