If a guy suddenly has a beautiful woman interested in him, does it inflate his ego? And make him think he can score other beautiful women?

[Anonymous]

Like if he normally hasn’t had attractive women interested in him and suddenly a beautiful woman is super into him, will this inflate his ego and then make him believe he can get other women similar interested in him?

[abc3643]

Yes, it does.

I will never forget when 31 years ago, I was in graduate school and had this beautiful new girlfriend. I was really happy not just because of that, but because I did genuinely love her and I am still devastated at losing her. Anyway, I was sitting in my office with my other grad school buddies and she was sitting in my lap. The office door was open and my desk happened to be the one that one would see looking directly through the doorway from the hall. Another grad student who was a bit of a douche walked by. We didn't hate each other and were minimally friendly, but we really did not like each other... and this is one reason why: He walks by my door and sees my beautiful girlfriend in my lap. He stops, looks at me and her with a look of envious annoyance and says "There is no God." and walked-off. His own girlfriend (and, I believe, later wife) was rather unattractive... Anyway, yes, I felt a bit of smug happiness that, for once, he likely envied me and that, in a way, I pissed him off.

[NathanDavis]

not in my case no... I never assume that whatever happened with one woman, will start to happen with others... people are different and so are the circumstances, I rather go case by case scenario, there's been more than one yes... but is not "any woman I want"

[Tigress1039]

I’m not a man and I think yes, the same neural constructs for a women’s ego is pretty much the same in a man. So I’m sure they do get confident is securing other pretty women based on the feedback loop he got from his previous partners especially if they are attractive.

[MasterKS]

@Tigress1039 I second and think thats how we actually increase more partners.

[GoldenAxer]

A little bit, I must admit! Well, I'm not sure about similar girls. But it does tell me I can attract some girls. That said, only a little bit. That one girl might just have bizarre tastes in guys. I don't know for sure.

[GoldenAxer]

I got one rare time in my 20s where I got not only one attractive girl hitting on me in a nightclub, but multiple! Then I also had guys approaching me asking me how I did it and I had no idea. Then on the way home, two of the really attractive girls fought over who got to ride home in the taxi with me! I never felt more attractive and cool in my whole life.

Unfortunately, I've never been able to replicate that. I must have just looked and acted especially good that one night. I never figured out what I did to get so much female attention.

[GoldenAxer]

What I think happened that one and only night is that because the first girl who approached and started hitting on me was so attractive (and maybe she had a weird taste in guys singling me out), the other girls noticed and maybe thought I'm cool. So then they approached and it created a sort of cascading effect until I felt like a rockstar for one day of my life. I've never been able to replicate that result.

[GoldenAxer]

I'm curious if any girls might have an idea of what might have happened there. The only other thing I can think of is that this was a very fancy and expensive nightclub called 911 Black in Roppongi with $15 beers. So most of the male customers had tuxedos and suits. I just entered with flip-flops, a t-shirt, and shorts. So I stood out that way dressing like a bum among all these people with fancy suits and dresses. Maybe that made me stand out in some way that attracted all those girls.

[Clarke498]

Personally it would boost my ego, but I wouldn't really believe I could score girls unless it became a pattern.

[MrSwisher]

same

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nope he thinks this beautiful girl is dumbo
And don't have great taste. 😊

[Ailaw22]

Not really for everyone but it will certainly make him feel proud little bit

[MrSwisher]

No because for me personally I believe in committing to a relationship but if a pretty woman went out of her way to show interest in me I would be flattered like never before.

[Shy_Steve]

It can inflate his ego a bit but if he didn't really approach Women before, It won't make him start.

[Anonymous]

No most of us men would just assume it’s the set up of some kind because hot chicks don’t volunteer to give men attention

[shadowlunitic03]

Well suddenly more people are buying into this now thanks to some billie eilish quote.

[Starwitch23]

Yup, it happens and I saw it happening.

[EaterPeter]

Not necessarily. Hello self doubts.

[EaterPeter]

Thank you for like!

[Anonymous]

To me... only if he's a player

[Dinosaursandanime65]

“We did it Beavis…… we’re finally gonna score”

[Joker_]

Yeah