Guy I confessed I like to comes back to me after rejecting me for another girl. I’ve been over him, but should I allow myself to be curious?

[Anonymous]

am i a clown? definitely. i’m not saying anything to him. just watching him like my posts and everything. but if he does say a word, i’d probably answer. because i am so lonely. loneliest loner.

[Jake99999]

Well, do you like being someone's second choice, someone's plan B? When you say "after rejecting me for another girl", were you his girlfriend and he dumped you for the other girl, or are you saying he merely chose her over you - and you never really had a relationship with him? Either way you are his backup plan it seems like. Does that make you feel good?

[Adam1978]

Well you where not his first choice but clearly he wasn't either for the other woman. So you are basically in the same boat. Now it's up to you if you want to keep a grudge or actually get what you wanted before.

[Asker]

interesting perspective. but do i want to be in his boat? the second option? or could we just both be friends until we find out first options

[Adam1978]

Whoever you pick later will clearly not be your first pick either so really doesn't solve anything by excluding him. You just make it harder for people and you to match. And how do you benefit from that?

[bambi_01]

No! Don’t go back to him. If you have any self respect then you’d know not to. I’ve been in a situation like this before and learnt the hard way. A guy like that will just leave you again when he finds another woman. It’s important to understand your worth and know that you can do a lot better. Goodluck! ☺️

[Apulu_02]

Sometimes it is better to let go of people than sticking to them. If you keep that crush of yours for a long time then it may even damage the relation you have right now. Just ignore him and look into other guys.

[Yaharro]

Not sure but don't take decision just because you are lonely

[spartan55]

"Watching him like my posts"
😂 😂 😂 😂 So stupid

[Asker]

fuck off it’s not stupid

[Asker]

he’s doing it on purpose, liking posts from long ago. wishing me a happy birthday

[spartan55]

It means nothing. But go ahead, value social media more than actual
day to day life... 🙄

[spartan55]

And fuck off yourself, you can't even tell the truth about your fucking age.

[Asker]

my age is really 29 lol

[Asker]

and that’s quite the assumption to make that i value social media more than life

[spartan55]

It's not assumption, your answer indicates it. Do you understand how little effort and time is required to look at those stupid stories?

[livingnightmare]

are you that desperate?