Why does my male roommate rush me out the shower and bathroom frequently despite s setting up scheduled times for each other? Does he like me?

[Anonymous]

Just curious cause i dont get why else a guy would do this aggravating bs to me on purpose. Today he rushed me out like 15 mins into my scheduled bathroom time to take a dump which stunk the bathroom up for like 15 more mins so I couldn't keep getting ready in te bathroom.

[boxxie2002]

Maybe he's got some OCD issues or justlilesthe control of dictating your bathroom time?

If it happened once or twice it would be different all the time is odd.

Maybe try changing your schedule around and do things at night or get up earlier and see if he still rushes you at those times

[Asker]

I don't know. He apparently works night shifts. But why agree to a schedule to avoid conflicting showers yet still act like a dick. I can let having to poop pass but shower? Like eff off mate.

[Asker]

Plus if he really had to poop he could go 15 mins earlier before its MY time.

[boxxie2002]

Very true... he sounds pretty painful and just making your life harder for kicks

[Asker]

I am afraid to make him wait or aporoach him about this. he's a stranger and he's a man and he's bigger than me.

[boxxie2002]

Is moving an option? Or getting an additional flatmate?

[Asker]

We already have two other roommates. We are 2 men and 2 women.

[Asker]

Moving is like a full time job. I am poor.

[boxxie2002]

Do they have the same issue with him, or I'd he only doing this to you?

[Asker]

I am not sure because most of then seem to prefer to privately text or gossip about issues rather tan handle it as a group together. But as for the bathroom thing, he comes home right before I wake up to get ready for work.

[Asker]

So that just gives him an easy opportunity to do this to me he probably doesn't with the others.

[boxxie2002]

I can only suggest doing what you need to earlier or the night before and I you apply make up to do it in your room.

Pretty shitty for you though when you pay rent and AR entitled to your own space

[Asker]

I don't use makeup. But yes that's an idea I could consider doing like maybe shower at night and just quickly freshen up in the AM. At least I could try it for a month or so, so he doesn't get to do this and maybe he will get bored and stop for good.

[boxxie2002]

I hope so... you do not deserve to feel like that in your own place

[Avicenna]

No, he’s self-centered

[Asker]

What can i do? Im scared to say wait because he seems to have anger issues.

[Asker]

Also i get what you mean that he's self centered but i honestly can't even fathom how someone can be that self centered they think they can regularly knock on th door of someone who is in the bathroom and rush them out?

[Iron_Man]

I guess he had to go

[Asker]

I am more concerned he does this all th time
He usually showers instead of pooping

[888theGreat]

selfish hog

[Asker]

I already texted him about agreeing to a schedule thay works for us. He had no problem with that. But he doesn't even follow it ! I am usure what to do because he's a stranger and imscared he has anger isues if i aporoach him about this again or if i make him wait.