Am I right in starting to think so many asshole guys chase me because I am pretentious as hell therefore seemingly hard to get?

[Anonymous]

Am I right in starting to think so many asshole guys chase me because I am pretentious as hell therefore seemingly hard to get? It reminds me of how Tyra banks said models' stank face on draws people in more than a regular look/smile

[coffeismytea]

You have to look from all perspectives to fully understand situations you often get yourself into.
Remember that you cannot discard the possibility that you are classifying good people as assholes, or maybe you ignore the good people around you because you yourself are being an asshole to them.

Look inside, only you can know the answer to that question.

[ohshee]

It could be true but it could also be that you're trying to be somebody that you're not and you're projecting something that's not happening because they enjoy thinking that it's happening just so they can accuse you of it and that's what I say WTF are you on

[Osiebrhr]

Thanks.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Yes that is a good assumption because men are hunters by nature. They like to chase (within reason) and don't like anything that comes easy.

[kyleelyn199723]

Ehhhh it’s just really hard these days to find a guy that isn’t an asshole

[Asker]

Hahah right girl.

[BogeyMulligan]

It’s not that hard though

[kyleelyn199723]

As a girl with dating experience, yes it is. I picked my favorite asshole and we are dating so lol

[ohshee]

@kyleelyn with an answer like that I guarantee it he's going to fall in love with you as a perfect answer

[kyleelyn199723]

@ohshee oh dear we have already been together for two years. We are both in love with each other and he is the guy for me, however yes he can be an asshole sometimes and I can be a bitch :) thanks for your subpar reply

[ohshee]

Yes I knew the minute you said it then you were in love that's why I said it's the best answer ever yes very true we could all be assholes we can also be good assholes LOL but I just wanted to say thank you like I said I felt every single word I felt what you meant by it and it was all out of love

[slatyb]

They chase everyone. That's part of what makes them assholes.

[bamesjond0069]

If you play hard to get, only players will play your games.

[Osiebrhr]

It was an accident. Plus in a totally different sense i acually am hard to get.

[bamesjond0069]

@Osiebrhr if you are hard to get thats good. Hard to get means keeping your legs closed though not being rude or ignoring men.

[Osiebrhr]

I have to ignore assholes. But if a man is respectful i dont see a need to be rude or ignore him. Sadly most mem that talk to me even on a aquaintance level are absolute assholes whether thats people i have to deal with like at work or street strangers who cat call. I dont have sex before marriage so i totally get what you mean. A lot of women are selling themselves cheap and short

[bamesjond0069]

@Osiebrhr smart girl. 🙂

[Osiebrhr]

👍👍👍

[GingerGuy]

Change that behavior and find out.

[Iron_Man]

Find a guy in church

[Asker]

Do you go church?

[Iron_Man]

Yes…

[Browneye57]

You're an image in your own mind. pfft.

[malwins]

how do u know u r pretentious

[Asker]

I don't know. I just think i can be fake because i am always nice to even bullies. I act like theydidnt hurt ne when really i go home cry and angry all the time. I feel like im just being a fake person.

[Anonymous]

Just say you like bad boys and it's done

[anylolone]

Quite possible.