Men would you be comfortable leaving your girlfriend/wife around a gay male friend?

[Anonymous]

[Diodoro]

Obviously. Only friends I would take issue with would be any friends causing discord in our relationship.

Like if we have an argument because of something her friend said I'm now taking issue with the friend spending time around her if there's not a firm boundary in place about not speaking on our relationship.

I've never had this issue but I've seen girls friends literally the an instigating factor in relationship problems for the girl and it's ridiculous. Too many girls take advice from friends who are not good sources.

[Wester1967]

I know plenty of guys who are 110% certifiably gay. These guys I have zero problem with, as they have zero problem with me being around their male friends.

It's them skeezy 1/2 way squirly dudes who play pretend and will stick it in anything that walks that I don't want to be messing with.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

They are Gay... they are most likely going to go shopping , watch RuPaul , go to a drag show , have a movie night and talk about boys...

A normal man wouldn’t have that fear unless he knows the Gay man is going to call him out on his bullshit and tell the woman that she deserves better

also anyone who tries to alienate a girl from her friends is a Creep... Period

[Vanella]

To me the most important thing in a relationship is trust, so I'd leave my so with anyone they want to hang out with no matter their gender or sexuality.

[ItsMeElliana]

Honestly I don't know about men, but If my husband were to be with a girl lesbian friend? id actually not be comfortable and i really won't like it

[Paul09]

Can you explain why? Because I don't think you know what a lesbian is lol

[ItsMeElliana]

@Paul09 ? i do know they hate men and stuff but they can still be friends with a guy and enjoy their company, and ik they won't have any feels but i just its instinctive for me to get jealous no matter who that girl is, like he's still giving them attention and stuff and would actually make me uncomfortable

[Paul09]

Lol hate? No not exactly. Just attracted to same sex, nothing else. Will never be attracted to opposite sex. So it would be silly to be jealous, absolutely nothing would ever happen. So no reason to be threatened.

[ItsMeElliana]

@Paul09 I know but its just like its a girl. with my guy. Id get jealous and not be comfortable with whatever their sexuality is. I just dont want my guy to enjoy her company more than me ig, you'd probably just not know how it feels

[Paul09]

That's like saying you don't trust your man to he around your mother alone..

[ItsMeElliana]

@Paul09 bruh wtf how is a lesbian friend even compared to a mother.

[Paul09]

Because they both are not intrested in your boyfriend. Yoh will have a world of hurt if you keep thinking like this. Tine to learn, tine to evolve to a new You.

[ItsMeElliana]

@Paul09 I thought this was a website where we could share our opinions. didn't know you'd come at me for my opinion like this dude. i honestly dont care what you say anymore or think of me. its how i am and i can't really change it. I've been hurt a lot yeah you're right, I've tried to change my thinking but it just always comes back at me.

[Paul09]

I've also been hurt, a lot. Exact reason I would not hurt others with excuses. Do on to others what you want done to you. But if you want to be controlling, then that's up to you. You'll just end up losing him. But OK have a great day then.

[Adam1978]

Yes, he wouldn't be a friend if I can't trust him and she wouldn't be a girlfriend if I didn't trust her. As I see it both need to betray ny trust for something to happen.

[Jan98]

Honestly. Trust is the most important thing, yes... And if I trust my girlfriend I'd me 100% fine with it, it doesn't mean that I am completely comfortable with the guy tho, cuz some guys uses it as an excuse to get closer to ladies cuz I mean why not he is gay so trust him💁🏻‍♂️ I'll always trust my girlfriend or wife unless she gives me reason not to trust her.

[Tamera952]

Yes of course DUH! -- Only a real dumbass or a real jealous prick would have a problem with that.

[NamerOfStars]

Why wouldn't I? Both friendship and romantic partnership are keyed to loyalty; they may be tempted, but they're still human.

[Fuentes]

If he's actually GAY because i worked with one girl who lied to her fiance that another guy she was seeing at work and cheating was a gay dude and he thought he was gay the whole time she was cheating on him

[Joshua0213]

I dont have any gay friends but I leave her with my other friends pretty often when I go to the store or something

[bamesjond0069]

No. Gay people are immoral so i would not leave my girl around an immoral person.

[Subarugirl]

No more immoral than anyone else...

[bamesjond0069]

@Subarugirl no they are immoral specifically for being gay. Gays are bad people. Just as murderers are bad people.

[Paul09]

You believe in invisible gods, wtf do you know?

[Subarugirl]

While the six passages that address same-sex eroticism in the ancient world are negative about the practices they mention, there is no evidence that these in any way speak to same-sex relationships of love and mutuality. To the contrary, the amount of cultural, historical and linguistic data surrounding how sexuality in the cultures of the biblical authors operated demonstrates that what was being condemned in the Bible is very different than the committed same-sex partnerships we know and see today. The stories of Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19) and the Levite’s concubine (Judges 19) are about sexual violence and the Ancient Near East’s stigma toward violating male honor. The injunction that “man must not lie with man” (Leviticus 18:22, 20:13) coheres with the context of a society anxious about their health, continuing family lineages, and retaining the distinctiveness of Israel as a nation. Each time the New Testament addresses the topic in a list of vices (1 Corinthians 6:9, 1 Timothy 1:10), the argument being made is more than likely about the sexual exploitation of young men by older men, a practice called pederasty, and what we read in the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Romans is a part of a broader indictment against idolatry and excessive, self-centered lust that is driven by desire to “consume” rather than to love and to serve as outlined for Christian partnership elsewhere in the Bible. While it is likely that Jews and Christians in the 1st century had little to no awareness of a category like sexual orientation, this doesn’t mean that the biblical authors were wrong. What it does mean, at a minimum, is that continued opposition toward same-sex relationships and LGBTQ+ identities must be based on something other than these biblical texts, which brings us back to a theology of Christian marriage or partnership.

[bamesjond0069]

@Subarugirl while i agree with some of what you write, much of it i dont. I agree that "... it is likely that Jews and Christians in the 1st century had little to no awareness of a category like sexual orientation..." i disagree that they would use the words they did to describe a loving relationship or a not loving relationship. The words were describing male penis penetration of male orifice. Jews and Christians would not have made a distinction between a man who desires another man but does not act on it vs what we call a straight man. Only the fact does his penis enter another man or not? No he's moral. Yes he's homosexual. The whole idea of "identity" is not something they thought about, simply the act of homosexual sex.

[Paul09]

You either love to hate. Or are completely brainwashed and can't think on your own.

[lonelyguyintheworld]

I would trust my significant other and not worrie in any situation

[Deserter]

Gay dudes are weird, he's gonna gossip to her about why she shouldn't be with me or some shit

[najekim]

Sure. It'll be leaving her around Bisexual or Lesbians ladies I might wonder about. . . ;)

[jennifer_bloom]

A gay friend might be bi-sexual and not gay

[DonkeyDan]

Why would it matter if he's gay or not?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Why wouldn’t they be?

[HighValue]

No. No gay guys allowed at my house or as friends.

[Shihab91]

😂😂😂😂😂 sure not...

[Waldoe]

yes... and I have many times, why do you ask?

[REDHOTLINE]

Uç he is really a gay. No problem for me

[jasco]

No I would not

[Asker]

why?

[jasco]

I don't know i just wouldn't

[Recurrence]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Of course.

[clampfan101]

Why would I not?