How do you feel about men who blame all of their issues on women?

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worldscolide · Accepted Answer

They are idiots.. No respect for them.. This goes for both genders cause I feel the same about women who blame men for their issues.. People need to learn to take responsibility for their actions and situations.

andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

I see then as male counterparts of neo-feminist women.

Finchie40 · Answer

Women are the issues aren’t they lol Just teasing , but Girls do this as well , it just stems down to the fact that most people can’t admit when they are wrong so it’s easier to play a victim and blame their actions on others , We all aren’t perfect people and we all have flaws and insecurities about ourselves so it takes a real person to admit
That they are wrong , most people can’t do that , it kills their self esteem and their egos and they try to avoid conflict as much as possible , if they had to admit that they were wrong. This has been going on for centuries. So finding someone that can actually admit that they are wrong is hard to come by , cuz it’s easier to project your actions and flaws on to someone else instead of looking at yourself in the mirror and admitting to yourself that you are a piece of shit , Take cheaters for example , the second they are busted they immediately blame their partner for their actions , cuz the cheater is scared to admit that they are a piece of shit and can’t admit they are wrong for their actions , they will find every excuse in the book as to why they cheated and play a victim. It’s a stupid defense mechanism most people have , most people don’t realize just by being honest is actually better than being a liar. People that lie are pretty much pathetic people they lie so much to the point they actually start believing their own lies and not realizing they are only digging their own grave cuz eventually those lies will come back to haunt them , All and all it’s best just to be honest , the only way we as people learn in life is by accepting our flaws and admitting when we are wrong. But most people can’t do that , they lie to avoid conflict they are the over thinkers , they already plan the outcome beforehand in their heads. If I tell her that I went and had beers with the guys she will be mad at me so instead I will tell her I went to the store looking for new shoes to avoid conflict, if the truth eventually comes out and he gets busted he will blame his girl for making him lie and say she is the reason he lied because He knew she would be mad if He told her the truth lol this shit happens all the time. I will admit I was this way once when I was younger , until I realized it’s stupid of me to be this way , and easier just to be honest. People respect you more when you are honest and admit that you are wrong

Diodoro · Answer

Annoying

My general stance on people complaining about their situation is
1. Is there anything you can do about it?
2. Are you doing anything about it?
3. If not, then I'm not hearing it

a lot of the time people in general will complain rather than taking action steps that will improve their situation. So anytime that happens if they complain I'm just annoyed and don't want to hear it.

If you're actually doing something about your situation I'll hear you out. Especially since the types of complaint are different and coming from a different place.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'd say that those are the kinds of men who don't understand & respect women. They're also the type of men who don't have a grasp of being real men or even just a fraction thereof.

In fairness, I'd say the same about women who blame as their issues on men.

Both need a lot of learning to do. If they're too stubborn, get 'em outta my sight!

Lifelive96 · Answer

I think they are ridiculuous and childish. If you are an adult, you can not blame on everyone about what you live apart from yourself. If they encounter some bad women in their life they can not say that ‘’%90 women are like this’’ who are you to say this? Did you travel the all around the world? Many of them have serious mommy issues and insecurities. They feel better when they have a place to spread their hatred. It is so miserable. Not for us, for them. I think it is so hard to live like that. They must go to therapist. That’s all i can say.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

It’s likely a mix of immaturity and lashing out.
at times it’s often childish.

I am my own worst enemy I fully understand that and will put my hand up when I’ve fucked up, however at times it’s been the other person and I do expect an element of responsibility being shown.

There are women that do the same thing, I know I have one as a sister. On those occasions she has a boyfriend, it’s a nightmare and I can pretty much script what will happen. She really should stick to girls as she has a really crap choice in guys.

but yeah blaming everything on the other gender is plain stupid and childish.

Jaumet · Answer

Seriously? Look, I don't feel anything for other men and I couldn't care less who they blame for their problems or issues on. Does it really matter that they blame someone else, a woman or whomever, to simply not take responsibility for what goes on in their own life.

This problem with people in general, both men and women is simply blaming others for their problems and never being able to take responsibility of what happens in their own life. These idiots can't understand that when they blame someone else for their problems... they are just admitting that others control their life and are thus nothing but a puppet for someone else to use.

I have no clue why you would make this gender specific, when in truth this is a rather common problem with everyone. It has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with refusing to take responsibility of what occurs in your own life.

Nomina · Answer

Honestly, the same way i feel about women who blame all of their issues on men. It's playing the victim, lacks perspective, lacks self-reflection, and it shows them to be most likely to deflect responsibility and nothing is ever their fault - it's always someone else.

I think it's sad because they don't realize their hurting themselves and place their emotional well-being in the hands of someone else.

Andres77 · Answer

The first thing that comes to mind..."for every awesome woman out there, there's at least one guy that's tired of her shyt."
Men and women are NOT the same.
We're good at different things.
We're better at certain roles.
Together... we SHOULD be an awesome team.
It's my belief that THAT is the design
Humility in partnership.
Blaming anyone and everyone for anything... if you didn't make absolutely sure that you were not really the one to blame... STFU until you review everything.
Sometimes it's you, sometimes it's her, sometimes it's no one's fault but just a misunderstanding.

SaoirseS · Answer

They're sad people. Funny thing is when they go on rants about women, they say nothing about themselves, which is where the problem is. It's much easier to be mad at the whole world or blame "women," "most women," and "most all women." The ones over height are just ridiculous.

Lionman95 · Answer

The same like I think about women blaming men and "toxic masculinity" (variing in definitions) for their problems, I don´t mind them as long as they keep me out of it.
I don´t wanna play the "blame-game" because no one has it fair in life, we all have problems and we either solve them or ask for help. Blaming and blame-shifting isn´t helpful because that way one shows me that he/she isn´t willing to question their own behavior and to change something for their own.

MeauxJoMan · Answer

Lmao... question should be boys who blame etc. Real men can admit their faults and problems and own it. I have to admit i have seen a few males do this and it takes so much effort not to slap them on the back of the head. I've seen women do the same and i can't help but wonder why is it so hard for people to look inside before looking outside before passing judgment.

Azura_88 · Answer

Cowards and fake men.

Anger issues? Because my woman doesn't do this or is stupid.
Jealousy? ALL women are easy sluts
Insecurity? Female gender is gold digger
Incompetence in workplace? She's an opportunistic b****, must have slept with boss.

BigAFRO · Answer

Men just take care of yourself. You should always come first. Better yourself. Do not financially tie yourself down to anyone.

No to marriage unless she makes more than you.

Don't have kids unless you can get 50% custody and the woman has proven her trust worthy.

menina · Answer

They're pathetic! No woman is 100% responsible for a man's problems. Instead of complaining they should try finding solutions for their issues.

Mehzmeh · Answer

They are pathetic!! They need to Learn to responsibility of there on problems.

AndrewMG · Answer

They can't get laid... I mean that tends to be the truth lol.

MTC29 · Answer

Excuses/blame are like assholes... everyone has one.

jshm2 · Answer

The same as I do about women who blame all their issues on men. Only small minded people like to take shortcuts to blame. Fix the fuckup, not the blame.

Redstang88 · Answer

Same way I feel about women that blame all their issues on men

CaliGirlBH · Answer

Its a cop out, there is no man in this world who is perfect that's a fact. In my opinion he's less of a man if he can't admit his faults. I've experienced that before in a relationship and I shut it down real quick.

humpbackjack · Answer

The same way I feel about women that do the same thing and I’m pretty sure I feel the same way anybody would feel. They’re just feeling sorry for themselves and don’t want to have to admit to making their own mistakes they’re weak and need to man up

Fireguy17 · Answer

they probably need to take a closer look at themselves.
It is so much easier to blame someone else vs taking responsibility for ones own actions and have to admit that you are not as good as you think you are.

IAMNathanael · Answer

Maybe some problems are to blame. But I think those guys should look at themselves just as much. I couldn't help but be reminded of this funny skit

Slim57 · Answer

I feel the same towards women who blame everything on men

_no_one_ · Answer

Equally pathetic as some whining feminists who'd do the same. Bunch of pussies who couldn't accept failure and move on or smth but rather they decide to play the blame game to cover up for their insecurities and narcissistic tendencies.

Cherry234 · Answer

They're petty and ridiculous. They're probably those trashy mgtow or red pill types. I'd stay far far away from those bitter freaks

Waldoe · Answer

they have a lack of "self awareness" or are unable to accept responsibility.

exitseven · Answer

Typical snowflake. Won't take responsibility for his own stuff.

buddysboy16 · Answer

Same way I feel about girls who blame all their issues on guys. They're stupid

llElectrifyll · Answer

Projection and denial, because they are unable to accept the things they *think* they cannot change.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I think they have a point to an extent if I am interpreting your question correctly. My biggest issue is the tyrannical justice system and family courts that cause many men to say that marriage isn't worth the trouble.

Explorer911 · Answer

Same as women blaming all on men.  Grow up. Get real. be responsible.

Nightroads · Answer

"Some people claim that there's a woman to blame, but i know, its my own damn fault" Nobody forces you to do anything.

jasco · Answer

I can understand why they do it. I can relate to their reasoning for doing it as well. However its not right to blame everyone tho. Same goes for women to.

GingerGuy · Answer

Well you'd have to be more specific, but women do this with guys also.

noohair · Answer

Because both men and women fail to take responsibility for their decisions, good or bad, and then can't make the connection between their own free will decisions and their messed up life.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I blame myself for constant getting dragged into women’s shite. It’s always a personal responsibility issue for me…

elizamichale1 · Answer

whether men or women who blame everything on others need to have some working on their own tbh

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

They are weak, incels and mitches 😏 It's not wrong to make mistakes, it's wrong to make them and never learn from them...

Grond21 · Answer

Pretty much the same way as I do about women who blame everything on men

msc545 · Answer

Women actually are the source of many of the problems men have.

TallAnon · Answer

Eh, it's a coping mechanism, it's too bad, but as long as they don't hurt anyone, it's the same as if they were drinking to cope.

InferiorElegy · Answer

Same as when females blame men for exactly everything bad ever, I don't like them at all.

Coulis · Answer

I don't pay them any mind at all.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm sorry I disagree with Men on them issues

ChiPaPa · Answer

They need some introspection.

dustybiker · Answer

Mixture of immaturity and hurt.

OddBeMe · Answer

Admire them. Damn bitches.

cth96190 · Answer

Are you talking about me? 🤣

jamesgoldman · Answer

Amusing because my problems are all caused by me

Joker_ · Answer

I think they're funny

anylolone · Answer

Same as women who blame everything on men.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Methinks they doth protest too much.

Justneedtokno · Answer

Yes yes and yes.

Chthou95 · Answer

What's your true reason for asking this question?

Jouth · Answer

girls are sexy sometimes

3rdsignsun1 · Answer

Weak, ignorant, and blind.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I feel bad for them.

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