How do you feel about men who blame all of their issues on women?

[WowwGirl]

[worldscolide]

They are idiots.. No respect for them.. This goes for both genders cause I feel the same about women who blame men for their issues.. People need to learn to take responsibility for their actions and situations.

[worldscolide]

Thank you for MHO my friend!

[andreasderjuengere]

I see then as male counterparts of neo-feminist women.

[Finchie40]

Women are the issues aren’t they lol Just teasing , but Girls do this as well , it just stems down to the fact that most people can’t admit when they are wrong so it’s easier to play a victim and blame their actions on others , We all aren’t perfect people and we all have flaws and insecurities about ourselves so it takes a real person to admit
That they are wrong , most people can’t do that , it kills their self esteem and their egos and they try to avoid conflict as much as possible , if they had to admit that they were wrong. This has been going on for centuries. So finding someone that can actually admit that they are wrong is hard to come by , cuz it’s easier to project your actions and flaws on to someone else instead of looking at yourself in the mirror and admitting to yourself that you are a piece of shit , Take cheaters for example , the second they are busted they immediately blame their partner for their actions , cuz the cheater is scared to admit that they are a piece of shit and can’t admit they are wrong for their actions , they will find every excuse in the book as to why they cheated and play a victim. It’s a stupid defense mechanism most people have , most people don’t realize just by being honest is actually better than being a liar. People that lie are pretty much pathetic people they lie so much to the point they actually start believing their own lies and not realizing they are only digging their own grave cuz eventually those lies will come back to haunt them , All and all it’s best just to be honest , the only way we as people learn in life is by accepting our flaws and admitting when we are wrong. But most people can’t do that , they lie to avoid conflict they are the over thinkers , they already plan the outcome beforehand in their heads. If I tell her that I went and had beers with the guys she will be mad at me so instead I will tell her I went to the store looking for new shoes to avoid conflict, if the truth eventually comes out and he gets busted he will blame his girl for making him lie and say she is the reason he lied because He knew she would be mad if He told her the truth lol this shit happens all the time. I will admit I was this way once when I was younger , until I realized it’s stupid of me to be this way , and easier just to be honest. People respect you more when you are honest and admit that you are wrong

[Diodoro]

Annoying

My general stance on people complaining about their situation is
1. Is there anything you can do about it?
2. Are you doing anything about it?
3. If not, then I'm not hearing it

a lot of the time people in general will complain rather than taking action steps that will improve their situation. So anytime that happens if they complain I'm just annoyed and don't want to hear it.

If you're actually doing something about your situation I'll hear you out. Especially since the types of complaint are different and coming from a different place.

[WowwGirl]

Nice

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I'd say that those are the kinds of men who don't understand & respect women. They're also the type of men who don't have a grasp of being real men or even just a fraction thereof.

In fairness, I'd say the same about women who blame as their issues on men.

Both need a lot of learning to do. If they're too stubborn, get 'em outta my sight!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Correction: In fairness, I'd say the same about women who blame all* their issues on men.

[WowwGirl]

I agree

[Lifelive96]

I think they are ridiculuous and childish. If you are an adult, you can not blame on everyone about what you live apart from yourself. If they encounter some bad women in their life they can not say that ‘’%90 women are like this’’ who are you to say this? Did you travel the all around the world? Many of them have serious mommy issues and insecurities. They feel better when they have a place to spread their hatred. It is so miserable. Not for us, for them. I think it is so hard to live like that. They must go to therapist. That’s all i can say.

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s likely a mix of immaturity and lashing out.
at times it’s often childish.

I am my own worst enemy I fully understand that and will put my hand up when I’ve fucked up, however at times it’s been the other person and I do expect an element of responsibility being shown.

There are women that do the same thing, I know I have one as a sister. On those occasions she has a boyfriend, it’s a nightmare and I can pretty much script what will happen. She really should stick to girls as she has a really crap choice in guys.

but yeah blaming everything on the other gender is plain stupid and childish.

[Jaumet]

Seriously? Look, I don't feel anything for other men and I couldn't care less who they blame for their problems or issues on. Does it really matter that they blame someone else, a woman or whomever, to simply not take responsibility for what goes on in their own life.

This problem with people in general, both men and women is simply blaming others for their problems and never being able to take responsibility of what happens in their own life. These idiots can't understand that when they blame someone else for their problems... they are just admitting that others control their life and are thus nothing but a puppet for someone else to use.

I have no clue why you would make this gender specific, when in truth this is a rather common problem with everyone. It has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with refusing to take responsibility of what occurs in your own life.

[Nomina]

Honestly, the same way i feel about women who blame all of their issues on men. It's playing the victim, lacks perspective, lacks self-reflection, and it shows them to be most likely to deflect responsibility and nothing is ever their fault - it's always someone else.

I think it's sad because they don't realize their hurting themselves and place their emotional well-being in the hands of someone else.

[Andres77]

The first thing that comes to mind..."for every awesome woman out there, there's at least one guy that's tired of her shyt."
Men and women are NOT the same.
We're good at different things.
We're better at certain roles.
Together... we SHOULD be an awesome team.
It's my belief that THAT is the design
Humility in partnership.
Blaming anyone and everyone for anything... if you didn't make absolutely sure that you were not really the one to blame... STFU until you review everything.
Sometimes it's you, sometimes it's her, sometimes it's no one's fault but just a misunderstanding.

[SaoirseS]

They're sad people. Funny thing is when they go on rants about women, they say nothing about themselves, which is where the problem is. It's much easier to be mad at the whole world or blame "women," "most women," and "most all women." The ones over height are just ridiculous.

[Lionman95]

The same like I think about women blaming men and "toxic masculinity" (variing in definitions) for their problems, I don´t mind them as long as they keep me out of it.
I don´t wanna play the "blame-game" because no one has it fair in life, we all have problems and we either solve them or ask for help. Blaming and blame-shifting isn´t helpful because that way one shows me that he/she isn´t willing to question their own behavior and to change something for their own.

[WowwGirl]

I don't believe in toxic masculinity

[Lionman95]

I think it can be a thing though as long as one accepts that both women and men alike have toxic traits. Generally speaking to be fair I have played "the blame-game" in the past but I realized later that it´s not solving problem.
Speaking for myself I first confront those men and ask them why they are thinking that women are the source of their problem if they are neither willing to discuss their position nor show any sign of interest in really working on their problem I go and ignore them because these kind of guys are toxic because of their immaturity.

[WowwGirl]

I believe in toxic people

[Lionman95]

Yeah me too and I would call those guys tovic if they can´t see that they are responsible for their issues. They can get help to solve their issues but they can´t blame others for them.

[WowwGirl]

Fair enough 😀

[MeauxJoMan]

Lmao... question should be boys who blame etc. Real men can admit their faults and problems and own it. I have to admit i have seen a few males do this and it takes so much effort not to slap them on the back of the head. I've seen women do the same and i can't help but wonder why is it so hard for people to look inside before looking outside before passing judgment.

[Azura_88]

Cowards and fake men.

Anger issues? Because my woman doesn't do this or is stupid.
Jealousy? ALL women are easy sluts
Insecurity? Female gender is gold digger
Incompetence in workplace? She's an opportunistic b****, must have slept with boss.

[menina]

They're pathetic! No woman is 100% responsible for a man's problems. Instead of complaining they should try finding solutions for their issues.

[BigAFRO]

Men just take care of yourself. You should always come first. Better yourself. Do not financially tie yourself down to anyone.

No to marriage unless she makes more than you.

Don't have kids unless you can get 50% custody and the woman has proven her trust worthy.

[Mehzmeh]

They are pathetic!! They need to Learn to responsibility of there on problems.

[WowwGirl]

So do women who blame men

[Mehzmeh]

Truth!!!

[AndrewMG]

They can't get laid... I mean that tends to be the truth lol.

[Fireguy17]

they probably need to take a closer look at themselves.
It is so much easier to blame someone else vs taking responsibility for ones own actions and have to admit that you are not as good as you think you are.

[MTC29]

Excuses/blame are like assholes... everyone has one.

[jshm2]

The same as I do about women who blame all their issues on men.

Only small minded people like to take shortcuts to blame. Fix the fuckup, not the blame.

[Redstang88]

Same way I feel about women that blame all their issues on men