Because he’s an empathetic person and he cares for you. But please recognize that there is a such thing as toxic friends, and you are being that. Don’t take advantage of the fact that he accepts you back into his life. I understand that friends come and go, but when you make a show of leaving (i. e the whole “I’m catching feelings don’t talk to me ever again”) then popping back up, you’re playing mind games at that point and it’s just messed up. It’s not cute, it’s not romantic or some movie shit, it’s just flat out MEAN. Have some consideration for the fact that he’s an actual person and quit taking his kindness for granted. You may not like what I have to say and have a negative remark but it’s not a big deal to me. I’ve been in his shoes and it’s really fucked up that you’re all chill about this like you’re in a Cinderella story or something. Have some decency, girl.
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I think he probably has feelings for you too.
If not, he's the one being cruel, by not cutting you off when he knows you feel that way and he knows that every moment of friendzone is torture for you.
You, on the other hand, are only being cruel to yourself - by hanging around in hope, if you really don't think it's reciprocated.
I feel sorry for girls who fancy me and I don't reciprocate, because I know how painful that is - and so I gently close off to them/move away. They normally very quickly get the hint and give up (much more so than guys!).
If he's not doing that, then he may just be using you for comfort, or he may (unlikely) just be too timid or polite.
Either way, if you really can't tell, the only way to find out is to ask.
Neither of you are mature enough for a relationship.
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