Why do so many men have no class ettiquite or manners?

[Anonymous]

Some brutish men will not say thank you if i help them, or will comment on my weight or appearance critically or jokingly, or will ask how much i weigh (i am underweight but still no man needs to ever ask a woman her weight!), etc.

Its likee i have a standard and i am delicate tender and sweet and i cannot be at ease with any man who lacks delicateness for me and just manners and ettiquite in general for everyone.

I just... Chile... I feel uneasy around guys like that.

I am a sweet delicate beautiful sexy gorgeous tender flower and need to be seen as such by any man who wishes to be near me.

[NamerOfStars]

Why do so many women think social cowardice and duplicity constitute "manners" or "etiquette"? You are not a "sweet delicate beautiful sexy gorgeous tender flower", you're an adult woman. You're a descendant of women who rolled up their sleeves and pulled themselves and those depending on them through plagues and famines and other disasters that would probably snap you in half, and if you lack the mental toughness to confront to reality as it is, you need MORE blunt brusqueness, not less.

I don't know who brought you up to think that emotional footbinding was a GOOD thing, but they were very much mistaken.

[MrOracle]

If you were to actually ask these men, you'd probably find that most of them grew up without fathers in their lives. Moms might be the ones who teach manners, but it's usually FATHERS who ENFORCE the use of those manners, and if they have no father, then they probably won't have manners themselves.

[Anonymous]

Well, that sounds very feminine of you. Unfortunately, that sort of classical old-fashioned male sense of chivalry and respect has been tossed out because a certain class of people insisted it was insulting to them, they didn't need any man to treat them like they were some helpless delicate flower, and by the goddess almighty they'd rip the balls off of any man who even implied that they weren't the equal of any man.

So eh, blame them.

[Asker]

I don't befriend such little girls.

[HighValue]

"No man needs to ever ask a woman her weight!" Is a very immature attitude. Not mature enough for a relationship, that is for sure.

[BeMuse]

Cut the bullshit cupcake. Stop blowing smoke up our ass.

[Shy_Steve]

Try a Shy Guy there is a better chance of him having better manners and more polite.

[TadCurious]

They had bad parenting.

[exitseven]

In my case, I was raised by wolves.

[Anonymous]

Probably due to lack of fathers at the home.