Fuckable/girlfriend material?

[LinaDaGoddess]

How can a guy form the opinion of whether you’re just a fuck or a potential partner without properly getting to know a woman?

What is it that the “fuckable” girls give off that automatically throws you into the category? Is it race? Is it the way we speak? Is it just from a guy being prejudice?

Why are the nice girls mostly all thrown into the fuckable category? Are we viewed as weak? Does lifestyle play a role in this?

[SteveSmith1985]

To me it basically comes down to "how a girl carries herself." So, no it's not about race, or the way you speak or anything like that. Guy's ARE prejudiced in this way. Guy's DO indeed very quickly decide to put a woman they're interested in... into one of the two categories.

Now, I'm not claiming to speak for guy's universally here. But for me: Girls self-select. They put themselves into one of the two categories easily and rather quickly

What it essentially comes down to is: What kind of 'attention' or 'validation' a woman seeks from men.

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I just wrote a whole bunch more, then deleted it because it makes me look like an asshole. I'm really not. But damn did I ever come-off like one when I read back what I wrote (which WAS all quite true).

So I'm going to leave my answer at that. If this is something you're genuinely curious about, shoot me a message, and I'll explain this to you... and look like an asshole... but only to one person... I can handle that. Otherwise, that one-line answer above IS the short version of the answer. 🙂

[LinaDaGoddess]

Thank you for your feedback. I am going to message you because I can handle the truth. I just honestly want to know what it is that puts us in that category. Lol

[jailbreak]

Personally i think women who are "naughty" are the fuckable ones. Ones I wouldn't shack up with but would def fuck. To me the nice girls are the ones to wife up as a lot of women ain't shit these days, including men of course.

In other words, I would just fuck a girl not worth a relationship and partner with a girl who is solid and caring

[DaveJord]

I think you aren't grasping the meaning of whats meant by "fuckable". It means we would totally do it with you... but we would date you. Mostly like the fact that we would not date you has nothing to do with your looks, but your personality.

Dating some ones means thier fuckablity is a give,, but your personality makes you relationship material.

[LinaDaGoddess]

I wish I could edit my question to change it, but what I meant to say was being a jump off compared to being taken seriously and being offered a relationship.

[Kaneki05]

I cannot answer this one helpfully because to me that would be the same thing so... I don't know.
I wouldn't have sex with someone, if I would reject them as a girlfriend if they ever wanted to be that. Even if it's a one night stand or an escort. I wouldn't think of them Just as fuckable.

[NetSapien]

Maybe I'm not understanding the question, but all girls I interact with as a potential partner, I feel at least, are 'fuckable'.

[LinaDaGoddess]

What I mean by fuckable is only being used as a jump off.

[NetSapien]

ok, I "think" I'm understanding now.. I think you're asking how a guy can consider someone 'fuckable' without first getting to know them?

If so, this is simple. Guys are primarily affected by visual stimulation. Once they see someone attractive, well they're attracted to get closer and talk to them in order to get to know them.

Guys will not bother talking to a female and getting to know them first if they do not find her visually attractive.

[LinaDaGoddess]

Is your level of attraction what also determines whether she’s going in either the discard or potential mate spot?

[NetSapien]

Yes.. the level of attraction is either strengthened or weakened when you get to know someone.

For example, I can consider woman X physically to be god's gift to mankind. And later I find she's got an obnoxious attitude. To me, that would make her totally unattractive and I would find a way.. to move along

[LinaDaGoddess]

Okay, that makes a lot of sense. I really appreciate your input.

[NetSapien]

you're most welcome :)

[Bluemax]

All girlfriends are fuckable. As nice girls being relegated to the fuck zone, I don't think that's true. My wife is wonderfully kind as well as fuckable. All my friends' wives and girlfriends are kind and considerate.

[Yourfriend2021]

Since lots of people are sleeping around, they want to find someone like that. If someone wants you for a long term relationship, they would try to get to know you first, not just sleep with you.

[LinaDaGoddess]

Well, usually they are getting to know me but I can honestly say 45/50 guys messaging me will ONLY be for hookups. Maybe online dating isn’t for me. Lol

[Yourfriend2021]

Yes that's the problem today, don't give up but online is the worst , lol I guess if you're cute it makes it worse.

[LinaDaGoddess]

Yes because I see some people on apps and I’m like, why in the world would you post a picture like that? Lol

They’re usually the ones who get messages or comments about “serious” relationships. Usually the “plain Jane” or girls who aren’t that into fashion and makeup are overlooked. It really sucks. Lol

[Yourfriend2021]

Yes I understand how you feel. It's not easy and there are millions of people on there, it's not really a good idea. It just sucks for someone that really wants to find love.

[LinaDaGoddess]

Yes it does and I really appreciate your positivity and your feedback.

[Yourfriend2021]

You're welcome and don't worry, it's tough but the whole isn't rotten, just most of it, lol

[MrCommodore]

This depends on the particular preferences of individual guys.

Not everyone agrees on which women are girlfriend material or just sexy. Personality is the deciding factor usually

[normalice]

in my opinion relationship material is a girl I want to fuck more than ten times.

[Jhonrembo]

I do not believe in sleeping with a girl without knowing her and only for sex. It's different with this your friend you know and you are both interested.

[mpodeszek]

Partners share lors of love. You will inow it in a kiss

[mpodeszek]

I love getting pegged by a hot woman it brings out the eroticism

[Fuentes]

Every girl is in the fuck category actually

[LinaDaGoddess]

What makes you pull her from being “fuck only” and girlfriend material?

[Fuentes]

She just has to connect on a realtionship level

[spartan55]

Hahaha, none of what you said

[LinaDaGoddess]

Ok thanks for your feedback.