How can a woman (a wife) be good at sex? I need real direction... dont go easy on me?

[Anonymous]

I want to prepare mentally and informationally for my future husband if I am married.

I dont have premarital sex.

[Fireguy17]

Learn as you go.
He might not be an expert at sex either.
There are how to videos that are not porn, as well as porn, which isn't real, but gives you the general idea of what can be done.
Talk to your girlfriends that are active.
It isn't rocket science, get good at the basics first, then you can start getting more involved.
Practice makes perfect.

[Albino010]

You won't get good at it until you start practicing it, so don't stress over it now.

[SnakeBoop]

*Learn what turns yourself on.
*Open talks on what you both expect way before marriage, and then during.

there's not much you really need to do expect know yourself, what you want/don't want to try and communicating that to any future partner.

[andy530]

I second this

[Anonymous]

Most guys like when you take the initiative while being lewd, sensual and affectionate in the same time.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Communicate and experiment. Speak up if something feels good or bad

[Davezzz]

Two bits of advice:

1 be into it for yourself. The more you are into it yourself, the better it will be for your husband.
2 communicate about what you want and ask what he wants. And whatever he asks, try not to be shocked.

[kyleelyn199723]

If it is both your first time, it’s going to be a special moment anyways.

[Asker]

Sex is a lifelong thing... I want to be good longtwem

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker I am experienced and sex is the best when the two people are in love personally. Experience doesn’t out way being in love. Experience is only a great thing during sex if hook ups are what you do. Don’t worry about being experienced or not.

[Asker]

Thank you

[kyleelyn199723]

You are welcome! Just focus on being in love! I am in love with my man and it’s not even about the sex , it’s about that fun parts that come with sex when in love. Me and my man were having it the other day and I have bronchitis so I started to have a cough attack while having sex, and we both started laughing because it was funny. Those moments outweigh experience

[Sr25m]

Ask him what things he into and always try new things so you both will not be bored and take care of yourself ( body and face) somemens really like that

[Anonymous]

Masturbate, if you don't know how to please yourself; how will you be able to please others? Open and honest communication during sex. A willingness to learn new things and a willingness to teach them too.

[Anonymous]

Be communicative and open to new things.

[Anonymous]

marry me and I will teach you