Is it men's fault that some women are single with kids? (Page 2)

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Is it men's fault that some women are single with kids?

Anonymous · Answer

My child's father is an alcoholic. I refuse to be tied down when I've tried so many times to help him. He's guilt tripping me but I refuse to give in.

He's good to his child but it's not a good look for his child when he's been overly drunk in front of him.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

The woman. She has final say who she decides to married/have kids with.  If she says no to sex... she will never become a single mom.

sheikalana · Answer

The man is not always the issue. We cannot generalize certain situations based solely on gender.

Avicenna · Answer

There can be any number of reasons why a woman with kids is single. But it sure is foolish for a guy who isn't the kids' father to get involved with her, much less marry her.

Poppykate · Answer

Yes. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. But 30% are initiated by men. What if these 30% want to stay married and want try to keep their family together…. 🤔

TrueConfection · Answer

Sometimes. Maybe he left because he didn't want the responsibilities of a family anymore. Maybe she fell out of love with him and asked him to leave. Maybe he died. There isn't a yes or no.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Uhh… definitely not in all cases. Lmfao. There are a lot of women that despite having kids and also possibly being married to the guy, they cannot refrain from bouncing on other pogo sticks

MrPlentiful · Answer

If single moms were in smaller numbers yes. Itd be far easier and valid to assume their ex was abusive. However when there's tons and tons of single moms, it's harder to believe their issues aren't self induced

CasaNorba · Answer

while it takes two to tango in today's world I say no. if women would take more responsibility for their end of the bargain and perhaps lower their expectations then they wouldn't be ending up in such hell holes

KrisPW · Answer

Some yes, some no. Women can be just as shitty as men at times.

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

No, also pregnancy is preventable so it was her choice to not take precautions. But if a man impregnates a woman he is just as responsible.

Finchie40 · Answer

No sometimes it’s the women’s fault as well , if she cheats and is abusive to her man she will end up single

libsaretards · Answer

Nope. The woman would be at fault. She should have taken the time to get to know a man's real character before learning how well the snake slithers down the hole.

Subarugirl · Answer

It takes two to tangle... both parties in one way or another are responsible for their offspring.

RicFlair312 · Answer

I feel it's a case by case basis. A lot of men want to be in their children lives , by are denied the opportunity. But a lot of guys are dead beats too , so every case has its own unique circumstances.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not necessarily. Several factors can include why a woman is a single mom i. e. widow, divorce, abuse, relationship dysfunction, man in prison, or the man is medically unable to be involved.

somesoul · Answer

If I was single with two kids, I would have committed suicide leaving kids to their dad's place for vacation.

Xtcy2083 · Answer

It's not always their fault, but it usually is, yes.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Nope because woman wants to stay single with kids so they can have sex with Many guys no commitment nothing. Just fuck & forget. And than focus on kids & career. Lol

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Yes, it is men's fault. It is also the fault of women.

LinkxPeach · Answer

No, because some women chose to be single mothers with kids for the welfare, food stamps, and government assistance. Why not get a job before getting married? Why not get married first before having kids?

ElvenMr · Answer

Voted no, but i don't think this question can be answered with a simple yes/no answer.

Both parents are at fault in some way in my opinion.
In some cases one parent can be blamed more then the other tho.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, it's their fault. Most of them were too lazy to use a condom or were just there to pump and dump and dipped when they found out the girl was pregnant. So yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's the womens fault from the very beginning to go for a man based on looks without getting to know the true person. Get to know them when your friends and see how they act angry, do they communicate well, understand their actions and how to overcome them. All of these things you don't notice if you just get blinded by their looks and rush into a relationship/marriage. You are just going to get hurt!

all_hayl · Answer

This question is essentially impossible to answer. Way too many factors to consider.

Lochlan · Answer

Some guys don't have any pull-out game and can't take responsibility but still want to play.

Junior__ · Answer

Depends. Sometimes it's the fault of men. Sometimes it's her fault. It's a complex subject. There aren't any black and white answers.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think so mostly it's her fault. Many women friend zone great good guys for shot reasons that's when they're young 20-29 once they hit the wall they realize the consequences of their decisions. Believe or not a young hot girl 20 year old crying for her baby daddy whichs criminal and in the jail.

aquamarine321 · Answer

It’s nobodies fault, but most women made a choice to be single and be single mothers, they are the ones who choose who to date and not to date, and who to stay with and who to leave

Mangospacho · Answer

Sometimes the father does abandon the kids and leaves them with the mother forever but sometimes the mother gets sole custody and forces the father out of the situation altogether.

bgreek · Answer

I know, women will say it takes 2 to make a child And it takes two. For a couple to break up Plus, most importantly most women are too immature when they had the kids

jshm2 · Answer

Why would it be?  You get "single fathers" as well, you know.

Dargil · Answer

Yes. A man chooses to ejaculate "unprotected". The jury rests.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Every time a man ejaculates without fertilizing an egg that is negligent homicide and we should be allowed to sue them for it.

Anonymous · Answer

Hell no!!
Women have access to over 30 methods of contraception, not taking any of them was their choice, that doesn't include not saying 'NO'.
Guys in comparison have 4, withdrawal, condoms, vasectomy or saying 'NO'.

sektenkult · Answer

Dating a girl with a kid is like playing a gameboy game with the save game of another dude.  What do you do? Another kid and drop your save game when you don't know how to go further and bye

jimmy2 · Answer

Adam abd Eve , Evetook first but Adam was charged why becase God gave man to be frist to provide for her and their children. So when we stand in judgement many men will be charged with the fall of christian society

Wester1967 · Answer

No. But you'd never get that impression from talking to a single mother.

Luopio27 · Answer

It is sexist to assume its the fault of one gender. Both men and women are capable of neglecting the responsibilities of a parent.

exitseven · Answer

If the guy is the father he is half at fault.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. And it's also the woman's fault. Both parties are equally to blame. (Unless it's due to rape.)

BillyBalls · Answer

Did the woman choose to get pregnant and have kids? Then the kids are hers. HDr choice. Her responsibility.

OddBeMe · Answer

Guess it depends on how you’re measuring. Are “single” mothers ones where the fathers are fully engaged? If so, no.

Kenwoodman · Answer

It can be a fault of one of the partners, why the split has happennned. Or both at the same time. Hence so I didn't vote.

MJtheCoach · Answer

In the west the state is the father man no longer have any power or anything besides them being a walking ATM is called abuse now

Anonymous · Answer

Don't be ridiculous. Take some responsibility for the mess you made.

Anonymous · Answer

Not necessarily society thinks guys are at fault for everything that happens to a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a man's responsibility to take care of another guy's kids? Feminism and women hooking with "bad boys" is the problem. Use birth control.

Better_off_here · Answer

if a man knows he has kids he needs to take care of them too. if they are the father, but if they are not it is not at all i say.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@evealyn If a woman became single with kids, it means either she has horrible luck or she married the wrong man.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't gotten anybody pregnant. Oh look. Someone thinks it's my fault, that some women became single mothers. Yay! I am delighted.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Nah when the women just gives up on the relationship its impossible to stay

JohnK123 · Answer

What the fuck is this question you tell me is it or not

emperor90 · Answer

It takes two to tango so if the father leaves then it is not on

Anonymous · Answer

Most women want to have babies with the best-looking guys and want not-so-good-looking guys to provide for them. You have to face the consequences of your choice.

Zygum · Answer

It is men responsiblity to look after kids, as he is father, who pregnate the mother of kids

2021biguy · Answer

If it is the baby's father it is, unless she cheated.

bbjo- · Answer

It is impossible to answer this question like another user said. It’s a case to case situation and we should never generalize and blame the men.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol women chose to be single. Becusse they know they will be given government assistance. and they wanna fuck other dudes.

dolemite89 · Answer

not if she’s one of the legions of psychos trying to trap a guy with having kids he doesn’t want

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