Random guy attention is nothing worth. They are responsible for its low value by themselves. You just need to post a pic on some random not dating related forum and your account gets bombed with PM. Dating apps are just epitome of this attention value disproportion.
@AddictofLove they are not the ones asking to be worshipped. We are the ones doing it. Motive how they all say that they don't want all the attention they have from guys because it makes them feel nothing. The more you have something the less value you give it. It's human psychology. I didn't understood the gay comment. It made no sense.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 excellent point about stimulus satiation, which is what @freyared was saying. They have the flood of DMs, while men starve for a scrap of attention. But men create the situation by continuing to give and give. I'm not MGTOW, but that's the philosophy behind it, they are saying stop the cycle of madness.
I was banned from tinder for no good reason. So I have been using the Bumble app and of course no women send the first message and that's how the Bumble app works. Only the women can start conversations. 🤷🏻♂️ Which is fine by me. Don't have to worry about being any crazies
Never put much thought into the idea that it was rigged but yeah , matches are rare and half of the notifications saying a match lead to nothing there. But then, in all the history of such sites, I've tried plenty but never have I actually met anyone as result. Most are scammers and bots running the profiles anyway. Some actually farm for pics and info that are used to construct new sites with a bot running the profiles or farm for email addresses to sell to other parties.
It's unbalanced because the game of sexual selection is unbalanced. There was a study done by some dating company which interviewed a lot of their female members and asked them to rate the attractiveness of the male members. The results showed that nearly all of the women rated something like 80% of the male members as being "below average". That's the overwhelming majority being regarded as being below the standard.
But also it has been proved that women will have a higher range of what they find attractive after they get to know someone. In other words they fall for what they hear more than us.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I mean women want more than just a good looking guy with money... but until they do get to know a guy, that exterior stuff is all they've got to go by. That's why on a dating app like tinder that difference is so clear, since a picture and a sentence is all there is before you can get to know someone.
Is Tinder still a thing? This is so 2010's Anyway, most people know that the app is just a scam situation or just for hookups. Some people use the app to troll, others for such an ego boost No chance of meeting a quality person there
Most of the matches I received before I deleted the app were fake profiles, people who did not match any of my likes or common interests, or people from different countries.
All dating apps women have the advantage. Guys throw themselves at them sending them many messages a day. All women have to do is filter through the desperate non serious ones and focus on the guys that actually want to get to get know them and be serious with.
I've never met anyone off tinder even though I've tried. Yes it's very rare to get a match. I kind of always just assumed that the really attractive guys were keeping all the girls for themselves. Since tinder is pretty much about hooking up It's a little more difficult to meet someone there than other dating apps where looks aren't emphasized as much.
For me, and people I know, its true. Girls get 10x more date requests, matches and what not, compared to most guys. I guess guys need to have more than pictures to get matched.
Tinder was good at first, but now, it is filled with prostetution scams and... How do I say it... The intention of the creation is good but it is only a short matter of time till wrongful intentions find the network tools designed for good.
I have no problem getting women on there, but the ratio is probably 10:1 for guys. I’ve noticed women who aren’t particularly good looking, now think they’re really hot because myriad men are writing her. I’ve visited small towns all my life doing various things and will say that some of them if the women outnumber the men, it’s amazing. The women start acting like guys. Like arching their back and sticking their ass out in leggings at the gym when talking to you lol
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In my location, Tinder seemed to be a cess pool of douche bags and pot heads. And yes I put very little to no effort in my profile, I guess you could say partially committed because I did not like the interface alone. Seems really superficial. I was flooded with matches. I couldn’t really get into it though. Just didn’t seem like a place for a genuine connection for the area that I’m in.
I think there are more guys on tinder then there are girls. We get a lot of matches, one of my guy friends says he only gets a few. I think we have more freedom to choose who to pick than them, if that makes sense? Do they swipe right on everyone? It's the only theory I have for the match difference, that friend is not unattractive looking.
Yeah, not to toot my own horn, but I'm a decent looking dude, tall, good job, etc. Yesterday in person a few girls came up to talk with me while I was travelling just to have a chat. Now on tinder I will maybe match with one real person in a week of liking everyone.
Dating is always harder for guys than girls. They have done studies that show guys are more likely to find a girl attrarctive thna a girl is to find a guy attractive. The specific issue with Tinder is like 90% or more of the matches a guy does get are catfish.
I can say its definitely rigged. I'm above average hot. Most guys i know get literally zero matches. I will get like 30 right away and then 5 to 10 a day for awhile and then nothing. But the second i reset my profile it starts again. They do this i think because men are the ones primarily paying for the upgrades so if men got 1000 matches like women do then why would they pay? Money is what runs the show, tinder doesn't exist to provide the best dating experience believe it or not.
Guys see dating apps as a way to get annonymous sex. Pretty much every guy wants this so pretty much every guy is on any given dating app. Whereas most women tend to prefer meeting in real life first. So, the population is heavily tilted.
That sounds about right, mainly because guys are less selective during swiping in comparison to women. Thus all or most girls usually more attention in comparison to guys, but that doesn't equate to genuine interest, so its misleading.
So you'd expect a lot of girls dating on tinder, and I mean dating, not friends with benefits with another name. 80% of women on tinder get sex, if they wanted dating more than sex you'd expect a bigger percentage of those getting long term relationships more often than that.
@anylolone its called the women are wonderful effect and it's just a bias that helps women stay together by being delusional about their friends behavior
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Random guy attention is nothing worth. They are responsible for its low value by themselves. You just need to post a pic on some random not dating related forum and your account gets bombed with PM. Dating apps are just epitome of this attention value disproportion.
Exactly. Yet this "nothing worth" attention girls still like to bathe themselves in it. Self respecting guys don't bother with participating.
I agree. We devalue ourselves way to much.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 if you werent so nice women would be asking you if you were gay
Women desperately want to not be respected but to be worshipped. And since theyve had control of the gene pool, Thats why theyre overvalued
@AddictofLove they are not the ones asking to be worshipped. We are the ones doing it. Motive how they all say that they don't want all the attention they have from guys because it makes them feel nothing. The more you have something the less value you give it. It's human psychology.
I didn't understood the gay comment. It made no sense.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 excellent point about stimulus satiation, which is what @freyared was saying. They have the flood of DMs, while men starve for a scrap of attention. But men create the situation by continuing to give and give. I'm not MGTOW, but that's the philosophy behind it, they are saying stop the cycle of madness.
I was banned from tinder for no good reason. So I have been using the Bumble app and of course no women send the first message and that's how the Bumble app works. Only the women can start conversations. 🤷🏻♂️ Which is fine by me. Don't have to worry about being any crazies
Never put much thought into the idea that it was rigged but yeah , matches are rare and half of the notifications saying a match lead to nothing there. But then, in all the history of such sites, I've tried plenty but never have I actually met anyone as result. Most are scammers and bots running the profiles anyway. Some actually farm for pics and info that are used to construct new sites with a bot running the profiles or farm for email addresses to sell to other parties.
It's unbalanced because the game of sexual selection is unbalanced. There was a study done by some dating company which interviewed a lot of their female members and asked them to rate the attractiveness of the male members. The results showed that nearly all of the women rated something like 80% of the male members as being "below average". That's the overwhelming majority being regarded as being below the standard.
But also it has been proved that women will have a higher range of what they find attractive after they get to know someone. In other words they fall for what they hear more than us.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I mean women want more than just a good looking guy with money... but until they do get to know a guy, that exterior stuff is all they've got to go by. That's why on a dating app like tinder that difference is so clear, since a picture and a sentence is all there is before you can get to know someone.
I agree. Is hard to not judge the book by the cover when the cover is all is presented at first
Is Tinder still a thing? This is so 2010's
Anyway, most people know that the app is just a scam situation or just for hookups. Some people use the app to troll, others for such an ego boost
No chance of meeting a quality person there
@diamonddreams i agree. have u used tinder before?
you know, it's not just tinder... when it come to seduction, us women have it easy
Thank you for keeping it real.
Yeah, you're the gatekeepers of sex.
The question is why do they still find a reason to complain about it just as much.
Gosh, more, way more.
@swettannie
THANK YOU for being a woman who can admit it! You have no idea how many girls like to deny this fact of life.
Oh, mr incel influencer responded while having me blocked, so adorable.
If I was hitler I would block me too.
Most of the matches I received before I deleted the app were fake profiles, people who did not match any of my likes or common interests, or people from different countries.
Same with POF. I don't do app dating anymore.
All dating apps women have the advantage. Guys throw themselves at them sending them many messages a day. All women have to do is filter through the desperate non serious ones and focus on the guys that actually want to get to get know them and be serious with.
I've never met anyone off tinder even though I've tried. Yes it's very rare to get a match. I kind of always just assumed that the really attractive guys were keeping all the girls for themselves. Since tinder is pretty much about hooking up It's a little more difficult to meet someone there than other dating apps where looks aren't emphasized as much.
For me, and people I know, its true. Girls get 10x more date requests, matches and what not, compared to most guys. I guess guys need to have more than pictures to get matched.
Tinder was good at first, but now, it is filled with prostetution scams and... How do I say it... The intention of the creation is good but it is only a short matter of time till wrongful intentions find the network tools designed for good.
I have no problem getting women on there, but the ratio is probably 10:1 for guys. I’ve noticed women who aren’t particularly good looking, now think they’re really hot because myriad men are writing her.
I’ve visited small towns all my life doing various things and will say that some of them if the women outnumber the men, it’s amazing. The women start acting like guys. Like arching their back and sticking their ass out in leggings at the gym when talking to you lol
In my location, Tinder seemed to be a cess pool of douche bags and pot heads. And yes I put very little to no effort in my profile, I guess you could say partially committed because I did not like the interface alone. Seems really superficial. I was flooded with matches. I couldn’t really get into it though. Just didn’t seem like a place for a genuine connection for the area that I’m in.
I think there are more guys on tinder then there are girls. We get a lot of matches, one of my guy friends says he only gets a few. I think we have more freedom to choose who to pick than them, if that makes sense? Do they swipe right on everyone? It's the only theory I have for the match difference, that friend is not unattractive looking.
Yeah, not to toot my own horn, but I'm a decent looking dude, tall, good job, etc. Yesterday in person a few girls came up to talk with me while I was travelling just to have a chat.
Now on tinder I will maybe match with one real person in a week of liking everyone.
(I do have a few success stories from tinder, but that took years)
Dating is always harder for guys than girls. They have done studies that show guys are more likely to find a girl attrarctive thna a girl is to find a guy attractive. The specific issue with Tinder is like 90% or more of the matches a guy does get are catfish.
I can say its definitely rigged. I'm above average hot. Most guys i know get literally zero matches. I will get like 30 right away and then 5 to 10 a day for awhile and then nothing. But the second i reset my profile it starts again. They do this i think because men are the ones primarily paying for the upgrades so if men got 1000 matches like women do then why would they pay? Money is what runs the show, tinder doesn't exist to provide the best dating experience believe it or not.
Guys see dating apps as a way to get annonymous sex. Pretty much every guy wants this so pretty much every guy is on any given dating app. Whereas most women tend to prefer meeting in real life first. So, the population is heavily tilted.
That sounds about right, mainly because guys are less selective during swiping in comparison to women. Thus all or most girls usually more attention in comparison to guys, but that doesn't equate to genuine interest, so its misleading.
If you want to learn about how things go for guys, make a new Tinder account and make it about an average guy. Then try and score a date.
Good Luck.
Tinder is for hookups.
More guys want just sex than girls want just sex.
So females have the advantage, their pick.
So you'd expect a lot of girls dating on tinder, and I mean dating, not friends with benefits with another name.
80% of women on tinder get sex, if they wanted dating more than sex you'd expect a bigger percentage of those getting long term relationships more often than that.
@anylolone its called the women are wonderful effect and it's just a bias that helps women stay together by being delusional about their friends behavior
@AddictofLove It's called sheer dishonesty.
@anylolone dishonesty is conscious. Theyre just delusional, literally delusional. Schopenhauer said they lack a sense of justice. Thats what he meant
@AddictofLove Oh no, they know they are being dishonest, I have enough experience with women letting their guard down to know this.
Them letting their guards down is the unconscious part.