Why do guys reach out first but not respond or respond properly?

Anonymous
I sent a drunk message out to this guy on fb a year ago that was quite rude and I apologized. He never responded to my apology.

This Thanksgiving he reached out to wish me a happy Thanksgiving and even said (love you!)..(platonically)

I did respond in a matter of 2 minutes bc the text had stopped the music playing on my ipad so I checked it out and responded asap. I was very happy to see that it was him tho

Anyway.. I responded happy Thanksgiving etc... then I said "sorry to hear about your grandmother, she will be missed!

all he did was heart the message like 2 or 3 hours later..

soft ghosted and I hate feeling like Im not important enough to respond back too
Why do guys reach out first but not respond or respond properly?
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