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Why is women wanting men with money or a solid good income an issue for men? (Page 2)
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You women have been saying you want equality for decades, but you make it clear you don't.
You have been saying you want to abolish traditional gender roles, but what you mean is get rid of the ones you don't like but keep the ones that benefit you.
Most modern women are tremendous hypocrites, and that is very unattractive. This is not rocket science.
sounds like you’re talking about most men😂 you guys go on and on about how you want a traditional woman but can’t even provide for your family without going 50/50. that’s not traditional is it.
You asked for equality and now that you have it, you complain incessantly about it. You're a typical modern woman.
i don’t want a traditional household so you have the wrong one :)
i just wanted to know why men act like little bitches when they’re asked to not be bums
And yet you want men to pay for you on dates. Nope, you are exactly who I thought you were.
actually l i pay for half of my dates with my boyfriend and my boyfriend pays the other half as i expressed in a comment hours ago. wanna try again?
Ah, okay. So you're a non-traditional gold digger. I see.
Sorry but I didn't read through all your comments.
if wanting my partner to not be a bum while i’m on track to make $200k a year as a CRNA, is being a gold digger, then i proudly am one. you’re not hurting my feelings. i don’t want my kids to grow up in poverty. if that’s how you get down, have fun with that😎
I've netted more than that each of the last three years, but I don't tell women that because of their gold digging nature. I want a woman to be attracted to me, not my money. It's a very ugly facet of typical female nature.
The fact is that women literally find men who earn a lot of money more "physically attractive" (scientifically proven), but most are dishonest about it. I will at least give you props for openly acknowledging you are a gold digger.
so you’re almost thirty and don’t even know what gold digging means. gold star? trust me if i was a gold digger i wouldn’t be with my boyfriend right now or planning a $200 valentine’s day get away for HIM with nothing expected in return. you men are literally hilarious and very sad. imagine complaining about doing the bare minimum. losers😂
i also don’t believe you have any of that money. real men who hustle and make a stable income don’t spend their time on internet sites complaining about how women are bad because she doesn’t want a broke man. especially at almost 30😂 try that story with someone else. maybe it’ll work on them.
I earn a hell of a lot more than you ever will as a CRNA, and yet I'm doing the bare minimum? LMAO
Sorry to hear you've only been able to attract bums. Women like you get what they deserve.
my boyfriend isn’t a bum nor would i ever be with a man who isn’t making some sort of stable income. WHICH IS WHAT you're COMPLAINING ABOUT DUMBASS. imagine being this fucking stupid😂
take all that money you allegedly have and go back to fucking school. i see you missed the comprehension lesson. your mom should of swallowed or aborted you. poor woman.
the only reason i even mentioned my boyfriend was to show i don’t need a rich man. literally just be stable so when we have kids, our kids can live comfortably. but you’re stupid ass complained because you know you’re broke and mad that you’re subpar personality won’t get you a woman. which is why you chose to be a stupid incel when you’re literally almost 30. i know your mom hates herself for having you😂
alright kid i’ve had a blast talking to you. keep crossing your fingers for some women who will waste her time on you. there’s a bunch of dumb ones who surprisingly would. adios <3
Wow, somebody's panties are all bunched up. LOL
Nobody as bitter as you is ever a happy person. I will stop contributing to your anxiety now.
Buh bye
*when the nerd keeps trying to talk to the popular girl after she already rejected him* silly😂😂
Because if one of the key factors of considering a relationship is based on how fat his wallet is, its a strong indication that if his welth disappeared she will too. I mean obviously if he is a bum I get why woman would seek this but money don't buy loyalty and record shows money as a dating and a lack of respect/loyalty tends to fallow. But I don't speak for every guy out there.
because being thirsty for his money and wealth shows superficiality and low quality in women. So, this turns him off. It make men think, she doesn't like or love him. She will most probably go after another guy's money, if that has more money.
This shows the woman is shallow, inauthenthic, and low quality. It's ok if she wants her partner to be rich for security but making money the first and only priority is sickness.
It’s mostly an issue for broke men who aren’t very competitive in the dating game or for men who are worried that women only want them for their money.
Not an issue I suppose. Raising children takes resources. I’d rather a woman seeking financial stability for child raising than one who competes with me as a man and would send my poor kids to daycare rather than do her duty as a mother
I get that prefering a guy with more money doesn't necessarily make her a gold digger. She may just prefer stability and a nicer place to live. It's just that men feel like most women do nothing to be deserving of that. Also it's a dealbreaker for some if he doesn't make at least a certain amount
Because some men are poor and trying their damndest to still be happy. Do poor men not deserve happiness?
I feel it's a fair want. Just being good looking don't pay the bills or raise children. Anyone bitching about that is a red flag. Move on.
it's like that progressive insurance commercial where the boy was trying to makeup with the girl at the bus stop, "you live a van".
Success is always more sexy than being unemployed and headed toward a dead end.
First of all, I don’t believe most women are like this, but men might find that type offensive because they know they have intrinsic value and deserve love based on what is inside and not by how much money they make.
Wanting a man who is responsible and financially stable is okay. Wanting a man just for his money is not.
Because most men don’t have money or a solid good income to help look after a woman lol. Almost all men who accuse women of being goldiggers, are men who don’t have any gold to be dug 😂
Because men without money or a good, solid income won't be able to breed
Because all they care about is money and not love. If you actually love someone you wouldn’t give a shit if they can provide for you. All you’d care about is being with them even if it’s in poverty.
Some men interpret a woman looking at these issues as her being a gold digger which is not always the case but through certain eyes it can appear that way.
It's only an issue because so many women are just interested in what they can get out of a guy financially rather than really building something together with him.
I dont have an issue but only if she does the cooking and cleaning. Too many entitled girls want a man to make money AND do that kind of stuff or to subsidize their low paying career. No freaking way.
Because they want to be loved not their bank account.
It isn't.
People just don't like being used.
It is common courtesy to ask a person instead of assuming they will pay.
Because if it were reversed, would you not feel like maybe they were using you for your money? Even if that's not the case, that's what it feels like right? Especially with dating, the first few dates, it should be 50/50 or each paying for their own.
I think many women have high expectations in that regard as well from men. And the current state of the economy is.. not good.
So men feel they are not good enough/women doesn't give them a chance if they don't earn enough, even if they are "perfect" otherwise.
Yeah but don't men also have too much expectations to force a woman to get pregnant, risk her life, body, health for longterm, go through labor pain or big C-section, sacrifice her goals just to raise two or more kids? She also deserves a good life, she's not a dummy or an object who gives you things at the cost of her own wellbeing. Want wife with kids? Then be prepared to go through the pain equally.
If that is all you want is money, I am not that guy.
I want a partner, best friend.
I am not an ATM.
when did i say all she wanted was money?
When you list "wanting a man with money" pretty much infers that is what someone is looking for.
i would think everyone would want a partner that’s financially stable especially if kids will be involved
To get married and start a family I don’t think any reasonable person would contest this.
men want Love, not a freeloader... we would Love to take care of the woman that Loves us... not the woman that loves our money
love doesn’t provide or protect a family. if you just want love, then i guess you will be equally okay with a woman who will not clean the house, cook for you, have children with you, or have sex with you. wanting a man to be financially stable does not mean she loves your money. it means she doesn’t want to live in poverty or have children with you if they’re going to live horrible lives.
yep... you are the type I would not even give a second look... and I have money, but thats all you care about, so... no thanks
i’m literally on track to make $200k a year by myself in four years. why the hell would i want a bum to leech off of me and my assets? you think you hurt my feelings with the second look comment when you may have money but you’re 71 and not physically attractive anymore. i’m 19 beautiful educated and doing well financially. you’re not a prize, especially when you’re immature enough to think that relationships aren’t transactional and a woman who doesn’t want to scrape for change is a gold digger. and you’re 71 talking about taking seconds looks at women at your age meaning you’re not in a relationship, indicating your money obviously wasn’t enough to get you that love you so deeply want.
money isn’t all i care about but i want myself and my family to be secure in a relationship. if i’m taking care of my duties as a woman i need my partner to take care of his duties as a husband. at 71 years old, i would think the concept of financial security would be engraved into your mind by now.
believe me... I think your priorities are 100% wrong... I am a widower and I would NEVER date a gold digger... character is all that counts in the Long run... and you are obviously all about the money, it's so sad... with that Ugly attitude, your physical looks are irrelevant... for you all that counts is cash... you wouldn't even be in the running... regardless of my age...
again if i’m making $200k a year alone why do i need to be a gold digger when i can live a luxurious life on my own? you just sound old and bitter😂
sorry i don’t want my kids to grow up poor and have a dad who sits on his ass all day after his mcdonald’s shift. you’re living a fantasy😂
if you are so well off, why are you concerned about his paycheck? you are 100% focused on cash...
because who wants to be in a relationship where they’re putting in more than the other person? get real
if you are making 200k, he doesn't need to work at all... he can be a stay at home dad...
since you make 200k... someone needs to "Parent" the children... obviously you are too busy... or just a liar?
i see you didn’t read what you said? im 19 and on track to make 200k a year as a nurse anesthetist in four years. they usually work 3 or 4 12 hour shifts a week. my life goal is to be a mother and literally everything i’m doing now is for my future children. i don’t want my husband to be a stay at home dad nor will i be a stay at home mom. i need my husband to work and bring in a stable income. my kids will be in school or have a nanny at home. though my parents will love their grandkids a ton and i’m sure they wouldn’t mind watching them while i work in whatever hospital.
the more income we have as a family, the better we can provide for our kids. as a first generation college student who pays for my education and who wants a good amount of kids, most of my checks will be going to college savings. my income will not be an excuse for my husband to not bring in an income. not in my household.
ok, I understand that you are young... it is impossible to have it all... if both of you work and you hire a nanny to raise the kids... you will find it to be a very empty life, kids calling the nanny mom, a husband that never sees you and you never see him... a house, that isn't a home, just a place to sleep... sounds horrible to me
my parents made it work and my family and i are extremely close. so…,
also wanna add that both of my parents work full time jobs and they’ve been married for 23 years and they’re both great parents that i’m very grateful for. so what does my age have to do with anything?
no offense but i’d rather follow the model of the couple that has been together since 14 and 17 years old, that are great parents and still act like they’re teenagers in love.
your priorities will change as you gert older, be careful what you wish for, you might get it
i want a relationship that models my parents so i pray to god i get that and will keep wishing for it :)
focus on finding a "good" Man, and help him grow his career... stand by his side and all of his successes will be your successes.. #1 priority is always "a Good Man"... the rest is easily lost to a bad economy or fate...
i already have one. my boyfriend isn’t rich and i’m standing by him. but he’s ambitious which is what i like. he understands the important of financial stability and we have the same goals. if he was living in fantasy land acting like love is all that matters though we’re broke and poor living under a bridge, we definitely wouldn’t be together. money isn’t everything but yes it matters. if five years from now he’s struggling and i’m excelling, i’m not marrying him or bringing children into this world with him.
It shouldn't be an issue, beacuse people always want a partner with certain qualities. If she is not with you because of your money, then she's with you beacuse of you hight, status, looks, or inneligence. There is always something
Because if a woman wants stability that makes us gold diggers. Lmao
@linadagoddess Yeah I know it's ridiculous.
And the men that get mad about it and worked up over it reject women for shallow reasons...
Yes!!!
There isn't a problem as long as she's a gorgeous blonde with double d breasts a small waist large hips amazing head skills and ready for sex whenever he is as well as being able to cook clean and greet the man at the door with his favourite drink and a clean house
It's only an issue to broke men. Men with the resources have no issue providing.
Exactly the dusties
@Uptowngirl88
Yeah, but only to quality women, though.
How many quality women are on this post, exactly?
@Mcheetah figure that out yourself. GAG isn't a dating app. That's the issue you men have on here. None of us women are looking to determine what guy on here is of quality because we are not interested in any men on gag. You guys want honesty I gave it. The reality is women in general love men with resources. Either get your bread up or cry about it🤷🏾♀️
@Mcheetah Who are you to talk quality when you don't even possess a real profile pic?
@Mcheetah your question has been answered. Maybe you're just slow.
Whew what is going on here girllll 🍿 eating
@Sincerly_KittyCat girl they ask for the truth from us then when they recieve it they get defensive. Usually the broke ones are angered by my comment. If a man has the resources why would he be upset by my comment?🤷🏾♀️ u see the broke ones tell on themselves everytime
True true, because I personally will not go with a man with no resources. Its weird when they call women gold diggers for that but at the same time bash women for not making better mate choices when she ends up in a broke situation, just doesn't make sense.
Girl!!! Right they expect us to settle for them like hell nah. Don't nobody want a broke dude. None of these dudes on here have the gold to dig for anyway 🤣. Yeah they always wanna bash
It gives weird vibes to be biclering with women on the internet.
Because then there is no passion for the man himself. If a man marries a woman like that and, even at no fault of his own, loses his career your relationship is over.
I would rather take a girl who can support herself rather than who depends on me for financial support.
And to answer your no man wants to be used for money by women.
And paying on dates is very outdated in my opinion
I have no problem with that if the woman is going to act in a traditional manner also but that is rarely the case. Women have been telling men to stop being masculine for a long time so many of them have done just that
Because there will be a massive divorce settlement, Dr. Dre will tell you.
Because we want what they're incapable of giving - love. Whereas they all want and care about money only.
Because men are looking for true lovers and not gold diggers
So a woman wanting a man who is financially stable is a gold digger? Lol. You clearly don't know what a gold digger is.
@Cherry234 but I believe in true love. I don't care if he's stable or not. I care if he's just truly loving or not. And I can also get stable myself without depending on him and if necessary, I'll provide him financial stability. So yes, in my opinion, I feel that girls should focus if he can take care of her heart, mind and provide her the security or not. I like focusing on priceless but valuable things that he can give me instead of seeking just financial stability from him. This was my point in pointing out girls who are only looking for money stability from their partner, mostly will be gold diggers. May not be true for everyone, but for most of the people. That's the reason men don't like girls who are just marrying them by looking their financial stability.
@Cherry234 At what age do you believe a man is "financially stable"?
@Vegasrunner I'm not sure maybe late 20's or early 30's.
@Anon There are women who are looking for men who are both loving and financially stable. And they can get both. A gold digger only wants a person for money and doesn't love that person at all. Just because women have that as one of their criteria doesn't mean that they're bad or worthless. Financial stability is especially important when wanting to have children because you need the resources to raise children. There are men here who are getting mad and taking it personally when they have other criteria for women, especially shallow ones that they reject them for. I don't understand it. I don't see what's wrong with having preferences and criteria for who you want to date or marry.
And I honestly think that asking for a man who is financially stable is reasonable. That doesn't mean he has to be wealthy. It doesn't mean he has to make six figures.
@Cherry234 you can have your own preferences and nothing wrong with that. Yes, to raise children they need to be financially stable or you need to. But you can't judge a boy purely based on financial stability. If a girl chooses to be with a boy only because he is financially stable, then she's considered to be a gold digger. But even the criteria that you mentioned, if a man is judged based on his financial stability or if he gets a girl only if he's financially stable and not for his loving nature and all other priceless thing, then she's probably a conditional lover and not an unconditional lover. Most guys or girls wants an unconditional lover. That's the reason they get irritated by conditional lovers. It's not always a man's responsibility to fulfil financial needs of a wife. A wife can work and earn to become financially stable too. She shouldn't always depend on a man for that.
* priceless things
@Cherry234 And what annual income do you consider financially stable?
@Vegasrunner $40k-$50k
@Cherry234 Lol, that's cute and I appreciate the answer but 50K is not financial stable in America, Garbagemen make more than that. On the other hand you standards are realistic so no one can call you a gold digger.
@Vegasrunner In certain parts of the country it is, like somewhere in the midwest or the south. In a high cost of living area like Los Angeles it's not.
But I think even a salary above $50k like $65k-$70k is more financially stable.
because uh... they don't want to be used?
Holy shit the woman who is barely a teenager is the one who actually gets it.
For the same reason that stealing from us is an issue for us. There's no reason we should have to work for our money and women should be able to steal it from us.
The problem is the dishonesty and double standards.
Here's a secret: everyone wants to be catered for, EVERYONE. Some people learned it's a trap or that no one will.
Because if we wanted a gold-digging whore, we would call a escort. Just be honest from the start instead of leading him on for attention due to your low self esteem.
Cause they lie about it and pretend that they dont when its obvious they do. Meanwhile guys are forthcoming about picking chicks based on how hot they are
Not an issue for me. Don't want gold diggers anyway.
I feel fine about girls caring about money because of financial issue in the future, but gold diggers are unacceptable.
Because as long as I can pay my half of the rent, the only thing the relationship should cost me is time.
It is only an issue for men that don't have money or a good income. It is only an issue when they are rejected.
Most of us don't even make 50K a year even with 5 years of experience and a bachelors degree.
Therefore we feel automatically disqualified and move on to look for women, who don't have such requirements and seek deep emotional connections.
That got me thinking. Making 50K a year with 5 years of experience and a bachelors degree? I am not sure what I might be doing wrong if it's possible for me to make even more money.
So if you want deep emotional connection and a woman who doesn't want your money, are you willing to accept her if she just wants a childless marriage? Like she'll also earn but she never wants to have children.
@Star_88 That is perfect for me. I am childfree myself, so it's a match!
Even better if she's a career lady.
This might be called Dual income (and) no kids. I'm looking forward to it.
Also I like traveling.
That's really nice.
Not sure , maybe because if the roles were reversed he'd get referred to as everything but his name
Only the men that feel they can’t secure a good income/job to get a woman dead such a thing
Dread****
I don't have an issue with either. Problems only arise if that's all they want from me.
It's not an issue. I hope you get the man that you want.
Because beggars can't be choosers. If they don't have anything to offer other than heavily sampled privates... they aren't in a position for requests.
I have my own house, sportscar, truck and car, music and movie collection, stereos, and TVs my own business. You should have just as much if you want me or walk on, unless you're a cute, kind and caring girl that isn't a gold digger.
The same reason why men wanting a woman with very little sexual partners is a huge issue for women
Women who see men as a paycheck when all they literally bring to the table are their holes pisses men off because we have value and work hard in life and all these parasites do is open their legs and expect an easy life.
Women should date other women.
Then woman A would expect woman B to pay for the dinner and date, etc.
But also woman B would expect woman A to pay for the dinner and date etc.
It's not. Women are hypergamous by nature and that's not going to change. The only reason a guy would fear it is because he'll question wether you're really with him or in it for financial reasons
What makes you think that a man with solid income would be interested in a broken beach?
Because men aren't the ones complaining for equal pay.
The same reason men wanting women who are attractive and healthy weight is a huge issue for women.
Because the majority of us Men find it very difficult to obtain that.
I don't know. It's kinda our job to do that and provide for our family.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with wanting financial stability from a partner, but when it becomes one of the primary reasons you’re with them it’s an issue.