I don't know honestly, but knew a guy once like that who said it works 1/50 times, so it basically worked still, just had to keep at it. Although far from just men, i known 4-5 women myself who was married but sent me nudes etc, and I am ugly on top of it.
We have no choice ^^ I'm not talking about him being married but in general. I personally have isolated myself a lot in the past to take care of my mental health but I've resolved a lot of stuff and I feel more interested in pursuing women than ever before ^^
There are a few sharks out there who genuinely are that selfish/toxic.
They don't care about the morality of cheating and they don't care if they get caught.
'Whats my wife going to do? Leave me? She'd never do that because she loves me too much. I'll just buy her flowers and tell her she needs to more more to make this relationship work for both parties.' 😕
He was talking out of his ass guaranteed. I'd bet actual money he was depressed, immasculated, and likely very recently rejected. He was looking for an ego boost.
Shitty move but guys talk different around just guys than if there's a woman around.
These guys are losers! They get married because is the only way to convince the girl to get him p###sy!! I live in South Asia all the western loser men end up here. They lie and say anything to get laid. They’re like loser of losers!
They can’t be a man and just tell the girl they wanna sleep with her only
Fundamental reason? Could be just an evolutionary thing, this might be a bed hypothesis but males are incentivised to "get with" as many women as possible. Plus that compounded be maybe a lack of shame or fear of losing a loved one gets you that perhaps?
I'm just here lurking to wait and see how many really thirsty guys get angry. When a guy hits on me and I don't know how he will react or get aggressive about it I try to let him down gently and get away. Sometimes it's an ego thing. Sometimes it's hormonal. Sometimes they're not aware they're doing it and just flawed humans and don't take hints and just need to be communicated. Some who need to be told no. Some are douchebags.
It's not that guys are thirsty or more thirsty than girls. It's that they usually make the move lol, unwanted or not. Get your facts straight little girl.
I never said they weren't more thirsty than girls. Some girls are just as guilty. To assume that wouldn't be right. Also, it's becoming more mainstream for girls to make first moves too. This post seems to be more targeted towards douchebags and people that can't take no for an answer or don't understand social ques. I don't know what you're saying about getting my facts straight. These types of interactions are all case by case. I'm literally not much younger than yourself.
Yes it goes both ways. The social construct is why we usually here of the case of men being in this situation... approaching/initiating. So the question asker is a foolish, sexist woman.
I don't know. I think in her situation her experiences are valid. We can acknowledge both men and women have this issue but that this situation that happened to her was inappropriate.
Yes she's upset. I know I would if my partner was approaching/looking at other women. But men being "thirsty" is contributing to sexism. Many men are already damaged by this.
This probably isn't a proper answer, but I feel like a lot of it has to do with societal expectations and maturity. Despite what a lot of people are saying, a man's self worth is still measured by how many girls he's been with. The other half of it is that some people just don't know how to control themselves.
I've always felt like an odd duck when it comes to stuff like this. I've never "hit" on anyone, especially not when I was already seeing someone.
Cuz some guys are gerks but not all guys are that way an even if his wife is giving him fun he just likes some on side for him its probably about the thrill of maybe getting caught by his wife an I single I've had some really bad exs so I'm very cause
In name of all men... no. We are not brainless apes that get controlled by ours dicks. Some chose to act on their impulses and then blame men nature testosterone and whatever to justify themselves.
This man is a cheater. And being a cheater is not about his wife, it is about his character. Even he can have sex at home, he can do this because he does not have any honour in himself. And yes being horny can be about his hormones but his reactions and character is about himself. He is a cheater, liar and a womanizer. There are many men like that ‘’it is not about their nature’’ it is about their choice. If you hit on all women all day, it means that you have no work to do.
Testosterone. It’s a biological hormone that can litteraly make you do and think things you may regret later. Some men have more than others. Ever heard the term “post nut clarity” or jerking off before major decisions? That’s not false. Though it shouldn’t completely cause someone to lose control. Women are different though. They are fully aware of their decisions.
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Man... I really don't know myself. Maybe it's the way I was raised but it's not something I cannot not think about. It just gets to me. Of course I do my best to resist so it's not inappropriate but it's not as easy as people make it seem it should be in my opinion.
Guys don't get sex often or some not at all. Women can basically get it whenever they feel like, but men, even good looking men, have yo work for it and be rejected many times before ever coming close to pussy. That's why.
There's a high likelihood his marriage is lacking sexually. Maybe him and his wife have an open marriage. Maybe he just doesn't love or respect his wife as much as he says he does. Maybe his wife cheated on him and he's on that path of revenge. Who knows? Ask him the next time he approaches you.
I'm a psych major and in my opinion I would say it's a combination of things.. it could be that he has very low self esteem and so he feels the need to compensate his worth with "notches on his bed post" or it could be someone with an over abundance of testosterone, which excess is obviously not being burned off. He's should probably worry more about working out than working out his mouth.. lol 😆 😂 🏋️🗣️
My guess would be his wife won’t lay him. But who knows. Probably a lot of pent up frustration and very blue balls, for the ones that are noticeably thirsty. I don’t see it that often but maybe I just have blinders on.
if you have to ask this question, it would be impossible to explain it. I'll try: Go to a room full of 100 men and tell them all they can fuck you and there will be no consequences such as anyone finding out, pregnancy, STD's, etc. I guarantee, you will get fuck 300 times, 3 times by each and every man
Are we really? Cheaters too? It takes (two) to cheat. And what makes you so sure my wife would approve of my initiations towards others ? By far women are so thirsty for multitudes of stuff today that trying to switch it around to men to discredit them is the epitomy of our times.
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I don't know honestly, but knew a guy once like that who said it works 1/50 times, so it basically worked still, just had to keep at it. Although far from just men, i known 4-5 women myself who was married but sent me nudes etc, and I am ugly on top of it.
I see you have your "Whiny" on again today... Hunt for Husband not going to well, eh?
Blame it on the COVID... When they let the jackals out the 1.6 year COVID Cage everyone was looking for something to munch on...
Never is looool
We have no choice ^^ I'm not talking about him being married but in general. I personally have isolated myself a lot in the past to take care of my mental health but I've resolved a lot of stuff and I feel more interested in pursuing women than ever before ^^
There are a few sharks out there who genuinely are that selfish/toxic.
They don't care about the morality of cheating and they don't care if they get caught.
'Whats my wife going to do? Leave me? She'd never do that because she loves me too much. I'll just buy her flowers and tell her she needs to more more to make this relationship work for both parties.' 😕
Fortunately, most people aren't like this.
Lol is that what you ACTUALLY think is going through guys heads? 🤣
Lol I bet a guy who said exactly this. He was married but very willing to hit on any waitress that worked there
He was talking out of his ass guaranteed. I'd bet actual money he was depressed, immasculated, and likely very recently rejected. He was looking for an ego boost.
Shitty move but guys talk different around just guys than if there's a woman around.
These guys are losers! They get married because is the only way to convince the girl to get him p###sy!! I live in South Asia all the western loser men end up here.
They lie and say anything to get laid. They’re like loser of losers!
They can’t be a man and just tell the girl they wanna sleep with her only
Fundamental reason? Could be just an evolutionary thing, this might be a bed hypothesis but males are incentivised to "get with" as many women as possible. Plus that compounded be maybe a lack of shame or fear of losing a loved one gets you that perhaps?
Or someone who doesn’t have any respect for their wife and is total garbage of a human being 😆
I would say care.. but still.. I'm not sure if it's true but people seem to believe it happens more with males somehow maybe
I'm just here lurking to wait and see how many really thirsty guys get angry. When a guy hits on me and I don't know how he will react or get aggressive about it I try to let him down gently and get away. Sometimes it's an ego thing. Sometimes it's hormonal. Sometimes they're not aware they're doing it and just flawed humans and don't take hints and just need to be communicated. Some who need to be told no. Some are douchebags.
It's not that guys are thirsty or more thirsty than girls. It's that they usually make the move lol, unwanted or not. Get your facts straight little girl.
I never said they weren't more thirsty than girls. Some girls are just as guilty. To assume that wouldn't be right. Also, it's becoming more mainstream for girls to make first moves too. This post seems to be more targeted towards douchebags and people that can't take no for an answer or don't understand social ques. I don't know what you're saying about getting my facts straight. These types of interactions are all case by case. I'm literally not much younger than yourself.
Yes it goes both ways. The social construct is why we usually here of the case of men being in this situation... approaching/initiating. So the question asker is a foolish, sexist woman.
I don't know. I think in her situation her experiences are valid. We can acknowledge both men and women have this issue but that this situation that happened to her was inappropriate.
Yes she's upset. I know I would if my partner was approaching/looking at other women. But men being "thirsty" is contributing to sexism. Many men are already damaged by this.
I understand you and where you're coming from. Both points are valid.
This probably isn't a proper answer, but I feel like a lot of it has to do with societal expectations and maturity. Despite what a lot of people are saying, a man's self worth is still measured by how many girls he's been with. The other half of it is that some people just don't know how to control themselves.
I've always felt like an odd duck when it comes to stuff like this. I've never "hit" on anyone, especially not when I was already seeing someone.
Cuz some guys are gerks but not all guys are that way an even if his wife is giving him fun he just likes some on side for him its probably about the thrill of maybe getting caught by his wife an I single I've had some really bad exs so I'm very cause
It's in their nature. I've learned to just let it go and remember that we don't have the balls literally to understand how horny they can be lol
Troll 🤡
Can u stop being disrespectful on my question
@lucina_rose
In name of all men... no. We are not brainless apes that get controlled by ours dicks. Some chose to act on their impulses and then blame men nature testosterone and whatever to justify themselves.
But that’s exactly why I’ve said in my question *some* men ^
Can you stop being a sexist?
Alright solved. @lucina_rose has been blocked and now she can stop harassing people on my question.
This man is a cheater. And being a cheater is not about his wife, it is about his character. Even he can have sex at home, he can do this because he does not have any honour in himself. And yes being horny can be about his hormones but his reactions and character is about himself. He is a cheater, liar and a womanizer. There are many men like that ‘’it is not about their nature’’ it is about their choice. If you hit on all women all day, it means that you have no work to do.
Testosterone. It’s a biological hormone that can litteraly make you do and think things you may regret later. Some men have more than others. Ever heard the term “post nut clarity” or jerking off before major decisions? That’s not false. Though it shouldn’t completely cause someone to lose control. Women are different though. They are fully aware of their decisions.
Man... I really don't know myself. Maybe it's the way I was raised but it's not something I cannot not think about. It just gets to me. Of course I do my best to resist so it's not inappropriate but it's not as easy as people make it seem it should be in my opinion.
Are you saying your horny often?
More often than I like to be, but yes?
I see
Guys don't get sex often or some not at all. Women can basically get it whenever they feel like, but men, even good looking men, have yo work for it and be rejected many times before ever coming close to pussy. That's why.
But he’s MARRIED. He sleeps next to pussy every night!
Married guys are just gross, but maybe he's tired of the woman he's got or maybe she isn't giving him any.
I’m starting to think she doesn’t give him any
There's a high likelihood his marriage is lacking sexually. Maybe him and his wife have an open marriage. Maybe he just doesn't love or respect his wife as much as he says he does. Maybe his wife cheated on him and he's on that path of revenge. Who knows? Ask him the next time he approaches you.
I'm a psych major and in my opinion I would say it's a combination of things.. it could be that he has very low self esteem and so he feels the need to compensate his worth with "notches on his bed post" or it could be someone with an over abundance of testosterone, which excess is obviously not being burned off. He's should probably worry more about working out than working out his mouth.. lol 😆 😂 🏋️🗣️
My guess would be his wife won’t lay him.
But who knows. Probably a lot of pent up frustration and very blue balls, for the ones that are noticeably thirsty. I don’t see it that often but maybe I just have blinders on.
if you have to ask this question, it would be impossible to explain it. I'll try: Go to a room full of 100 men and tell them all they can fuck you and there will be no consequences such as anyone finding out, pregnancy, STD's, etc. I guarantee, you will get fuck 300 times, 3 times by each and every man
Are we really? Cheaters too? It takes (two) to cheat. And what makes you so sure my wife would approve of my initiations towards others ? By far women are so thirsty for multitudes of stuff today that trying to switch it around to men to discredit them is the epitomy of our times.
It must be something in their jeans. Or is it in their genes.
Lmao