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That’s probably why , cuz his wife isn’t giving him any , Us guys are created this way , we love sex it’s in our genes , us guys need are physical needs to be met, for us to be happy in life , that’s how we express our love to the girl we gave our heart to , yes emotional needs as well but mainly physical , Girl’s are wired different , A girl needs her emotional needs to be met for her to want to have sex , and that’s why most relationships and marriages don’t make it , because people can’t remove selfishness for each other , and why sex is very important in a relationship, if sex dies then so does the relationship,, the only way love grows between a guy and girl Is you both remove selfishness for each other and to sacrifice for each other , you won’t always get your way , if you can’t accept that and do that for your partner like they do that for you, be prepared to be single again or cheated on When a husband is denied sex from his wife all the time cuz she makes him feel like he has to earn it , be prepared for that husband to have wandering eyes and more than likely be drawn to another girl , When a wife feels her husband doesn’t meet her emotional needs and she compares her man to other men and she listens to her toxic friends over him , she will have wandering eyes as well and be drawn to a guy with higher status etc. I am not saying everyone is a cheater , but for a relationship to work, you both have to remove selfishness for each other and sacrifice for each other , whether you agree or disagree with your partner. You have to come to a compromise and work things out , you should both be wearing each other’s shoes and making each other your priority , over friends over family etc, If you can’t do that for each other , be prepared for resentments to come into play and your relationship breaking apart , Love only grows when we remove selfishness and sacrifice for each other , We are all imperfect people , but when you give your heart to someone that you expect the same in return , you have to work at it to become one , if not be prepared to be single again and living a selfish life and never experiencing true love , So since that married guy is going from one girl to another he is a piece of shit , but if he was just coming to you and showing interest in just you that might of been a different story , just because someone is married doesn’t make them an asshole person , when they show interest in us , we don’t know what life they are living , his wife might be the biggest bitch ever and treats him like shit and he is only holding on to her cuz it’s cheaper to keep her , I know a lot of people will not agree with this , but I had my fair share of married women that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , and yes I ended it with them the second I found out but the 1 married girl I met that I actually had respect for was the one that was upfront right from the start that her husband treats her like shit and she doesn’t know what to do , he is abusive to her and scared to leave him , I honestly felt sorry for her and had more respect for her that she was honest with me , I still told her she is going to have to end it with him first before we start hooking up , but I told her I will gladly be her friend and be there for her while she was going through the divorce , So just because someone is married don’t just assume they are a piece of shit , is one thing I have learned in life , We never really know what’s going on behind someone’s closed doors, The way this world is today it seems more people are selfish and only really care about themselves , No one wants to be cheated on but they have no problem cheating themselves , so finding that special someone that values you like You value them is hard To come by these days , I feel social media doomed us
Because he's a cheater miss alyssa rapunzel, no other explanation, it's simple and easy! He jusy cannot commit or get enough from one woman...
Let's say that his wife ain't giving him sex, it means that there is something wrong, no sane wife would tell NO to her husband especially that she knows that her husband have the right to have sex with her at any time as long as she ain't sick or suffering from other issues...
If the married couple aren't making love, it means that there is something wrong in their relationship and they need to repair the things that are ruining their sexual behavior!
Cheating is never the solution, no matter what the problem is and no matter who's fault it is!
If the couple cannot reach an agreement with each other and repair their relationship than better getting a divorce instead of cheating!
We do not know why this guy in you're gym is doing it, i mean the reasons behind it, it can be his fault and it can be his wife's fault or it can be that he'a just obsessed with sex and need more than one woman to fullfill his needs...
Anyways the conclusion is that this man is a cheater and womanizer, i hope that women doesn't fall in his trap!
I guess it's the numbers game? You try 1000 and maybe you'll get one. You don't try at all and oh well? I have also noticed that my male friends are more indiscriminate than I am when it comes to approaching women - I will approach a guy and if it doesn't work, I usually can't spark enough interest in someone else that quickly, but the guys are out there just chatting up the next girl. For me, it's a head game, more than just a physical need and I can't switch gears that quickly.
I've never really gotten the online horny guy thing though. THAT is rampant and weird. It's like real life on steroids.
His wife isn't fulfilling his needs but that gives him no excuse to cheat. I think some people will remain thirsty until we drown them in our cum. I want to start a new juice line. It’ll be sold in vagina shaped canteens and dick shaped water bottles. I think it’ll sell and swell
Watch somebody steal my idea 🤣 But im just sayin, if they can sell vagina scented candles, im sure we can make a new form of juicers and thirst quenchers
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Some guys just play the odds. Most good-looking guys get a yes ratio of 10 to 1. So, out 10 girls he hits on, 1 will be receptive and perhaps go have some sluty bedroom fun. Most average looking guys have a 100 to 1 ratio. Most ugly guys... well, it breaks the calculator. The only things that help this equation is having lots of money and/or being married.
Yes ladies, for some reason some of you out their love married men. I never got hit on more than when i was married and in shape.
Another reason why the vast majority of men are thirsty is because women are the gatekeepers to sex...
With people in general. respect is earned, not given. To many people today (especially women) confuse courtesy with respect. A man should be courteous to a woman, but he doesn't have to respect her. How can you respect someone you've just met? It doesn't mean the guy is a dickhead. He is only a deckhead if he was also rude and not courteous.
Well, the only thing that can be the answer is biology and an even better one is individual biology.
We all know men are biologically more inclined to be hornier than women and seek out and think about sex more often than women.
Why? Well, men need to procreate
To procreate with as many women as possible to spread their genes far and wide
You don’t accomplish this by being the least amount of horniness
With the least amount of thinking about sex and how to get more of it
Individually speaking though, some men have more of this drive than others but
The average man is more horny, thinks about sex more, and wants sex more than the average woman.
it's a curse really...
Probably depends on who you ask.
What’s that saying?
“One man’s trash is another man’s treasure”
it's a curse for me... I want to be a good guy but my neck is always sore!
I’ll focus on the first question as the second one is more personal depending on the person.
It all boils down to one thing and that’s men being more sexually driven than women. Unlike contrary belief there are a lot of men out there that get no action from women let alone even get their attention. Women have the upper hand because men come to you and you decide if you want to pursue something and those men you say no to are probably getting rejected by all the girls and the ones you say yes to (which is rare) is also getting yes’s from other girls. So now you have a bunch of men who are sexually driven, but get no attention at all, and you get thirsty people, this is why porn sites, OnlyFans, Night Clubs are so popular. Women get attention from men so they don’t have the same pressure as men do. It’s like a rich person telling a poor person “why are you so thirsty for money”.
That’s just how some fellas that have no tact or manners are, the gym is not the place to meet someone unless you actually form a bond of working out and things just fall into place. I go to the gym to work out. I don’t want to be worried about some female messing up my zone. So I assume women feel the same way in the gym if they are serious about their fitness. So I don’t do that and my advice to dudes is don’t do that either. It’s weak ineffective , and quite frankly sends a needy single.
Exactly man people just need to be respectful and learn to be nice again. People just live in a huge hurry. What I know of women is in a setting where they are in a messy bun sweats no make up May have brushed teeth and rushed to the gym then gonna go home and shower , and does not want someone close to them. I am pretty quiet and I observe people I have all my life.
Cheating isn't okay, but did he specifically tell you that his wife isn't fulfilling his needs? That he was actually gonna cheat on her?
What if the couple was into polyamorous relationships? Like threesomes, etc. I honestly don't know why he's shooting his shot to every girl when he's married, but I don't know his situation so I don't know what to make of it.
I don't understand this mentality. Women say they want guys to approach and then call them desperate when they do. That's backwards thinking. Is he not allowed to approach another woman after being rejected? Does he have to wait a set period of time before trying again? Seems kind of restrictive.
They don't want married guys after them mate.. At least most of them don't!
@TommyMountainFigure some definitely don't see to mind (https://www. girlsaskguys. com/relationships/q4744581-sleeping-with-married-man)
But it seems like him being married was an extraneous detail to me and QA was trying to lump guys going after many women as "desperate". That's the way I interpreted it.
Lol, he definitely doesn't get laid enough at home.
That's a very reckless approach, he is probably at a point where he doesn't care much about getting caught.
That, or he is actually just a jackass who consumes too much PUA nonsense and the time he told you he is married he was bluffing, hoping you would somehow become more attracted to him if he told you he is taken.
That's not really "thirsty," you don't understand the term, it seems.
Also, it's more likely you're assuming he was trying his shot. No guy would try a serial hit on women in that manner. He was probably asking for something else, but your ego sexualised it.
Some guys are just like that. They view every attractive woman as an opportunity for gratification. It's a narcissistic trait. Why do some women feel they are too good for every guy despite having nothing to offer? Unfortunately it's a game of numbers, a guy with those traits will eventually get lucky with one of the girls and if she gets pregnant, his genes will be passed on to the next generation. That's the reality of why some undesirable traits are so prevalent. Without a woman, those genetic traits would be dead in the mud.
Monogamy ain't natural. After awhile, most couples end up as ROOMIES with no sex life.
That alone should tell you everything you need to know.
But reading the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan is the Death Knell to monogamy.
Most don't.
Over a 40 year period, 67% of all FIRST Marriages end, with most not reaching the 8 year mark. That doesn't include the other 33% who are living like roommates with no sex life, and/or cheating on each other, as well as those who want to divorce but can't because it's too expensive, or kids are involved, or their family would look shamefully at it, etc.. So really you have maybe a good 10% chance or so of a monogamous relationship really lasting and being satisfying. I'm no economist but those odds aren't worth the risk.
My jaw is on the floor. The amount of guys here excusing his behaviour...
Unless he is in a open relationship he is a piece of shit. Anyone who does this, man or woman, is a piece of shit.
Testosterone, DNA and masculitinty don't excuse it. We have brains, we can think. He can feel free to say in the custody hearing "I am sorry I can't control myself I am a man" I am sure that will go great in deciding who is the most capable parent.
I chose to believe that GaG community doesn't represent most people in real life. If it does the world is lost.
Nature's default motivation is like 'johnny apple seed'
Ask yourself 'why' nightclub blacks are so predatorily seducing, especially to rebellious naive white girls? (Because many BLACK, Asian or latino women don't fall for their bullshit!)
How many black males favor using condoms?
Nature's ALL bout... shooting that wad o' semen DEEP and widely.
NOT about supporting the progeny~
You RARELY see BLACK women either portrayed or in real life,
actively seducing white or latino or Asian males to even just hook-ups.
Anecdotal TRUTH ain't 'pretty' or fashionably 'politically correct'.~
The better looking a guy is and successful the more they try. No sweat of they get rejected because to them you're just a sex toy. They can get any girl they want and are so arrogant that if they do get rejected it's her not him that's the loser. Because they're the king.
It's the body that gives him the mentality. I'm the opposite I'm good looking facially but chubby. I don't hit on women I just talk to them. Which seems to work. Some dating advice I've been given by "men" is talk to her for 20 minutes and whip your dick* out. Or 20 minutes in just grab her breasts or crotch. What do you think of that "advice"?
My thoughts too.
For some men, it wouldn't matter if they're getting any at home or not Nor should it, if they're not happy in their sex life or relationship, that's still no excuse to flirt or cheat with other women.. Why do some men do this? Because they feel they can..
But not all men are like that!
I can say it's pretty hard not getting a crumb of attention as a man. I understand why some guys seem desperate but not a married man. He's kinda just a dope. Think though what it would be like to always be alone. No friends, no one asks you out, people rarly smile at you. Not a single soul asking you on a date or just asking how your day is going. It's incredibly tough for some of us.
Maybe his wife is one of those types who wants an open relationship and he agreed only if he can get some from someone else and he appears to be struggling. Like men often do especially if they're married. I'm not one to advocate for open relationships though. I am against them 1000%. If anything in against relationships in general
Welcome back Alyssa.
Well, because they feel that life is short, and they want to sleep with as much women as they can. Notice these guys always in their 20s... But I promise it's not like that in later ages.
At a certain age in a relationship, the spark just eventually goes away between both lovers. So men or women are so thirsty because they need that spark to go again. Relationships are like Russian Roulette, no matter how many times you spin the cylinder of the barrel you'll never hit your mark. You getting married in a relationship and sometimes between lovers they're not in the mood to give him or her anything especially love.
Well you see ass bouncing and boobs juggling : you expect him not to be aroused?
He should be to a cray level at least.
And that’s not all if he don’t get it solved he will literally have health issues so either his wife or himself or another girl do it
And as u said maybe at home he is not getting any
So primarily, you do not know what the relationship the person has with his partner, as many comments have said, maybe his partner is not giving him any but i definitely do agree that flirting with other women isn't a good way of resolving it. I also have read that many people are in open marriages and maybe he was in one, who knows. If he was, i do hope someone tells him to go for marriage counselling as that does help a lot.
Unfortunately, as mentioned in a few comments, irrespective of the sex a person, there will always be a small group of thirsty people, maybe due to being exposed to a lot of free adult content on the internet, which maybe increases the need for some action, in a few, I'm stating observations that i have seen around me and from posts online, I'm not psychologist , so i cannot say why for sure. I hope this sort of helps!
I don't know honestly, but knew a guy once like that who said it works 1/50 times, so it basically worked still, just had to keep at it. Although far from just men, i known 4-5 women myself who was married but sent me nudes etc, and I am ugly on top of it.
I see you have your "Whiny" on again today... Hunt for Husband not going to well, eh?
Blame it on the COVID... When they let the jackals out the 1.6 year COVID Cage everyone was looking for something to munch on...
We have no choice ^^ I'm not talking about him being married but in general. I personally have isolated myself a lot in the past to take care of my mental health but I've resolved a lot of stuff and I feel more interested in pursuing women than ever before ^^
There are a few sharks out there who genuinely are that selfish/toxic.
They don't care about the morality of cheating and they don't care if they get caught.
'Whats my wife going to do? Leave me? She'd never do that because she loves me too much. I'll just buy her flowers and tell her she needs to more more to make this relationship work for both parties.' 😕
Fortunately, most people aren't like this.
Lol I bet a guy who said exactly this. He was married but very willing to hit on any waitress that worked there
These guys are losers! They get married because is the only way to convince the girl to get him p###sy!! I live in South Asia all the western loser men end up here.
They lie and say anything to get laid. They’re like loser of losers!
They can’t be a man and just tell the girl they wanna sleep with her only
Fundamental reason? Could be just an evolutionary thing, this might be a bed hypothesis but males are incentivised to "get with" as many women as possible. Plus that compounded be maybe a lack of shame or fear of losing a loved one gets you that perhaps?
Or someone who doesn’t have any respect for their wife and is total garbage of a human being 😆
I would say care.. but still.. I'm not sure if it's true but people seem to believe it happens more with males somehow maybe
I'm just here lurking to wait and see how many really thirsty guys get angry. When a guy hits on me and I don't know how he will react or get aggressive about it I try to let him down gently and get away. Sometimes it's an ego thing. Sometimes it's hormonal. Sometimes they're not aware they're doing it and just flawed humans and don't take hints and just need to be communicated. Some who need to be told no. Some are douchebags.
It's not that guys are thirsty or more thirsty than girls. It's that they usually make the move lol, unwanted or not. Get your facts straight little girl.
I never said they weren't more thirsty than girls. Some girls are just as guilty. To assume that wouldn't be right. Also, it's becoming more mainstream for girls to make first moves too. This post seems to be more targeted towards douchebags and people that can't take no for an answer or don't understand social ques. I don't know what you're saying about getting my facts straight. These types of interactions are all case by case. I'm literally not much younger than yourself.
Yes it goes both ways. The social construct is why we usually here of the case of men being in this situation... approaching/initiating. So the question asker is a foolish, sexist woman.
I don't know. I think in her situation her experiences are valid. We can acknowledge both men and women have this issue but that this situation that happened to her was inappropriate.
Yes she's upset. I know I would if my partner was approaching/looking at other women. But men being "thirsty" is contributing to sexism. Many men are already damaged by this.
I understand you and where you're coming from. Both points are valid.
This probably isn't a proper answer, but I feel like a lot of it has to do with societal expectations and maturity. Despite what a lot of people are saying, a man's self worth is still measured by how many girls he's been with. The other half of it is that some people just don't know how to control themselves.
I've always felt like an odd duck when it comes to stuff like this. I've never "hit" on anyone, especially not when I was already seeing someone.
Cuz some guys are gerks but not all guys are that way an even if his wife is giving him fun he just likes some on side for him its probably about the thrill of maybe getting caught by his wife an I single I've had some really bad exs so I'm very cause
It's in their nature. I've learned to just let it go and remember that we don't have the balls literally to understand how horny they can be lol
Troll 🤡
In name of all men... no. We are not brainless apes that get controlled by ours dicks. Some chose to act on their impulses and then blame men nature testosterone and whatever to justify themselves.
Can you stop being a sexist?
This man is a cheater. And being a cheater is not about his wife, it is about his character. Even he can have sex at home, he can do this because he does not have any honour in himself. And yes being horny can be about his hormones but his reactions and character is about himself. He is a cheater, liar and a womanizer. There are many men like that ‘’it is not about their nature’’ it is about their choice. If you hit on all women all day, it means that you have no work to do.
Testosterone. It’s a biological hormone that can litteraly make you do and think things you may regret later. Some men have more than others. Ever heard the term “post nut clarity” or jerking off before major decisions? That’s not false. Though it shouldn’t completely cause someone to lose control. Women are different though. They are fully aware of their decisions.
Man... I really don't know myself. Maybe it's the way I was raised but it's not something I cannot not think about. It just gets to me. Of course I do my best to resist so it's not inappropriate but it's not as easy as people make it seem it should be in my opinion.
More often than I like to be, but yes?
Guys don't get sex often or some not at all. Women can basically get it whenever they feel like, but men, even good looking men, have yo work for it and be rejected many times before ever coming close to pussy. That's why.
Married guys are just gross, but maybe he's tired of the woman he's got or maybe she isn't giving him any.
There's a high likelihood his marriage is lacking sexually. Maybe him and his wife have an open marriage. Maybe he just doesn't love or respect his wife as much as he says he does. Maybe his wife cheated on him and he's on that path of revenge. Who knows? Ask him the next time he approaches you.
I'm a psych major and in my opinion I would say it's a combination of things.. it could be that he has very low self esteem and so he feels the need to compensate his worth with "notches on his bed post" or it could be someone with an over abundance of testosterone, which excess is obviously not being burned off. He's should probably worry more about working out than working out his mouth.. lol 😆 😂 🏋️🗣️
My guess would be his wife won’t lay him.
But who knows. Probably a lot of pent up frustration and very blue balls, for the ones that are noticeably thirsty. I don’t see it that often but maybe I just have blinders on.
if you have to ask this question, it would be impossible to explain it. I'll try: Go to a room full of 100 men and tell them all they can fuck you and there will be no consequences such as anyone finding out, pregnancy, STD's, etc. I guarantee, you will get fuck 300 times, 3 times by each and every man
Are we really? Cheaters too? It takes (two) to cheat. And what makes you so sure my wife would approve of my initiations towards others ? By far women are so thirsty for multitudes of stuff today that trying to switch it around to men to discredit them is the epitomy of our times.
It must be something in their jeans. Or is it in their genes.
Because most men don't get enough attention from the opposite sex in their lives, so they will do anything for such attention.
I'm not saying that justifies the behavior, but that's the main reason why.
If he's at a gym, regardless if he's married, he's gonna be checking out ass. Whether he acts on it or not shows his character which, given the circumstance, means you made the wise choice in rejecting him.
I was a horny Guy back in the day. My wife was the only one with a sex life so I found out. I have no idea why i was faithful, Maybe he is in a marriage like mine, Maybe she is screwing everyone except him.
Yes that's harmonal... We are designed to procreate with every able bodied fit women whom our minds identify to be right match... and the desire goes on and on... otherwise sex without the urge is just exercise and cardio and mosy of us are lazy and nobody will want to do it...😃😃😃
Because men and women are different. Men get no attention and don't have anywhere the same value a woman has. Women dont need to be desperate because they don't have to do anything but just be a woman and aman will approach her. Men are pursues and a lot of men become desperate because they have been failing over & over again and the hormones are going off like crazy then for a lot of men comes desperation
You do realize that most marriages these days are fueled by artificial love? So there’s that.
Also, men have the tendency to approach the opposite sex, embedded in our dna. It’s very rare to see women approach men
Maybe his wife is withholding sex. If that’s the case it is time for him to fix the relationship or leave, not cheat. Maybe he’s just a jerk who likes to have sex with lots of women. People cheat for a lot of reasons.
Absolutely no idea, honestly as a guy watching these idiots is just embarrassing and pretty pathetic, they clearly aren't getting any and struggle to get it because they have zero decorum.
Ugh nasty cheaters don’t deserve anyone. All they do is hurt their wives/girlfriends!
She is fine cause maybe he pays the bill and works harder for the family.
And if he leaves she takes half his money and house and maybe the kids too.
You have no idea how it's gonna come, most men when they proposed they didn't know this gonna come from their wifes they choosed to marry.
Most men they know when they marry they sacrifice.
But u also right , some men can't hold their balls.
@3o43o4 That's an assumption. He is throwing himself at women, I doubt he cares about his family.
If she works and pays for stuff literally half of it is hers. And if he is like that she clearly should keep the kids.
If he married a woman who didn't had a job and chose to marry with separation of goods... it's on him.
None of this is an excuse to cheat.
You need to grow your opinion.
You can't judge with few details like the asker mentioned.
And the question is why are some men so thirsty and i said you right , some idiots can't hold their balls.
And im trying to say is many good men are trapped in marriage and can't get o7ut.
And children need a man and a woman both.
When a kid is between hands of two parents is better than one.
Simple.
Maybe you need to talk more seriously with different men, they will explain many different situations.
Anyway have a great Sunday.
@3o43o4 Yes I can judge him.
He is trying very hard to cheat on his wife. That's all I need to know.
Trapped in a marriage is something that can happen to anyone. For different reasons. However it is rare. I am not going to assume that is the situation here.
Having both parents is great. But is better to have one, than to have one good and one bad.
You too have a good day.
It's called testosterone, just like any other mammal males try to breed with as many females as they can. The fact that he's married was f'ed up he was definitely wrong on that one.
Because unlike a lot of women, men don't lie to themselves and act like sex is wrong. Talk about thirsty... try being a dude wearing sweatpants... women turn into mrs find a dong, acting like they have never seen a dickprint.
Fellas, is it desperate to.. uhh..
*Squints at smudged writing on wrist*
.. play the game?
Why did you like this?
I'm telling you you're being an irrational cow.
Then you wouldn't have liked it.
Get a grip.
But you didn't like every one of them.
men aren't taught how to receive love and care so they think they can only achieve self worth through sex
Yes, it's sad that the marriage vows ( to forsake all others) is not taken seriously anymore.
isn't that just the way they are wired? I've watched enough david attenbourgh docos and its all about being the alpha right?
Lmao nah cause I be doing the same thing and we still fuck it’s just ion know I still wanna fuck other girls. Like sometimes ion even wanna fuck her I just wanna beat some other shit😭😭
Nah we not married but the city im from everybody be married by 20-25 so 😬
Some women at the gym thought I was hitting on them like mad. I wasn't, I thought I was just being helpful, and friendly.
Perception.
Because many guys never grew up past jr high and only think with their dick. Key why so many women get unsolicited dick pics, otherwise it would take very little thought to realize it's rude and dumb to send unwanted penis pictures.
Because they have a higher sex drive and are spending their free time watching porn.
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