That’s probably why , cuz his wife isn’t giving him any , Us guys are created this way , we love sex it’s in our genes , us guys need are physical needs to be met, for us to be happy in life , that’s how we express our love to the girl we gave our heart to , yes emotional needs as well but mainly physical , Girl’s are wired different , A girl needs her emotional needs to be met for her to want to have sex , and that’s why most relationships and marriages don’t make it , because people can’t remove selfishness for each other , and why sex is very important in a relationship, if sex dies then so does the relationship,, the only way love grows between a guy and girl Is you both remove selfishness for each other and to sacrifice for each other , you won’t always get your way , if you can’t accept that and do that for your partner like they do that for you, be prepared to be single again or cheated on When a husband is denied sex from his wife all the time cuz she makes him feel like he has to earn it , be prepared for that husband to have wandering eyes and more than likely be drawn to another girl , When a wife feels her husband doesn’t meet her emotional needs and she compares her man to other men and she listens to her toxic friends over him , she will have wandering eyes as well and be drawn to a guy with higher status etc. I am not saying everyone is a cheater , but for a relationship to work, you both have to remove selfishness for each other and sacrifice for each other , whether you agree or disagree with your partner. You have to come to a compromise and work things out , you should both be wearing each other’s shoes and making each other your priority , over friends over family etc, If you can’t do that for each other , be prepared for resentments to come into play and your relationship breaking apart , Love only grows when we remove selfishness and sacrifice for each other , We are all imperfect people , but when you give your heart to someone that you expect the same in return , you have to work at it to become one , if not be prepared to be single again and living a selfish life and never experiencing true love , So since that married guy is going from one girl to another he is a piece of shit , but if he was just coming to you and showing interest in just you that might of been a different story , just because someone is married doesn’t make them an asshole person , when they show interest in us , we don’t know what life they are living , his wife might be the biggest bitch ever and treats him like shit and he is only holding on to her cuz it’s cheaper to keep her , I know a lot of people will not agree with this , but I had my fair share of married women that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , and yes I ended it with them the second I found out but the 1 married girl I met that I actually had respect for was the one that was upfront right from the start that her husband treats her like shit and she doesn’t know what to do , he is abusive to her and scared to leave him , I honestly felt sorry for her and had more respect for her that she was honest with me , I still told her she is going to have to end it with him first before we start hooking up , but I told her I will gladly be her friend and be there for her while she was going through the divorce , So just because someone is married don’t just assume they are a piece of shit , is one thing I have learned in life , We never really know what’s going on behind someone’s closed doors, The way this world is today it seems more people are selfish and only really care about themselves , No one wants to be cheated on but they have no problem cheating themselves , so finding that special someone that values you like You value them is hard To come by these days , I feel social media doomed us
Because he's a cheater miss alyssa rapunzel, no other explanation, it's simple and easy! He jusy cannot commit or get enough from one woman...
Let's say that his wife ain't giving him sex, it means that there is something wrong, no sane wife would tell NO to her husband especially that she knows that her husband have the right to have sex with her at any time as long as she ain't sick or suffering from other issues...
If the married couple aren't making love, it means that there is something wrong in their relationship and they need to repair the things that are ruining their sexual behavior!
Cheating is never the solution, no matter what the problem is and no matter who's fault it is!
If the couple cannot reach an agreement with each other and repair their relationship than better getting a divorce instead of cheating!
We do not know why this guy in you're gym is doing it, i mean the reasons behind it, it can be his fault and it can be his wife's fault or it can be that he'a just obsessed with sex and need more than one woman to fullfill his needs...
Anyways the conclusion is that this man is a cheater and womanizer, i hope that women doesn't fall in his trap!
I guess it's the numbers game? You try 1000 and maybe you'll get one. You don't try at all and oh well? I have also noticed that my male friends are more indiscriminate than I am when it comes to approaching women - I will approach a guy and if it doesn't work, I usually can't spark enough interest in someone else that quickly, but the guys are out there just chatting up the next girl. For me, it's a head game, more than just a physical need and I can't switch gears that quickly.
I've never really gotten the online horny guy thing though. THAT is rampant and weird. It's like real life on steroids.
His wife isn't fulfilling his needs but that gives him no excuse to cheat. I think some people will remain thirsty until we drown them in our cum. I want to start a new juice line. It’ll be sold in vagina shaped canteens and dick shaped water bottles. I think it’ll sell and swell
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Some guys just play the odds. Most good-looking guys get a yes ratio of 10 to 1. So, out 10 girls he hits on, 1 will be receptive and perhaps go have some sluty bedroom fun. Most average looking guys have a 100 to 1 ratio. Most ugly guys... well, it breaks the calculator. The only things that help this equation is having lots of money and/or being married.
Yes ladies, for some reason some of you out their love married men. I never got hit on more than when i was married and in shape.
Another reason why the vast majority of men are thirsty is because women are the gatekeepers to sex...
Well, the only thing that can be the answer is biology and an even better one is individual biology.
We all know men are biologically more inclined to be hornier than women and seek out and think about sex more often than women.
Why? Well, men need to procreate
To procreate with as many women as possible to spread their genes far and wide
You don’t accomplish this by being the least amount of horniness
With the least amount of thinking about sex and how to get more of it
Individually speaking though, some men have more of this drive than others but
The average man is more horny, thinks about sex more, and wants sex more than the average woman.
I’ll focus on the first question as the second one is more personal depending on the person.
It all boils down to one thing and that’s men being more sexually driven than women. Unlike contrary belief there are a lot of men out there that get no action from women let alone even get their attention. Women have the upper hand because men come to you and you decide if you want to pursue something and those men you say no to are probably getting rejected by all the girls and the ones you say yes to (which is rare) is also getting yes’s from other girls. So now you have a bunch of men who are sexually driven, but get no attention at all, and you get thirsty people, this is why porn sites, OnlyFans, Night Clubs are so popular. Women get attention from men so they don’t have the same pressure as men do. It’s like a rich person telling a poor person “why are you so thirsty for money”.
That’s just how some fellas that have no tact or manners are, the gym is not the place to meet someone unless you actually form a bond of working out and things just fall into place. I go to the gym to work out. I don’t want to be worried about some female messing up my zone. So I assume women feel the same way in the gym if they are serious about their fitness. So I don’t do that and my advice to dudes is don’t do that either. It’s weak ineffective , and quite frankly sends a needy single.
Cheating isn't okay, but did he specifically tell you that his wife isn't fulfilling his needs? That he was actually gonna cheat on her?
What if the couple was into polyamorous relationships? Like threesomes, etc. I honestly don't know why he's shooting his shot to every girl when he's married, but I don't know his situation so I don't know what to make of it.
I don't understand this mentality. Women say they want guys to approach and then call them desperate when they do. That's backwards thinking. Is he not allowed to approach another woman after being rejected? Does he have to wait a set period of time before trying again? Seems kind of restrictive.
Lol, he definitely doesn't get laid enough at home.
That's a very reckless approach, he is probably at a point where he doesn't care much about getting caught.
That, or he is actually just a jackass who consumes too much PUA nonsense and the time he told you he is married he was bluffing, hoping you would somehow become more attracted to him if he told you he is taken.
That's not really "thirsty," you don't understand the term, it seems.
Also, it's more likely you're assuming he was trying his shot. No guy would try a serial hit on women in that manner. He was probably asking for something else, but your ego sexualised it.
Some guys are just like that. They view every attractive woman as an opportunity for gratification. It's a narcissistic trait. Why do some women feel they are too good for every guy despite having nothing to offer? Unfortunately it's a game of numbers, a guy with those traits will eventually get lucky with one of the girls and if she gets pregnant, his genes will be passed on to the next generation. That's the reality of why some undesirable traits are so prevalent. Without a woman, those genetic traits would be dead in the mud.
Monogamy ain't natural. After awhile, most couples end up as ROOMIES with no sex life.
That alone should tell you everything you need to know.
But reading the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan is the Death Knell to monogamy.
My jaw is on the floor. The amount of guys here excusing his behaviour...
Unless he is in a open relationship he is a piece of shit. Anyone who does this, man or woman, is a piece of shit.
Testosterone, DNA and masculitinty don't excuse it. We have brains, we can think. He can feel free to say in the custody hearing "I am sorry I can't control myself I am a man" I am sure that will go great in deciding who is the most capable parent.
Nature's default motivation is like 'johnny apple seed'
Ask yourself 'why' nightclub blacks are so predatorily seducing, especially to rebellious naive white girls? (Because many BLACK, Asian or latino women don't fall for their bullshit!)
How many black males favor using condoms?
Nature's ALL bout... shooting that wad o' semen DEEP and widely.
NOT about supporting the progeny~
You RARELY see BLACK women either portrayed or in real life,
actively seducing white or latino or Asian males to even just hook-ups.
Anecdotal TRUTH ain't 'pretty' or fashionably 'politically correct'.~
For some men, it wouldn't matter if they're getting any at home or not Nor should it, if they're not happy in their sex life or relationship, that's still no excuse to flirt or cheat with other women.. Why do some men do this? Because they feel they can..
But not all men are like that!
I can say it's pretty hard not getting a crumb of attention as a man. I understand why some guys seem desperate but not a married man. He's kinda just a dope. Think though what it would be like to always be alone. No friends, no one asks you out, people rarly smile at you. Not a single soul asking you on a date or just asking how your day is going. It's incredibly tough for some of us.
Maybe his wife is one of those types who wants an open relationship and he agreed only if he can get some from someone else and he appears to be struggling. Like men often do especially if they're married. I'm not one to advocate for open relationships though. I am against them 1000%. If anything in against relationships in general
Welcome back Alyssa.
Well, because they feel that life is short, and they want to sleep with as much women as they can. Notice these guys always in their 20s... But I promise it's not like that in later ages.
The better looking a guy is and successful the more they try. No sweat of they get rejected because to them you're just a sex toy. They can get any girl they want and are so arrogant that if they do get rejected it's her not him that's the loser. Because they're the king.
At a certain age in a relationship, the spark just eventually goes away between both lovers. So men or women are so thirsty because they need that spark to go again. Relationships are like Russian Roulette, no matter how many times you spin the cylinder of the barrel you'll never hit your mark. You getting married in a relationship and sometimes between lovers they're not in the mood to give him or her anything especially love.
Well you see ass bouncing and boobs juggling : you expect him not to be aroused?
He should be to a cray level at least.
And that’s not all if he don’t get it solved he will literally have health issues so either his wife or himself or another girl do it
And as u said maybe at home he is not getting any
So primarily, you do not know what the relationship the person has with his partner, as many comments have said, maybe his partner is not giving him any but i definitely do agree that flirting with other women isn't a good way of resolving it. I also have read that many people are in open marriages and maybe he was in one, who knows. If he was, i do hope someone tells him to go for marriage counselling as that does help a lot.
Unfortunately, as mentioned in a few comments, irrespective of the sex a person, there will always be a small group of thirsty people, maybe due to being exposed to a lot of free adult content on the internet, which maybe increases the need for some action, in a few, I'm stating observations that i have seen around me and from posts online, I'm not psychologist , so i cannot say why for sure. I hope this sort of helps!
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