Do men really change?

[sara_lynn1]

Will a man really only change certain behaviors for the "the one" or is that all bullshit?

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+1 y

I mean cheating nothing about personality

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It depends… What are you expecting them to change?


People can change, but they have to put in the effort to want to change. You can’t make someone change if they don’t want to.. That’s the bottom line.

Certain behaviors that they have that you’re expecting them to change might be a dealbreaker for them or simply something that they cannot change because it’s their personality and what makes them who they are.


The thing is, you shouldn’t have to expect someone to change. If they don’t change, they’re not the one lol. You shouldn’t wait around for someone who won’t change their bad behaviors.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Cheating has to do with personality. And no. I don’t believe cheaters change. Leave them.

[Alyssa_11]

I think men change but maybe not for a woman he would’ve already changed for

[Alyssa_11]

Oh cheating!! Yes I think they can change. It’s just risky though

[dudeinohio]

Women always expect a man to change for them. That is an unrealistic expectation.

You need to accept a man for who he is. If you cannot do this, then find one who already meets your expectations.

If you manage to make the guy change, he will become resentful and unhappy in the relationship. Ir will be doomed to fail.

There is a saying:

"Wonen expect a man to change. Men expect a woman to stay the same"

[dudeinohio]

In regards to cheating... no. he will never change. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[SignedAutographs]

Why would you want him to?

Shouldn't you like him for HIM?

Not who you want him to be?

[2021biguy]

Why do you want him to change? What if he wants you to change, what would that say?

[Iron_Man]

It’s possible everybody can change