My coworker & I had a good time at the gig & enjoyed the other groups who played. We did stay after & hung out with a few other people. When I realized how late it was I panicked about being able to drive back. I did not have Uber or Lyft. I was a 30 minute drive away from home & I wasn't sure what I was going to do. He did offer me a ride, but mentioned to not make this a regular thing. I felt so bad when he told me that, I was ready to just sleep in my car. He insisted he take me to make sure I was safe.
I apologized during the entire ride, & told him if he needed space from me I would get it. He seemed cool during the & we had a couple of laughs. I could tell he was bit annoyed still. He also made a comment about how he shouldn't have given me my last drink. He walked me to the stairs that lead to my apartment & we hugged good night.
When I saw him at work, he did talk to me in general for a bit & was nice. When I asked him about doing lunch he said he needed space. I didn't to him about lunch. He did bump into me & started up a few conversations. He also has given me some smiles too. I was starting to think things were starting to get better between us.
He ended up calling the end of the week due to a cold. When he came back again today he was nice. Today I asked him (probably for the last time) about lunch. He said he wanted to keep lunch to himself. But again later was super nice & gave me big smile like he has been the since the night of the show. Should I avoid him/not go to his shows/assume he hates me? To me it's just confusing on how I should handle us interacting from here on out. If he just hated me I can be ok "not happy but ok" avoiding him. It would be great if things were back to normal, but clearly they are not.