The probable reason is that you may attract unwanted attraction (from other guys or maybe from potential criminals)
There are 2 ways to interpret this: either it's for your security (having less attention and blending in is often a good strategy to be safe from possible assaults/robberies etc) OR it is his insecurity that you may catch the attention of someone who is better than him
Your solutions:
1. Carry self defense stuff: safety is always the best policy
2. Realise that his insecurity will never go away (or at least till a few years). The essence of a relationship is communication, if you can't have that, then your relationship is fake. You can either find a middle ground, compromise fully or leave him
As for the common "i am free to do whatever I want", yes you are. But each action has a consequence. Just remember this.
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He mistakenly believes what you wear is up to him. It could be a sign of a controlling personality that lacks self confidence.
He's going to end up abusing you in the future. Numerous studies have been done which conclude that men who pursue relationships with girls where they're more than 4 years older than her when she is in the high school ages (16, 17, 18, etc.,) will end up abusing her physically, mentally, emotionally, and/or sexually.
The statement "I don't want you to leave me for someone else" used in conjunction with him criticizing something about you is textbook abusive/manipulation.
A 7 year age gap is not concerning when both parties are established adults, but when one party is still a minor? That's a control thing.
Are you sure your age is right on here? He is 23 and you’re 16?
Your boyfriend sounds insecure about your relationship. He wants you to dress a bit more modest and not show skin because he’s worried that other guys may stare at you and you’d leave him for a better looking man. At least, that is what I understand from your description. He should trust you and you should trust him.. trust is the foundation of all relationships.
You should dress however you want to as long as it isn’t too revealing/provocative. He shouldn’t have a say in how you dress.
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He’s insecure about the relationship for whatever reason if he is worried about other guys staring. So long as you trust each other, shouldn’t matter.
He also sounds controlling. You are entitled to dress how you want and how you feel comfortable.Sounds like he is amazed you are with him and he may not be secure in the stability of the relationship. It's your body and your choice, always has been, and always will be, BUT, for the good of the relationship, you might want to dress with a little less skin showing out in public, then dazzle him in private. sounds like that's what he is hinting at at least.
Sounds like by your answers to comments, and being an Xper 1, I believe you are just trolling.
Sound like a good bit of insecurity couples with a need to be controlling.
have words with him and explain you wear what you are happy with.Yeah see it's sexy when a guy gets jealous but also there's nothing wrong with being desired by a lot of men and only wanting one.
I totally agree with you. He’s being paranoid. You’re it gonna leave him cause you wore a crop top.
You are 16, and he is 23? 😶
You should cover up for the sake of the God.
U shouldn’t be shamed for ur choice of clothing
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