What is wrong with him?

[Anonymous]

I'm very confused. In the beginning of our relationship everything was great. We was married... we have two kids..1 year old and a 1 month baby. But things turned.. He would always bring up his ex girlfriend. Which made me feel uncomfortable. I never got over it. He called me a confused person and he can't be with me anymore. He says I don't lift him up. He even called me evil. I don't understand because I didn't do anything to him. He starts the arguments than blame everything on me. Now he telling me he wants to do polygamy because I'm hard to deal with, im full of drama and that I can't get over him talking about his ex.(which hurt badly) He also said no man wants to deal with me and he has a better chance in finding love. Now his family and friends are calling me evil. I been through a lot with him and I feel like having a nervous breakdown because I know I'm not evil. I didn't do anything wrong. I'm questioning my own self sometimes.

[kylee2437]

Don’t question yourself. Seems to me like he’s putting blame on you to give reason as to why he feels the way he feels when in reality it seems like he’s the problem. Him turning his family against you is a huge problem, however it’s not your place to try and convince them that he’s in the wrong because it seems to me like they believe whatever he says. I’d break up with him