What are subtle signs a guy likes you?

[Anonymous]

Like for example: keeping the conversation going every time you meet, remembering details from your convo from a while back etc?

[LaNc3L0TT]

"keeping the conversation going every time you meet, remembering details from your convo from a while back etc?" both examples are not 100% that he likes you, don't misunderstood kindness.
I would say, look for traditional signals, he wants to spend as much time as he can with you, he is sending txts, responding in short period of time or instantly. If you are somewhere together, he keeps looking you in eyes, trying to be close to you, in conversation with others he supports your ideas or your opinions/stories, etc.

[Asker]

We aren’t close at all. I work at a salad bar and he is a customer of mine. He is the only customer I have that starts a conversation with me and asks me questions about myself and actually remembers stuff I say that I can’t even remember. He honestly could just be a friendly guy who knows. My curiosity just got the better of me

[LaNc3L0TT]

It's cool I guess you are "thinking" about him so you are going in full "thinking" mode and running back all situations you had (what you talk about, etc). If you are behaving like this I guess you are hooked a bit :p
Next time if he goes like this I guess you should play along and see whats gonna happen, nothing to lose tbh. :D

[vapido]

If he texts or emails you first at least as much as you contact him first - even if his messages are not flirtatious.

[However - and this is a totally different topic - don't assume he has lost interest if he contacts you with less frequency! Men - in general - don't have the same level of interest, skill, talent or motivation with respect to communication as do most women. I don't know if it is due to nature, nurture, or a little of both - but I do believe it is real. The exception of course is when they start talking about themselves - at that point all bets are off! ;-) ]

[Anonymous]

Those are good examples. Just make sure to meet him halfway out on that scary limb.

[spartan55]

Neither of things you mentioned necessarily mean he likes you.

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys are not subtle. Why would you wanna see signs? If you like him then ask him out

[Asker]

I’m not brave enough

[Asker]

I need to be SURE he likes me in order for me to make a move. But I’m rarely ever sure sooo I guess that doesn’t help either😅

[BarryLiverstone]

You are brave enough. If you ask and he says no what’s the worst thing that could happen?

[BarryLiverstone]

by the way here is the truth. Just asking someone out isn’t the only time to be ‘brave’. Once you go out on a date you will need to express how you feel again. After several dates will need to express how much you like them. Eventually gotta say you love them. Learning how to express how you feel is the only way to progress in a relationship. Both people have to be willing to be brave.

[Asker]

Every point you made is valid. I guess you gotta suck up your fears and go for something/someone you want

[BarryLiverstone]

#yolo exactly

[BarryLiverstone]

Plus the more you take that risk the easier it gets. Our biggest fears are always the unknown

[Asker]

Very true. Maybe one day I’ll become a pro at asking people out😮‍💨

[BarryLiverstone]

Saw that he’s a customer of yours. Here is my suggestion. Next time you talk let him know that you are tired of eating where you work and will be trying out XXX restaurant this weekend. Then ask if he’s ever eaten there and based on what he says say he can come with you. That’s a casual way of asking him out.

[TrillXHippy]

Remembering details from a conversation awhile back