What does pick me mean?

[marish01]

I got called that very often by feminists because I am anti feminist. They think I want it for male attention so men would pick me. Lol
This is said about a 30 year old virgin who has always rejected men. What a pick me I am.
Here is one of the pick me accusation I got on my yt channel.

[lightbulb27]

I'd assume "playing a game" to impress guys to pick you... like you are being a show off to get attention. It's an underhanded way of belittling you.
Maybe they see you as desperate? you should ask them what they mean.

Women can be caddy and cutting, people can be. There's mean and heartless undertones.

[tokyolights]

Hm some things don't add up, just because you are celibate or just never want to be in a relationship or do anything with romance, doesn't mean you aren't a "pick me" 😂 Also the definition of Feminism is "the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes". I can't see how you as a women doesn't want the same rights as a man. But that is not the point. I feel like you are in fact calling for attention, or "pick me" by being a anti-feminist celibate Female. AND you make yt videos on it girlie like wth what kind of response do you expect from that 😂

[marish01]

My videos are not about not wanting equal rights. Lol
But if I wanted male attention that much why would I be celibate?

[tokyolights]

From this post alone (I honestly don't know you at all) I can say that I respect you for being celibate, but celibacy doesn't mean you don't want attention, it just means you have refrained from intimacy or romance for now at least. I admit I haven't seen your videos so I don't know how much you talk about anti-feminism and your own celibacy, but I can see how some viewers may think you are calling for attention.

[caitycat21]

According to the urban dictionary a pick me girl is a girl that goes out of her way to impress boys in order to make themselves seem “not like other girls” or “one of the good ones” me
also pick me girl: *can't even ollie* example 2: boy: girls are dramatic pick me girl: IKR! I only hang out with guys because i can't handle girls drama !1!1 example 3: *literally nobody*:

[ohshee]

I don't know why but for some reason this is a sexy sexy question by the time that I got to the bottom of it I don't know I just felt something rush through my body LOL

[Guanfei]

A pick me girl is a girl who would do and say anything to get the attention of guys, even against her own interests.
Basically they're saying that you can't think for yourself and just follow guys opinion to please them.
A very common insult from feminists, who consider it as an argument.

[bamesjond0069]

A pick me is someone men might actually want to pick for a romantic relationship. Its the opposite of a disgusting feminist slut men don't want at all and would never pick.

[sirderpsalot123]

"Pick me" is a strategy used by feminist, to try and control women who don't gleefully accept the brainwashing that is feminism.

[motownplayer2000]

Lol. And you even answer feminist lol. You are a hell of a lot better then them… don’t worry them

[TallAnon]

"A girl who acts like she's not like other girls, going out of her way to impress men", google "pick me girl" for the whole definition.

[marish01]

I know but how does that apply to me?

[TallAnon]

Probably because you label yourself as anti-feminist, which is quite contrarian nowadays. That fulfills the "I'm not like other girls" part. The "trying to impress men" part could have been gathered by his impression of your looks, behaviour, etc.

[fonduegirl]

You always seek man's side. So it somewhat applies.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

You kinda seem like one tbh

Are you asking for the definition of it or why you're getting called it?

[Anonymous]

A "pick me" girl is the type of girl, who aims to please her boyfriend. Boyfriends are lucky to have "pick me" type of girls. the male counterpart is called a "simp".

[Anonymous]

"Pick me" is just the latest feminist strategy to try to shame women who don't toe their line. You should wear that badge with pride.

[marish01]

Are they the feminists who are against shaming women?

[Opinion Owner]

Precious few

[Juxtapose]

The concept shouldn't exist since even the ugliest woman can get a man no problem.

[Snsl153]

You think?

[Juxtapose]

@Snsl153 yes.

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Women who literally smell like shit can still get men. Try being a man who smells like shit and doing that xD

[Xtendable]

They obviously are speculating on why you post what you do, just because you may oppose their point of view. I’m sorry this has happened to you

[cth96190]

Why have you rejected men?
Are you a lesbian?

[marish01]

Not at all

[fonduegirl]

You do come across as one, ftr

[marish01]

How so? I've never even gone to a date with a man.

[fonduegirl]

I'm not into dating myself. It's just something I've noted and I'm sorry if it's insulting — but you do come across as a woman who seeks a lot of male approval and validation, from your questions and such.

[marish01]

No, it's okay. I respect your opinion.

[fonduegirl]

Good. I respect u as an antifeminist too.

[Berethor]

Looks like you already know.

[PsychedelicZebra]

I don't understand. Are you asexual or something?

[Deserter]

Just call that loser a simp

[Sevenpointfive]

someone desperate to please a man

[ArtemisSilver]

It's like watching a snake eating itself.