Is it normal to feel anxious and sad when he talk less?

[Anonymous]

I like him more and more. and we texted a lot. but since his birthday in last month, he started to talk less. I feel like I no longer fun to him. i asked him why he talk less. and he said he got more things to do. but when he have some days that he has nothing to do.. he didn't initiate to talk more and even ignore my messages.

[Anonymous]

Definitely normal, because you’re noticing he’s losing interest and it’s sad because you know eventually it’ll be over. If he’s not responding to your messages and hardly talking, then don’t force it, or dig your nails in deeper to hold on. Learn to let people go when you see it’s happening, rather than did your nails in deeper just because you aren’t ready.

[Opinion Owner]

*dig your nails in deeper

[Anonymous]

I don't know him or what all he's got going on in his life, or your relationship, but maybe he's not a talker and/or not a texter in general? It may not be a "bad sign" or mean anything. Maybe he's just got nothing to say?

[Asker]

I still remember something similar happened in last year.. and he said he got nothing to say...

[boggboss]

Clearly he is getting bored

[Asker]

why he didn't cut off the contact right away?

[boggboss]

Why would he

[Asker]

isn't he bored?

[boggboss]

Yes and thats why he dont message u all the time but when he decides too

[Asker]

what should I do? how to cope this feeling

[boggboss]

Accept it move on tell him u like him anything

[Crankor]

Offer to hang out and see what happens